I was always physically and emotionally beat up as a kid because I was considered "different". Kids made fun of my speech, called me names, other things. I was scared so much of the time.
In college I was in an assault situation and I had to make the decision - if he tries to stop me from leaving, or if he tries to rape me - what am I gonna do? I decided to fight back if necessary. I happened to have a pocket knife with me and I decided I would use it if I needed to. The person was not a big person. I looked at him directly and said I was ending it now. I did not have to use the knife. But that was one of the scariest things that's happened to me. I took self defense classes soon after.
I can see how frightening that would be for you and your niece, and also how terrifying your childhood experience with the boys and the cigarette, Steinhauer. No one should have to go through these things.
I appreciate you sharing this with us on the forum.
In college I was in an assault situation and I had to make the decision - if he tries to stop me from leaving, or if he tries to rape me - what am I gonna do? I decided to fight back if necessary. I happened to have a pocket knife with me and I decided I would use it if I needed to. The person was not a big person. I looked at him directly and said I was ending it now. I did not have to use the knife. But that was one of the scariest things that's happened to me. I took self defense classes soon after.
I can see how frightening that would be for you and your niece, and also how terrifying your childhood experience with the boys and the cigarette, Steinhauer. No one should have to go through these things.
I appreciate you sharing this with us on the forum.