Divorce and re-marriage displeases God

Liebling:-))) said:
Is it sacrifice what you talk about marriage is like this?

http://www.alldeaf.com/showpost.php?p=312532&postcount=42

I don´t blame people to get out of their marriage like this.
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It is between the two couple to make their sacrifice choice, God gave us the wedding vows and it is up to us to make it right.

God advises us to get a divorce to get out of this nightmare marriage.

In my own opinion, I support battler wife to leave their hubby for their safety or cheat husband, but sadly God don't give his blessing for her re-marriage as the bible mention.
 
That is because women knew who they were marrying to.

My 1st cousin married a goodlooking man...
before she married him, he was cheating on her...
And she thought he wouldn't cheat on her after marriage.
But she was wrong... he cheated on her 3 times.

And my Aunt, my mom's sister.... she married
to my Uncle... because she was pregnant out of weblock...
but he cheated on her, and got another woman pregnant out of weblock..
but because my Aunt got pregnant first,,, my Uncle married her.
He never love her... and he continued to cheat on her. But they divorced now.

And also... my mom, she married my dad...
he quit high school. Never got his diploma or GED...
he made many bad decision, he kept quitting jobs, quit Navy...
And my Grandmom told my mom not to marry my dad...
But she ran away, eloped, and married my dad anyway...
She got beat up by my dad... and all...

Some Women ignored warning signs and didn't use their brain...
So when you make a bad decision.... then you make the biggest
mistake of your life.

1. Never married someone who make many poor judgement
2. Never married someone who cheated on you or being dishonest
3. Never married someone who don't treat you right

If you are sooo in love with the wrong person...
just wait til that feeling and emotion go away...
Learn to control yourself.
 
If you re-read the bible again... It says (Acts 2:38; Psalm 103:1-3, 10-12).
Any past sins that led to the divorce and the divorce itself would be included. The person would then be free to marry again. There is no sin in the new marriage and the sin of a past divorce is not a continuing one.
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Therefore, divorce is no different than any of the other sins. People have filed divorce many times, They marry the wrong people at the wrong time. If they would have taken their time to see if that person is the right one, their marriage would last forever a lifetime. God doesn't like violence, abuse or unfaithful, So why is it the other person's fault that they've been abused by their wives or husband and made them look like they sin for getting an divorce when God knows what is in our hearts, God wouldn't blame the ones that are hurting and felt betrayed by their husbands/wives who was unfaithfully for not keeping their vows, of loving, caring for and honoring. ;)
 
Cheri said:
If you re-read the bible again... It says (Acts 2:38; Psalm 103:1-3, 10-12).


Therefore, divorce is no different than any of the other sins. People have filed divorce many times, They marry the wrong people at the wrong time. If they would have taken their time to see if that person is the right one, their marriage would last forever a lifetime. God doesn't like violence, abuse or unfaithful, So why is it the other person's fault that they've been abused by their wives or husband and made them look like they sin for getting an divorce when God knows what is in our hearts, God wouldn't blame the ones that are hurting and felt betrayed by their husbands/wives who was unfaithfully for not keeping their vows, of loving, caring for and honoring. ;)
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Exactly...

I see nothing wrong if people are free to remarry. They deserve their happiness when they found wonderful partners who can keep them happy.
 
Tamara said:
In my own opinion, I support battler wife to leave their hubby for their safety or cheat husband, but sadly God don't give his blessing for her re-marriage as the bible mention.
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It´s not just abusive or cheat but more than just 2 things, I support them in different reasons.

BUT one thing, I dont support people who divorced many times like what film stars did.
 
Tamra said:
In my own opinion, I support battler wife to leave their hubby for their safety or cheat husband, but sadly God don't give his blessing for her re-marriage as the bible mention.
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God doesn't like divorce, But, God will forgive our sins for having an divorce just like he forgives other sins and forgets. But, If you read my post above, You'll understand more. ;)
 
Cheri said:
If you re-read the bible again... It says (Acts 2:38; Psalm 103:1-3, 10-12).


Therefore, divorce is no different than any of the other sins. People have filed divorce many times, They marry the wrong people at the wrong time. If they would have taken their time to see if that person is the right one, their marriage would last forever a lifetime. God doesn't like violence, abuse or unfaithful, So why is it the other person's fault that they've been abused by their wives or husband and made them look like they sin for getting an divorce when God knows what is in our hearts, God wouldn't blame the ones that are hurting and felt betrayed by their husbands/wives who was unfaithfully for not keeping their vows, of loving, caring for and honoring. ;)
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:gpost: Well said there CHERI-twinie!!! :applause:
 
My ex annullment our marriage, and this mean my children are illegimate in the eye of the RC church. I am not happy about that my children are not exist at all. Why the RC church erased the marriage licence because the Lord dont happy with divorcee people like us?
 
