Sad News about my Uncle

KristinaB

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My uncle, who was my father's only brother died this week. He had Alzheimer's. My Aunt, Uncle, and cousin Curt and his wife Carol came down from Minnesota to their winter home in Delray Beach, FL. They arrived Saturday evening. While they were getting settled in and working on making the condo a little more secure for the massive decline in my uncle since last winter, he managed to slip out. After searching quickly for him, they called the police. Palm Beach County Sheriff officers and bloodhounds went searching. He was found about a mile from their condo. He had been hit by a car was had died at the scene. He was 82.

I had not seen my uncle since my wedding in 1993. Since my father had already passed away, my Uncle Chuck gave me away. Aunt Vi mentioned to me last month that Chuck was declining rapidly and at that time was like a terrible two year old. Aunt Vi is doing fine and is a little at peace. We all know that Chuck is in a better place and no longer suffering, and my Aunt will be able to get some rest and recuperation now. She said her days started at 5am and sometimes didn't end until 1-2 am. Not easy for an 80 year old lady.

Chuck is survived by his wife Violet (Vi), son & daughter-in-law Curt & Carol, daughter & son-in-law and their son, Constance (Connie) & Keith and Nathan, and son & daughter-in-law, Clifford (cliff) & Pam. He was predeceased by his daughter, Catherine and grandson, Nicholas. Chuck was my father's only and older brother.
 
my deepest condolence, KristinaB
 
Thank You for all your kind words and thoughts. It was a blow to hear that he died, but at least he is no longer suffering. He was diagnosed with Alzheimer's 12 years ago.
 
My condolences go out to you and your family. :hug:
 
I had not seen my uncle since my wedding in 1993. Since my father had already passed away, my Uncle Chuck gave me away.

If you only live 30 minutes away from his winter home, I'm curious why you hadn't seen him in 16 years. Seems like such a wasted opportunity...
 
If you only live 30 minutes away from his winter home, I'm curious why you hadn't seen him in 16 years. Seems like such a wasted opportunity...

I spent the last 13 years in Missouri and not Florida. Money was tight and we were never able to visit him either in Minnesota or Florida. I only recently moved back to Florida and we were all planning on getting together for Thanksgiving. Their 3 children and their families were coming down.

For the 3 years after we married, my uncle and aunt had tight tennis schedules and met my mother for dinner once in a while.
 
I spent the last 13 years in Missouri and not Florida. Money was tight and we were never able to visit him either in Minnesota or Florida. I only recently moved back to Florida and we were all planning on getting together for Thanksgiving. Their 3 children and their families were coming down.

For the 3 years after we married, my uncle and aunt had tight tennis schedules and met my mother for dinner once in a while.

Aww, that's such a shame. Again my condolences.
 
Aww Kristina :(

I'm so sorry for the loss of your uncle. My warmest condolences to you and your family. :hug:
 
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