Love is not important.

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TRUTH HURTS, HUH??? :liar:
 
TTT said:
I just want SEX, I want to FUCK FUCK FUCK.

Then you will find men who will only want sex with you and never take you off to romantic places or treat you like a special woman. You get what you ask for.

I think men are worser than women, they are the one who
want a deep deep love relationship.

It goes both ways...many women do want deep deep love relationship as much as men do.

My mom said no... she doesn't want me to date men.

You are 33 years old. You do not have to listen to your mother. Just because she was hurt doesnt mean it s gonna happen to you.

That is why I wanted female friends to tell me or advise me
on how to do it.

We are here to help you out but you keep getting defensive with us.

I don't know anything about men and love....
Then deal with your anger/bitterness with men before you can find love.

It would be wonderful to have this experience...
a man treats me like a queen...
give me love and love, I know I would love that...
But I don't believe that... I only see that on t.v. such as
the dating game or soap opera.
I don't think that is real to me...
I would love to try it, but if love is so great, why many
people divorce and stuff???

You are contradicting yourself. First you say you only want sex and say that men are all jerks and now you are saying you would love to have a wonderful experience with love.
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TTT, I think you need to take a deep breath and look at your own issues carefully. They are all contradictory. Beneath your anger, you do have hope.
 
yeah but....

It seems like some Men wanna destroy your life.
Take away my happiness.

I'm just gonna say ALL men,
they are hard work. :whistle:
 
TTT said:
It seems like some Men wanna destroy your life.
Take away my happiness.

I'm just gonna say ALL men,
they are hard work. :whistle:
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Who says men or women are not hard work? Men think we are hard to understand and we think men are hard to understand but we don't give up. We dont turn angry or bitter.

You have to realize that your attitude does turn off good men - you need to change your attitude if you want to have better luck with love.
 
relationships alway is hard work.. but then... so is teamwork.. its hard to have teamwork... only wya for anybody to be happy in any type of relationship... is to work together.. if one of htem dont then someone will be unhappy..
 
attitude?

I don't know.
Maybe it isn't my attitude.

Like I say, I didn't have any love relationship with men...
so how do good men know about my attitude???

No men asked me out on a date.
All the men I listed above... Jay, Jeff, Bobby...
Jay and Jeff already have girlfriends and Bobby had drug problems.

No good guys ever approach me.
If they did, maybe they weren't my type. :cool:
 
how?

I stay in my dorm room or at home most of the time...
I don't ever go anywhere.
I haven't speak to a man or had any contact with
a man since March of this year.

He was very good looking black man with shoulder length dreadlock...
and he helped me a lot.
When I went across the street to the ATM,
he stood on the side walk. And when
I was about to cross the street, he looked
both ways to see that I cross the street safety.
He was a good gentleman.

And he opened the door for me.
And also... He taught me how to play pool.
And he played a song by Marvin Gaye, "Let's get it on"
And I was like, "WTF?"
But he taught me some more games.
And then after that, we ran in the rain... to go
back to the church... he ran faster than I was...
and told my mom that I was right behind him.
He knew my mom was parking her car, waiting for me, to pick me up to go home.

And so I said goodbye to him and thank him, and oops, I hug
a white guy...
he said I am so sweet.
And I went home with mom.

Wow, I got men liking me...
they didn't think my attitude sucks. :doh:

I am just scare and vulnerable... if I be out there for long time,
Men will be all over me. Men love me. I can't help it. :giggle:
 
TTT;

The picture on ur avatar is that you?
 
Pfft.

HELL NO, that ain't me. That is Alicia Keys, the singer.

I can look like that.... but :gives:
 
TTT said:
HELL NO, that ain't me. That is Alicia Keys, the singer.

I can look like that.... but :gives:
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I am just asking nothing to offended you really. Sorry; I didn't know she was a singer. :Oops:
 
Meg said:
Men can sense your bitter attitude miles away.
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*sniff sniff* what's that? smells something abit bitter...or even worse...

HATE.
 
TTT said:
I stay in my dorm room or at home most of the time...
I don't ever go anywhere.
I haven't speak to a man or had any contact with
a man since March of this year.

