Well i have a friend that she was dating this guy, he was ilegal, got caught by ICE and was in jail, My friend would see him in a daily basis. She just loved him, heck she even took me and other friends, so we could wait at that place while she talked to him.she sometimes would come back crying, because he would say just mean things to her..yet she stilll loved him...The guy eventually was deported to Mexico...and so she did too..they moved in together *facepalm*..That caused more problems.. I was just sick and tired of listening to her, when i think it is just simple as run..run..but i guess she was blinded by the relationship, she ended up leaving him with a little help from us..so she is better now, and doesnt have any contact with the inlaws too.