Even though I am a non-conformist and a feminist... I am still a self-professed old-fashioned chick with values that my parents instilled in me. My parents taught me that the "boy" was supposed to do the things for the "nice girl". He was supposed to open the door, help her take her coat off, hang it up for her, help her pull the chair (NOT pull it and allow her to fall on her ass!!!), help her push the chair back into where she felt comfortable with. He was supposed to pick up the dinner bill, if there was a rain puddle, he was supposed to take off his coat and lay that on the rain puddle so she would
not get her high heels wet. He would open the passenger side door open and shut it. He would drive her home and not

at her!!!! He would be a perfect gentleman!!! No kissing at the first date was allowed!! Lightning would strike!!!! The girl's parents would go

if she kissed.. ohhh.. their reputations!!! Everything he did for her was called "chivalry" and chicks... it ain't
DEAD!!! You just got to look for the right guys in the right places if you love to be woo-ed instead of ogled and man-handled on the "first" date!!! The guy picks up the bill on the first date and he expects something in return!!! The cad!!!

With me... nuhhh-nuhhh... I don't operate that way... I'm a classy chick and it takes more than a few dates just to go "first base... second base... "

*Thanking MamaFreaky & DaddyFreaky for teaching me values!*