Dear VamPyroX...

Dear VampyProx

Why the men think nothing but sex and booze in their mind?
 
Dear VamPyroX,

If a man has just started dating a woman and they are sitting down
watching TV and one of those stupid douche commercials come on should
he make a crude remark or just keep it to himself and go into the
kitchen and get another beer?
 
Dear Vamp

What would I say to my boss when I saw her teeth with good between in her teeth? Should I say something to her to do floss her teeth?

Her breath is really bad odor. I do not know what else I do. :|

Truly Yours,
Sabrina
 
bbnt said:
Dear VamPyroX,

If a man has just started dating a woman and they are sitting down
watching TV and one of those stupid douche commercials come on should
he make a crude remark or just keep it to himself and go into the
kitchen and get another beer?
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bbnt,



That would depend. If it was a woman that you already knew personally and she knows what you're like, then making a crude remark would be a good idea. However, if it was a woman that you've never met... it might be a better idea to keep it to yourself if you want the night to last longer. On the other hand, if you're not looking for a relationship and just someone to have fun with... then go for it, make that crude remark!

- V
 
Sabrina said:
Dear Vamp

What would I say to my boss when I saw her teeth with good between in her teeth? Should I say something to her to do floss her teeth?

Her breath is really bad odor. I do not know what else I do. :|

Truly Yours,
Sabrina
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Sabrina,

Are you referring to "food"?

If it bothers you and you don't want to embarass your boss, then try setting up a workshop at work on how to practice personal hygiene. During that workshop, discuss how it's important to keep yourself clean and your mouth clean for many reasons. Also explain how it's important since you will be working with others and how it would make others uncomfortable when they are with someone who isn't practicing proper hygiene. After you do that workshop and your boss doesn't practice it properly, then you could remind your boss of the workshop.

If it doesn't bother you to be blunt with him, you could speak with your boss privately and point out that he has something stuck between his teeth. If your boss is understanding, then he or she will thank you for it.

If the breath stinks, you can kindly offer mints to your boss. To avoid easy targeting, be sure to offer the mints to some other co-workers.

- V
 
Dear Vamp,

My guy best friend He wanted to know
how could we tell the truth to
this woman WITHOUT hurting her at all ?

For example, She always thinks that
she's so beautiful & hot,
but the problem is that
he and his friends were saying that
she's so Ugly and Slut :giggle:

And, she even thinks that she
has a Good personality, sigh...
but they think she does NOT have
a Good personality at all. They said
she's so mean at times

How can we tell her to
face the real truth about herself
without hurting her at all ?
 
Dear VamPyrox

Dear VamPyrox,

There is this guy I have liked for many years. He has never asked me out. Damn! Anyway, a year go...I found his e-mail because his mom e-mails my mom and some other people party invitations or forwards. Anyway, it was always my dream to catch his e-mail. Finally, I did and e-mailed him anonymously, then I revealed myself cuz he was so curious. We then chatted via IM. I asked what he felt about me, and he said that he thought I doesn't know but said I was nice. Damn, I thought he liked me a little. He later told me that his brother liked me, but I never did and he has a mental disability that he can't talk well or could graduate with a diploma. I just laughed about it and didn't know what to say. Is it possible that he feels sorry for his brother and won't dare have feelings for me? I think he did like me in the beginning because he would look at me, and asked my mom a question about me. No boys do this. One Thanksgiving, I was helping a tad with cooking. I was cute with my hair cute. Later on he and his mom were like talking about how pretty I was secretly. My momma told me later the same. Damn, do boys say this for no reason sometimes? Or were they probably saying this that I was cute for his brother? I don't like his brother! Anyhoot, I dunno...what do you think? Please don't tell me to ask him plainly, "wanna date?" I am not that kind of girl.
 
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Y said:
Dear Vamp,

My guy best friend He wanted to know
how could we tell the truth to
this woman WITHOUT hurting her at all ?

For example, She always thinks that
she's so beautiful & hot,
but the problem is that
he and his friends were saying that
she's so Ugly and Slut :giggle:

And, she even thinks that she
has a Good personality, sigh...
but they think she does NOT have
a Good personality at all. They said
she's so mean at times

How can we tell her to
face the real truth about herself
without hurting her at all ?
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Y,

You would probably hurt her if you confronted her about her being ugly. However, you wouldn't really hurt her if you confronted her about her bad personality. Also, actions usually speak louder than words. Perhaps, you should try making it obvious that she doesn't have a good personality. Try acting more interested in others who seem to be acting better than she is. If she acts mean, then you should bluntly tell her that what she did wasn't appropriate or wasn't nice.

That bring me to this question. If she acts like she's "all that" and has a personality that you don't like, then why would you be with her in the first place. She's probably acting like this because she sees you with her and assumes that you already like her for the way she is. That's probably why she isn't changing her behavior because you act like you like her.

- V
 
VamPyroX said:
Y,

You would probably hurt her if you confronted her about her being ugly. However, you wouldn't really hurt her if you confronted her about her bad personality. Also, actions usually speak louder than words. Perhaps, you should try making it obvious that she doesn't have a good personality. Try acting more interested in others who seem to be acting better than she is. If she acts mean, then you should bluntly tell her that what she did wasn't appropriate or wasn't nice.