He was very good looking black man with shoulder length dreadlock...
and he helped me a lot.
When I went across the street to the ATM,
he stood on the side walk. And when
I was about to cross the street, he looked
both ways to see that I cross the street safety.
He was a good gentleman.

And he opened the door for me.
And also... He taught me how to play pool.
And he played a song by Marvin Gaye, "Let's get it on"
And I was like, "WTF?"
But he taught me some more games.
And then after that, we ran in the rain... to go
back to the church... he ran faster than I was...
and told my mom that I was right behind him.
He knew my mom was parking her car, waiting for me, to pick me up to go home.

And so I said goodbye to him and thank him, and oops, I hug
a white guy...
he said I am so sweet.
And I went home with mom.

Wow, I got men liking me...
they didn't think my attitude sucks. :doh:

I am just scare and vulnerable... if I be out there for long time,
Men will be all over me. Men love me. I can't help it. :giggle:
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erm...no offense but it seems you pick too many guys at random for date and stuff like that...that's not really too good. It's always a high possibly that some people would think you are a *cough* slut *cough* or anything similar to that...I mean, sure, dating is one of the best ways to find someone you fele is right for you, and to love him or whatever like that...but going out with more than one guy in the same year when you didn't even finish seeing the other one...you are considered a *cough* slut *cough* *ahem* anyway, what you mentioned about the black man seems pretty friendly so maybe you should keep hanging out with him some more and see how it goes so far after one year?

relationships are NEVER easy...even though love is the most important thing in the world...it's still a challenge to everyone. everything in life is a challenge to you. It's always wise to pick men more carefully, but sometimes women though they did, and after they find out how the man treated her wrongfully, she divorces him...some people are just so fucking weird after a few years of marriage they suddenly have a different personality so be EXTREMELY careful about that, trust me.

so...dont give up about men...hell, I've been through the similar path when I always asked a bunch of girls out just for some dinner and a movie, etc...they always say no or that they are busy or that they are already taken...but the real reason is that they've never went out with a deaf guy and they feel they dont have any experience with a guy who have hearing disablity or whatever like that and always go out with a hearing guy who thinks would make their life much easier that way but wait till they find out how their guy treated them and they would wish they never said no to me because I would never take advantage of a girl for sex, money, or anything like that...ever.

You are old enough to make your decisions and shit like that...so if you still wish you want to be loved and have a normal relationship with some guy you like, then it's not too late...just keep trying.
 
let me clairy that.. LOVE Is important.. and I always will believe in fate okay the guy I ever met from past online or whatever can come back to me if it was all fate but really sex isn't that important but yeah I have desires but I can put sex on back burner if I dared to do so but c'mon don't think it's all sex did u think twice about being safe do u EVER practice safe sex I don't think so well that's all folks I just wanted to say few things before I get :pissed: at this damn thread.
 
???

I know how to control myself.
I am not a slut or whatever...
I don't fuck with every guy I see.

I know a lot about self control.

I don't smoke, drink alcohol, or do drugs..
I don't do none of that...

I just love to flirt with many men.
I haven't had sex in 5 years...
That is how good I know how to control myself.

Thank you all for sharing your advice. I appreciated it.
I welcome more.
 
There is another way if you wanna "fuck fuck fuck"

Buy yourself Dildos, like most sex toys. :whistle:
 
That woman who wrote the thread, TTT stands up for what she believes in and be willing to express it with her actions. It's fine with me.

Keep in mind that it takes a lot of time and effort to develop a relationship. You might have to meet a lot of people before you find someone with whom you can develop a lasting friendship. "Small things have a way of overmastering the great" Cedirc Hardwick as Frollo inthe Hunchback of Notre Dame. It gives me reason to feel that lasting romance is possible.

Good luck! :applause:
Mani
 
I'm a dude, and i dont know much about love, except that its the most powerful force in the world. Either you try it, and lose, or win. Or you become too scared to try it. I've tried and lost miserably, three times, but i'm still gonna keep trying, as there are millions more chocolates out there. :P
 
Cheri said:
There is another way if you wanna "fuck fuck fuck"

Buy yourself Dildos, like most sex toys. :whistle:
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Use her finger to save $$$ Dildo can be annoying ! :dizzy: Battery runs out very fast. It is the best to using her finger.
 
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