I wouldn't tell M. I would tell R to get counseling, and to get tested for STD's. If it bothers you to babysit, then don't do it.
now I know you're a bad friend. kidding.would I tell? no.
now I know you're a bad friend. kidding.
I'm not going to tell but can make her to.
hey hey, chill.... jiro and I always joke with each other, which is why I only quoted him. and, yes I asked for opinions so I wouldn't do that. besides, see the smirk in icon?Hey, that's not fair; you are the one who asked for advice. Now you're going to ambush some of us? Jiro only said one word; I am sure he could expand what he meant into something productive.
oh yeah, I was thinking what if it was hubby, M's baby? but she was sure it wasn't his ..I rather stay out of their situation because i am not there to witness them at home.
oh yeah, I was thinking what if it was hubby, M's baby? but she was sure it wasn't his ..
now I know you're a bad friend. kidding.
I'm not going to tell but can make her to.
Agreed it isn't easy to stick to that nature will takes its course.
May i say, based on your post, sounds like you care about M more than R. so were M your original friend, not R? Of course its none of my business. indeed, Marriage is not that simple.
I know this is none of my business as I wasn't involved at all, absolutely knew that already. only said can. I'm just concerned for M's values.. this makes me so mad. was this really an accident? M doesn't deserve to be cheated. I'd like to help if I could. but like saywhatkid said, once did, possiblity of doing it again or before too. IMO, people in situation or mental state like that don't really change.
nature will take its course eventually...yes, I keep reminding myself that.
I know. It's a very hard thing to swallow You can just distance yourself from it until it's all quiet at Western Front.
Been there. If my friend does such thing, I take a simple course of action - I either terminate the friendship or place his/her friendship at the bottom of totem.
If this happened to me and "M" (Ok, can I just state a false name like Mark or something, lol) was my brother, or cousin, something blood related like that, it would change my whole perspective on the situation. I think it may be the same for others but I can't say for sure. But assuming this Mark is some person I don't know like family, then yeah it's the other side of the fence.
Jiro, I read that book, too....over 30 yrs ago.
lol! there was a book on that??? I saw a movie
not a problem you can ask. just 'a long time friend', (original post), she knows and works with my father but not really a good one as she have drifted out of her mind sometimes and thinks she can get away from everything (post #12) -- few years ago she started telling people/agencies that she and her kids are deaf while they are really not so they could get discounts to amusement parks, or free rides/tickets at some museums/cruise trips. of course that was unfair and have lost my respect. I just didn't complained and love babysitting their sweet kids and have fun - they wanted to learn ASL.Agreed it isn't easy to stick to that nature will takes its course.
May i say, based on your post, sounds like you care about M more than R. so were M your original friend, not R? Of course its none of my business. indeed, Marriage is not that simple.