That bring me to this question. If she acts like she's "all that" and has a personality that you don't like, then why would you be with her in the first place. She's probably acting like this because she sees you with her and assumes that you already like her for the way she is. That's probably why she isn't changing her behavior because you act like you like her.

- V
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Thank you Vamp !
Hmm, we both have been making
every effort to avoid her and ignore her...
I cannot print her name here, of course !
Looks like that she probably
did NOT get the hint about
her slutty and lousy personality :giggle:

Again thanks, I will tell her whenever
I see that is not appropriate or not nice...
Have a Good Day, you're doing Great !!!
 
TiaraPrincess said:
Dear VamPyrox,

There is this guy I have liked for many years. He has never asked me out. Damn! Anyway, a year go...I found his e-mail because his mom e-mails my mom and some other people party invitations or forwards. Anyway, it was always my dream to catch his e-mail. Finally, I did and e-mailed him anonymously, then I revealed myself cuz he was so curious. We then chatted via IM. I asked what he felt about me, and he said that he thought I doesn't know but said I was nice. Damn, I thought he liked me a little. He later told me that his brother liked me, but I never did and he has a mental disability that he can't talk well or could graduate with a diploma. I just laughed about it and didn't know what to say. Is it possible that he feels sorry for his brother and won't dare have feelings for me? I think he did like me in the beginning because he would look at me, and asked my mom a question about me. No boys do this. One Thanksgiving, I was helping a tad with cooking. I was cute with my hair cute. Later on he and his mom were like talking about how pretty I was secretly. My momma told me later the same. Damn, do boys say this for no reason sometimes? Or were they probably saying this that I was cute for his brother? I don't like his brother! Anyhoot, I dunno...what do you think? Please don't tell me to ask him plainly, "wanna date?" I am not that kind of girl.
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TiaraPrincess,

Well, two people can like you... but you can only like one person. That's what you need to emphasize with him. Tell him that you are interested in him, not his brother. If he keeps acting pitiful or is persistent that his brother be the one for you, then he doesn't really care about what you want.

As for your mother, you should talk to her and ask what she was talking about. It seems that there's a lot of assumptions going around without real proof. You think that he pities his brother. You think that he asked your mom something about you. You think that your mom and his mom think you're cute for his brother. Well, these are your thoughts. Thoughts can get in the way at times when it's stopping you from what you really want. Talk to them and ask them what's going on. On the other hand, you should not think about what you think they are saying about you and move on with what you want. What you want is that guy, not his brother. Tell him that.

- V
 
Y said:
Thank you Vamp !
Hmm, we both have been making
every effort to avoid her and ignore her...
I cannot print her name here, of course !
Looks like that she probably
did NOT get the hint about
her slutty and lousy personality :giggle:

Again thanks, I will tell her whenever
I see that is not appropriate or not nice...
Have a Good Day, you're doing Great !!!
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Y,

Since your efforts didn't work, then the last resort would probably be... be BLUNT!

- V
 
Dear VamPyrox,

Well, I know he really was talking about me being pretty. It was so obvious. Really, this is more like a fact. Another question. Well, I e-mailed him saying that I wonder if he liked me and I asked him the same question about 5 times before he answered. I wondered why. It drove me nuts. I wondered if he was avoiding the question, thought I was asking some deeper think OR it's just guys who forget over and over what girls are telling them. Is the last possibility true? It drove me nuts! I just didn't want to push it. LOL

Sincerely,

TiaraPrincess
 
TiaraPrincess said:
Dear VamPyrox,

Well, I know he really was talking about me being pretty. It was so obvious. Really, this is more like a fact. Another question. Well, I e-mailed him saying that I wonder if he liked me and I asked him the same question about 5 times before he answered. I wondered why. It drove me nuts. I wondered if he was avoiding the question, thought I was asking some deeper think OR it's just guys who forget over and over what girls are telling them. Is the last possibility true? It drove me nuts! I just didn't want to push it. LOL

Sincerely,

TiaraPrincess
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TiaraPrincess,

Since you asked him several times and he didn't respond as you had hoped, maybe he's not the one for you. I wouldn't want a gal who gave me a hard time when I'm trying to hint or emphasize that I'm interested in her. That's like her playing games with me. You expressed your feelings and thoughts to him. Yet, he sits there speechless or tries changing the subject by talking about his brother. Like they say, "There are plenty of fishes in the sea." :thumb:

- V
 
Dear VamPyroX


Have you ever ate at the Y ?
 
bbnt said:
Dear VamPyroX


Do you think Cheri has ever eaten at the Y ?
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bbnt,

That's still a personal question that you're better off asking Cheri. Secondly, what exactly is "the Y"?

- V
 
Y is a gym club. Usually homeless people hang out and live there. Hope that answered your question.

Now my question: Do you believe that halloween candies are safe to eat or should I feed them to the crows?
 
bbnt said:
Dear VamPyroX


Do you think Cheri has ever eaten at the Y ?
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How would he know? LOL! No, I haven't ate at the "Y" :thumb:
 
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