ok...i have to clear things up.
i made this thread just to have fun. AD hasnt had fun for awhile. cheri told me she was interested in someone from AD and that, that AD member was interested in her. but they didn't want to say anything until they met in person. i thought it would be fun to guess who it was. i honestly didnt mean anything mean or hurtful by this thread. i asked Cheri a couple times if it was alright to post this thread. and she said "i dont care" i guess i should have gotten a straight YES answer. i didn't see it but she told me that someone made a public remark about her being a slut or whore. and ANYONE who knows cheri, knows that, that just isnt true. it was just a fun thread about who she is dating. and i told cheri, if i had even one thought in my mind that this thread could go bad i wouldnt have created it. call me naive. i guess i am. but in my mind i didn't see this happening. and if i had i wouldn't have made this thread. unfortunatley for Cheri...this was another time when i didn't think before i acted.