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Ahh, Jolie - I remember when I was a kid livin' in Fresno, Calif...there were no fences around on the front yard. We ( siblings ) used to run across the neighbors' front yards back and forth, just playin'. The neighbors don't mind it, never complaint about it. In 1985, I was 25 years old at that time and decided to visit my old house where my parents used to live - to my amazement, there are some fences on each neighbor's front yard. They do not want children or any pet to play on their front yard and even, they have their own bars on their windows as well. I remember there was no bars when I was a kid at that time. So much changes alot lately. :-o
I remember the feelin' when I visited there... gee, my feelin' was like " it's not the same anymore ". There's no trust nowdays. That trust is gone. It makes difficult to make friends. No more carefree in a sense. More control nowdays and less freedom.
Indeed, The "feel" of roaming around closely to home is not as what it seems to be like in the old days. We still do have the freedom to go to neighbor's houses or friends house that are nearby but however, with the increase of the crimes, fear, security, so and on - That alone has violated a lot of our confidence and senses into being able to look at other people for a chance to help each other, being able to inter react with others, to go to a place where we all can feel safe.
Unfortunately but it is true, We are living in a time where fear is taking control of us. I'm not saying everybody are living in a fear but in a sense, we are, sort of.