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Tweetybird... I do hope ya will have the strength to be able to deal with this going on with your mom... I did have to somehow get the strength to deal with what was happening to my mom when we were told she had cancer and the days of driving her to the city for treatments and then driving to hospital to bring her there when she was weakened enough that she was unable to do more walking or speaking or whatever... the last several months up to her passing was bad enough for me as I have had to see her in bed sleeping and then waking up to hear us and crying and etc.. I do miss Mom as well as Dad.. it does pain me very much to read what ya are going thru now.. hang on there, and ya will have the strenght ya need to go thru more days like this and etc...
oh yea.. i know abt this.. u still miss ur parents..
yea i will try to be strong for my mom.. it hard on me
i am doing ok, stress and not ready to accpet yet.. so i found out more, my mom have appt dr on may 1 to discuss abt surgery... then we will know more.. sigh.. i found out abt my mom, last week on wed night and i didnt sleep for 45 hrs, been cried hard, out of control and lil crazy.. i really love and cherish my mom. she is my best friend.. i am only child and very close to her.. i dont know what to do, i was shock and speechless.. i pgr DD and told her and she was there and comfortabled me, i was alone while my fiance was at work, i felt alike i wanna SCREAMMM and pull my hair out!!!! wanna to say WHY WHY WHY MY MOM??!?!? i was not accpet, my eyes swell from cried lot lot... so i pgr my fiance to came home from work, he shocked abt this, he was there with me, i didnt eat much alike 4 times in 45 hrs.. so i finally sleep last thursday late night for 9 hrs and now better much sleep but i am think postive abt my mom and be there what she need me.. i dont care abt what waste gas on car.. i wanna make sure my mom is okay and need something.. *tearing* whew.. ok... thanks for support again..
kidding! i know how ur feeling abt ur mom and don't wanna lost ur mom cuz you wanna her be there for ur wedding very soon and if i were in ur shoe i wuld worry abt my mom too since she is over 50's age right now... and as long you need be spend with ur mom as you can do it
and hang in there sista tb
Will be keeping your family in my thoughts & prayers.