DeafSCUBA98
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who needs SSI/SSa/SSDI? if you can really work?
Try to be a single mother with three kids, tell me if you can. Or try to be 15 years old single mother with one kid, tell me if you can. You will understand if you are in their position. I worked as one-to-one and I saw all what I saw. America isn't excatly in good economy unlikely Europe or Sweden.. It will be like lottery stats for anyone to have money to support three kids or find a job that pay well, it is lottery stats to have that opportunity.DeafSCUBA98 said:who needs SSI/SSa/SSDI? if you can really work?
i understand your view.. about myself, I'm a full-time single father of a terrible 2 kid.Magatsu said:Try to be a single mother with three kids, tell me if you can. Or try to be 15 years old single mother with one kid, tell me if you can. You will understand if you are in their position. I worked as one-to-one and I saw all what I saw. America isn't excatly in good economy unlikely Europe or Sweden.. It will be like lottery stats for anyone to have money to support three kids or find a job that pay well, it is lottery stats to have that opportunity.
Liebling)), well explain the increasing children's behavior problems in 20 years, voilence problems in younger gals (newspaper printed about it yesterday), etc etc.. because of neglection due to jobs but not only jobs, junk or industrial foods that cause children to mature incorrectly. I strongly suggest you to read the Mothering magazine to understand what I talked about, I am not a female or mother yet I read that magazine to collect the information on children problems due to neglection and many reasons. It may not hit you yet when they are young but in later time like teenager or older, it may will hit you. if not then you are lucky or good parent and I praise you for that but unfortunately for 68% of americans parents who have to deal with these problematic children because of neglection by jobs and other reasons.
Magatsu said:Try to be a single mother with three kids, tell me if you can. Or try to be 15 years old single mother with one kid, tell me if you can. You will understand if you are in their position. I worked as one-to-one and I saw all what I saw. America isn't excatly in good economy unlikely Europe or Sweden.. It will be like lottery stats for anyone to have money to support three kids or find a job that pay well, it is lottery stats to have that opportunity.
Liebling)), well explain the increasing children's behavior problems in 20 years, voilence problems in younger gals (newspaper printed about it yesterday), etc etc.. because of neglection due to jobs but not only jobs but junk or industrial foods that cause children mature incorrectly. I strongly suggest you to read the Mothering magazine to understand what I talked about, I am not a female or mother yet I read that magazine to collect the information on children problems due to neglection and many reasons. It may not hit you yet when they are young but in later time like teenager or older, it may will hit you. if not then you are lucky or good parent and I praise you for that but unfortunately for 68% of americans parents who have to deal with these problematic children because of neglection by jobs and other reasons.
That is good to know but I found that there are higher percentage that adoption kids aren't happy, more higher than with parents who neglected them. So it is worse than hell or abortion. There is no win-win situation, there is no such thing as win-win situation for kids/abortion. If you don't like to have someone to tell you what to do with your life then it is same conception as for abortion. Who will suffer? kids, not mother or father.. it is children who suffer if did not spend enough time or neglect or even adoption...Liebling:-))) said:I would give my baby up for an adoption if I can´t afford to keep my baby or can´t give my love & make her/him happy. The baby deserve to be alive & happy at their new adoptive parents
Yeah you did right thing but it isn't for other parents or other kids. I had a difficult childhood due to my father and divorce situation.. I did made some troubles during in high school but once I graduated from HS and I behave very well because of my mom and her time with me during my early age and teenager time. I would be in a jail if not for her and her attention. There are several magazines, newspapers and news concerning about children and their violence.Cheri said:Huh? First of all, I was raise up with alot of hitting, pushing, treating bad by my Mother who never accept me for who I am (deaf) But, Look at me now and when I am growing up I never once broke the law, I have Children of my own whom I do not treat them Like the way My mother treat me...My mother and father both did work at Jobs My aunt end up babysitting for us I love her and think of her as My second Mother cuz she the one who been there for me the Most and never treated me the way My mother treated me I never complain how much stuff I have in life we did not have that many things growing up but still My mom and dad did work but not a good paying Job. But, I never held that against them I Still Love My Father and Mother even through My Mother wasnt the best Mother I Should Have. But, I did forgave her and Move forward.
Magatsu said:Liebling)), well explain the increasing children's behavior problems in 20 years, voilence problems in younger gals (newspaper printed about it yesterday), etc etc.. because of neglection due to jobs but not only jobs, junk or industrial foods that cause children to mature incorrectly. I strongly suggest you to read the Mothering magazine to understand what I talked about, I am not a female or mother yet I read that magazine to collect the information on children problems due to neglection and many reasons. It may not hit you yet when they are young but in later time like teenager or older, it may will hit you. if not then you are lucky or good parent and I praise you for that but unfortunately for 68% of americans parents who have to deal with these problematic children because of neglection by jobs and other reasons.
i personally believe its men's choice too
Ten states have unenforceable laws requiring spousal consent or notice (CO, FL, IL, KY, LA, ND, PA, RI, SC, UT). The Supreme Court struck down Pennsylvania's mandatory husband notice law in Planned Parenthood v. Casey.
funnycat78 said:or don't have sex at all cuz those days teens are doin it and they get preggie and give up kids like they are ragged dolls piss me off sometimes in a while oh well sex education need to be improved those days.. :roll: what more I agree with fly free's post.. I ain't gonna get myself invoved in another discussion about abortion cuz we already HAVE one that was open in past but I think locked right now or am I wrong?
Magatsu said:In all honest.. we, men have absolutely no right to tell women what to do or make decisions about abortions.. Not even governments or fanatical religions. They surely aren't "God" or "Gods" so who are they make decisions for women about abortion issues?
I personally am not pro or anti abortion, I am a guy who is willing to support my lover whatever she wants to make decision for our baby. For best or worse, it is her decision to make, I will support whatever it is best for her or us. Of course I will offer my devil's advocate perspectives, share my feelings, and other things but the final decision goes to her to make.
Today's "March for Women's Lives" are quite inspiration, lots of famous actoresses came and joined them and there are several excellent lectures about rights, privacy issues, abortions, Bush. etc... Too bad that we could not go there (Washington DC) to join them.. :/
pimpdaddyposse said:I would say it's women their right to choose or not... I mean what if u were raped or something... There's tons of issues with the abortion... I'd say "women's right to choose"
Magatsu said:Try to be a single mother with three kids, tell me if you can. Or try to be 15 years old single mother with one kid, tell me if you can. You will understand if you are in their position.
DeafSCUBA98 said:okay, you say its woman's right of choice.... suppose a woman asked you " why not we have sex.. and get us to have kids?" then you all of sudden get excited and go ahead make kids. then 2 months later ur wife or girlfriend change their mind.. and wants an abortion.. what ya gonna do?
i personally believe its men's choice too.
Magatsu said:In all honest.. we, men have absolutely no right to tell women what to do or make decisions about abortions.. Not even governments or fanatical religions. They surely aren't "God" or "Gods" so who are they make decisions for women about abortion issues?
I personally am not pro or anti abortion, I am a guy who is willing to support my lover whatever she wants to make decision for our baby. For best or worse, it is her decision to make, I will support whatever it is best for her or us. Of course I will offer my devil's advocate perspectives, share my feelings, and other things but the final decision goes to her to make.
Today's "March for Women's Lives" are quite inspiration, lots of famous actoresses came and joined them and there are several excellent lectures about rights, privacy issues, abortions, Bush. etc... Too bad that we could not go there (Washington DC) to join them.. :/