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Have any of you encountered deaf people using the relay as a 900 line?
Like Bend said, you really can't call a "900" number, because you have to be able to accept charges to your phone bill, but, I will say I have had some calls that would be in similar context to a 900 number, I can't go into detail, obviously. :roll:
i'm glad you were assertive enough to speak up. i was a new relay user at the time, so i didn't feel confident enough to say something.
however, if that happened to me nowadays, i wouldn't hesitate to say something. if i'm manic or depressed, the hearing person better watch out because like my avatar says, my mood can change at the drop of a hat.
by the way, i've also had hearing people say, "tell her..." and the ca has to interject by saying, "please talk to the caller."
That's our procedure as well, we direct the hearing person to speak directly to the caller (you) at all times. Helps with a lot of confusion issues.
i have another question.
what determines the protocol for waiting on hold?
for example, the ip relay service i use has a policy of informing deaf/hoh/deafblind callers that a 3 minute holding time has expired and asks if i'd like to continue waiting.
does this differ from one relay service to another?
This is from relay to relay, our policy is very friendly to the deaf user, we don't take any control over the call, although sometimes if we are on hold for a very long time (like 30+ minutes) we may prompt the caller for a response, just to make sure that they are still on the line with us. Otherwise, we will hold infinitely with the deaf user.
what do you do when a hearing person or deaf/hoh/deafblind person says a bad word (or a series of bad words) during the course of a conversation? does it offend you? i assume that even if it does, you have to ignore those feelings and convey the entire conversation without censorship.
also, i'm curious to know how you handle a conversation that is emotionally charged and upsetting (such as a family member telling a deaf/hoh/deafblind person that a relative has passed). have you ever been personally affected by such calls and is it difficult not to carry these emotions with you after work?
Yes, we voice everything exactly as it is typed, no matter what. Racial slurs, curse words, dirty talk, etc. Sometimes it can really take a toll on you, luckily our service provides HR assistance if we need to sit down and discuss the call with someone who is upper management (the only people we are allowed to discuss call content with). We just sit down and talk with them about it, and they try to help us cope with some of the stuff we do experience. However, like Bend said, a lot of the time it's pretty easy to "disconnect" the call, or just blankly read the sentances, without giving much thought to what it actually means in the context of the conversation.
When we have a call that is particularly emotional, we try to express the caller's emotions in our voice as well, and deaf users ARE able to express how they want their message to be read, for instance "(opr say this angrily) I have been waiting for 1 hour! Where is my pizza!" or whatever. Sometimes its hard to guess the emotion the caller wants behind their words, so that helps.
Hi Bend and Angry!
I use i711 and if I know that I'm going to get an answering machine, I put in the special instructions what to do. When there is a machine and I don't catch it, I ask for redial, leave message while I get 1 . . . 2 . . . at that time, I'm writing my message. I hope that's not rude. Also, there was a relay operator on here awhile back who was ticked off, which is understandable and she/he said we're quite rude. So, I started ending my call after relay asks if I want another call made, "No, thanks, relay! Have a great day!" Or whichever it is, evening, morning, holiday. I've received one response, which is nice. But, sometimes a simple phone call for me lasts more than 10 minutes, which I do make note of to relay. Isn't there a faster way of doing things sometimes?
Oh, by the way, i711 is set up that GA has the check mark. I also end "sk to sk."
Have a great day, relays! Seriously, you're all doing good work, even though us deafs don't say it very often.
We just have an automated thank you message that we send to every caller, don't take it personally if we do not respond personally to your gratitude, trust me it is appreciated!
The best way to speed up calls is to just be well prepared, and give the opr all the information you can before placing the call. Also, paying attention to the call is a big one, we have to pay attention, it's nice if you do too.
As far as leaving messages, I usually prefer if the caller types out the message entirely BEFORE I start to redial to leave a msg, just in case they are aren't finished by the time I start reading it, I don't want to catch up with their typing.
one time i had a ca who refused to answer my question at the end of my call. they typed (recording to relay) and i didn't understand what it meant in the context of my phone conversation. when i asked the ca to explain what that meant, she didn't respond to my query. she didn't disconnect my call either, so i *know* she saw my question. grrr. sorry if i sound irritated about that, but it really annoyed me. i don't expect ca's to answer EVERY question i have, but i do expect *some* courtesy.
That is just rudeness on the part of that particular CA. I will try to answer every question that I can regarding that particular call, if it's a question more slated toward the relay process in general or our policies, we have a customer service department to field those kinds of questions, so we will ask if that's who you would like to speak with.
i've been guilty of ending a call with relay and then putting the ca on hold to find another phone number. fortunately, all of the ca's i've had have been patient enough to wait for me, but now that i've read your post, next time i'm going to make sure i have all of the phone numbers i need ahead of time.
fortunately, when i look up a number, it's already on my computer, so all i have to do is switch windows/screens and it takes me less than a minute to locate what i'm looking for.
what do you do with an uncooperative hearing person who refuses to slow down their speech or use ga? do you leave it up to the deaf/hoh/deafblind caller as to how they wish to proceed?
Not nearly as big of a deal if it only takes you a matter of seconds. Especially if it's not your first call. It is kind of annoying though, when a caller connects to the relay operator and doesn't even have the number for their first call ready. Like, man, take the time to get the number before u push connect!! :roll:
If the hearing party continues to speak too quickly or keeps omitting "GA", all we can REALLY do is to KEEP ASKING. Sometimes you will have to ask them to slow down 4 or 5 times in the middle of one long response, and also remind them to say "GA" every single time. It gets aggravating, but we can't do much more than that. We can let you know what is happening, so if we do, maybe help us out by saying something to them yourself
has any hearing person joked with you during a relay call about being the opposite sex of the caller? for example, you're a male ca and the deaf/hoh/deafblind person is female. i've had alot of hearing people tell me how strange it is to communicate with a male ca when i'm female. they *know* i'm female, but the voice they're hearing is male.
by the way, i know vco is an option, but when you use braille equipment to make relay calls, it's much easier to read the braille display and respond accordingly instead of reading the braille display and trying to balance the phone on my shoulder (especially since i am a two-handed braille reader).
Not me personally, I think some people are caught off guard by that, but I haven't had anyone really say anything about it. We can't really converse with the hearing party between responses either, just like we can't really talk too much to the caller, so it's just kind of one of those things they have to get used to.