I just got married.... and I was sure glad that I am a married woman. I m glad I waited for a special guy in my life. Right now I am 30 yrs old.

Here is a thing.... yes divorce is an ugly sin. HOWEVER, abusing husband/wife, cheating, lying and other evil things are ugly sins as well! I know that GOD loves us all. We are on earth and are not perfect. We try to be a good saint in God's eyes.

In my church, they said there is no excuse to get a divorce as you try to work it out and learn to forgive each other. One of my friends is getting divorce because her husband did not cheat, beat her up or anything. He just lied to her. BOOM! She wanted a divorce. If I were her, I would seperate for a while and getting counseling for both of us. Lying is deitful but we all need to learn to forgive one another.

AND If my husband beat me up frequently, of course I would have leave him and end the marriage. I would not suffer my life going thru beating.

This topic is definitely sticky. But I just believe that we need to stop and think what we need to do. Get a help. If the things going on a cycle, then end it. There s no need to be bitter about another people who makes mistakes. Just clean it up and move on. I know that God loves us all and knows that we try to be a better person like Him. Of course it is hard to be so perfect but we are not. We can not disappoint in ourselves, when we make mistake, learn from it and not to do it again.

Sometimes in the old days in the bible can apply to us today but sometimes the scriptures teaches us about history does not apply to us today. For example, Miss P mentioned that Jacob had many wives, during at that time, it was necessary. Today it is not. So during the old days, there were so many people who must follow the law of marriage, because the laws were very strict. Many people in old days there were marriage arranged. Today is entirely different. Now there are a lot of awful publicity everywhere such as pornography, prostitute, violence, greed, gambling and killing... you name it, it is part of chaos in everyones marriage. I think our day and the old day are entirely different. you know what i mean? If I am not clear about this, just tell me so.
 
"No one is "sent" to hell for any particular sin except for the sin of rejecting Jesus Christ as Savior. All sins are forgiven under the blood of Jesus, including the sin of divorce and remarriage."

There's a lot of ppl who will disagree with this!

I guess this means I can go out raping and murdering as much as I want.
 
I cannot remember if I post in here or not but here it is. There is different degrees of divorce. Well, for example... if a wife divorces her husband for money through the divorce settlement then I am more than sure that it will displease God. I would say the same thing about wives who divorce their husbands for other men (or come around, men divorce for other women & money). That surely will displease God. But I highly doubt that it will displease God if wife divorces her husband because of abusive, child molestation, constantly unhappiness, etc etc... I believe these are very good reasons which will not displease God at all. Heck, God can "see" the 'insides' in our hearts.

That's my opinion.

About re-marriage, honestly, I think it is okay. Just... follow your heart and no one else. These people are not your "God" so no need for anyone to listen to these yappers.
 
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The reason that the bible doesn't approve divorce is that in those days a man could divorce his wife on a "whim". The poor woman then had no recouse but to hide.
 
God said, "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body" (Eph. 5:23). Christian marriage here on earth is an example (or "type") of the relationship of Christ (the head) and the church (the body of all believers). Christian marriage shows the wonderful relationship between Christ and the believer. That relationship is permanent. When Jesus becomes the Savior of a believer, the two can never be separated. That is one special reason why God hates divorce more than other sins. Divorce goes against the example that God established. That is very serious.

God severely punished Moses when he sinned against type. Moses struck the rock a second time, and therefore was not allowed to enter the Promised Land. The rock represented Jesus, and striking the rock represented the crucifixion. Jesus died once finish, to forgive all sins. "Killing" Jesus twice is against the type that God established. That is a serious sin because it leads to false beliefs and practices.

Any sin that is against a type that God established is a serious sin. All sin is equally wrong and guilty, but some sins are more serious because their influence hurts more people.

God can forgive all sins but we still must know the seriousness of our sins. Forgiving sin is not the same as ignoring sin.
 
I understand that topic is very sticky subject. I have a question for Reba... Suppose any spouse remarry, do they love their other spouse more than first married spouse (for any believer)? You don't have to answer if you couldn't. That's okay.
 
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