Another Official Member Photo Thread (comments ok!)

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catlover_Amy81 said:
*sighs* nobody comments about me... So! What do you think of me? Am I pretty or ugly? Should I lose weight? Should I change my hair color? Should I get a short haircut? Please tell me!! I'm trying harder to find a boyfriend! :booty:
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DEAR... MEN WILL/CAN SENSE(SMELL) YOUR DESPERATION! AND THEY WILL RUN!!!

MEN HATE DESPERATED WOMEN PERIOD... TRUST ME ON THIS ONE!!! :hug:

never ask men about your looks or anything.. they WILL NOT ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS OR ANYTHING... OR SOME MIGHT INSULT YOU EVEN MORE....

talk to your girlfriends that you can trust/confide into? your sister, your mom, etc???

i used to be over 50lbs overweight, depressed, etc. due to many things... and the feeling was SUCKY! but i did something about it!!! now men are coming to me now!!! :lol: like i said men know when you are depressed, desperate, etc... so i suggest for you to seek counseling, (work on yourself for a while- focus on yourself) then when you feel better then change your looks or something, you will know what to do when the time is right!!!)

now people/men are amazed at the way i present myself (i don't mean to brag) i went to see my dad and his wife for the first time in months on father's day... their JAWS DROPPED! and also my sister's mil too when i saw her a last week... the feeling was JUST GREAT!!! :lol:

so get your sorry ass off of the chair ... DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... STOP SULKING AND FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF... take advantage of the summer weather!!! :hug: you can do it girl!!! :) THEN YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER AND MORE CONFIDENT THAN YOU ARE NOW!!!

***if you ask meggie, i am a lot different now than i was LAST SUMMER!!! I WAS AT MY LOWEST POINT THAN EVER LAST SUMMER! i now look back, i am AMAZED THAT I HAVE COME A LONG WAY since then!!! with the support of my family and friends!!! ***
 
Oh okay, thank you very much. Sorry, I couldn't take it anymore... Well, yes, I have seen the therapists... well, some of them gave me bad advices... :rl: *sighs* I use to drive my sister nuts because I ask her all the times, "How do I look?", "Do I look allright?", and others. Some of my exs dumped me for stupid reasons. Blah! I'm sorry, everybody, I know I sound likes as a crazy person.... :doh:
 
catlover_Amy81 said:
Well, I'm sufffering with depression, I was thinking about my look. But I was thinking that nobody likes being I'm heavyweigh or body figures something. You know, I alway hate my life. That makes me feel hurtful and furious when a guy hits on more beautiful, sexy, and others than me. Yes, of course, I have a few ex-boyfriends; not longer than 6 months.
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Honey, Im overweight here but its never stopped me from dating. Not all men look for surface beauty but value inner beauty more. There is always going to be someone more prettier, funnier, smarter, wittier, shapely or whatever than me but what I make sure is that I make the best out of ME :)
 
catlover_Amy81 said:
Oh okay, thank you very much. Sorry, I couldn't take it anymore... Well, yes, I have seen the therapists... well, some of them gave me bad advices... :rl: *sighs* I use to drive my sister nuts because I ask her all the times, "How do I look?", "Do I look allright?", and others. Some of my exs dumped me for stupid reasons. Blah! I'm sorry, everybody, I know I sound likes as a crazy person.... :doh:
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then screw the therapists! you probably had lousy ones... no offense but it sounds like you have no self esteem... you need to build up your self esteem and like yourself.. and make yourself feel good.. if you don't like the way you look.. maybe you can make some changes to better yourself? just a suggestion? your exes are assholes! ok? they don't know anything sheesh! BUT NEVER ask men about your looks cuz it puts them on the spot... ask your girlfriends, your sisters, etc for advices, etc...

no you are not crazy.. you are just "down" and frustrated... and i can understand that.. some of us have been in your shoes... keep your chin up girl!!! :)

don't try too hard to look for a boyfriend cuz it WILL NOT HAPPEN... don't think about it... just let it happen naturally... so keep yourself busy!!! then you won't think too much about men and it will happen! ;) i never thought i would meet this guy... but i did with a friend's persisting (sp?)! ;)
 
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Honey, Im overweight here but its never stopped me from dating. Not all men look for surface beauty but value inner beauty more. There is always going to be someone more prettier, funnier, smarter, wittier, shapely or whatever than me but what I make sure is that I make the best out of ME :)
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same here!!! :grouphug:
 
sablescort said:
...and oh BTW time for me to throw my pic in the official member photo thread after a long time being a member of AD and not putting up a few pics of myself here....
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pah I seen a pix of u cuz i wonder if u lookd the same in avator.. heh j/k ;) but u look good :)
 
here u go since u people wonder how I look like right now

have fun drooling over my pix ;)
 

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don't try too hard to look for a boyfriend cuz it WILL NOT HAPPEN... don't think about it... just let it happen naturally... so keep yourself busy!!! then you won't think too much about men and it will happen!

Catlover, have i said this before? You can do it.. try not to be so harsh to yourself. It does bring your self-esteem down, the more you think about it. Try to stay positive and keep yourself busy!!
 
it me! i lost weight.. :)
 

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That is me my picture!!! :D
 

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All of you look really GOOD!!! :grouphug:
 
I don't know if I have post my up-to-date photo of me here or not...

Me.... :wave:

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Here's mine, but from almost 2 months ago...i have more but they're on the Sidekick. Boyfriend's borrowed it for a few hours. :)
 

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