Reba said:I think you can decorate for Christmas, that's fine. Just remember to get your daughter a birthday cake and birthday presents (not mixed with Christmas presents). I'm sure that you are more sensitive about your daughter than my in-laws were for my hubby (and his sister--she was a December baby, too). Their parents used to say, "Hey, you got plenty of Christmas presents, you don't need birthday presents too!" My hubby never, never had a birthday party, until we married.
One suggestion: Set aside "birthday" money for your daughter each year during the summer. Then, when all the Christmas expenses pop up you will still have enough money just for her birthday cake and presents.
When my parents were alive, my sis-in-law used to have a July "birthday" party for them, instead of their actual birthday in December.
He has one sister. She was born in December also.Liebling:-))) said:I'm wondering about your hubby. Do he have siblings? If yes, I find it's unfair when they receive birthday presents in different months except December.
They did get some birthday presents (when they were old enough to notice), but very reduced because of Christmas. They did have simple birthday cake, but just for the family, no kids' parties.
VamPyroX said:I don't have one since I'm living in the dorms. However, if I did get one... it would be artificial because I don't want to have to go through with the hassle of taking care of a real tree. Plus, it's really messy as the tree is brought in the home and as the tree is being cleaned out. :roll:
)) at German forum. I asked Admin. to help me where to find poll because I can't find. She told me that she don't have poll in her thread so I created a thread with election: 

just want to have a empty house this year and had no time to decorate.. also no reason to :P