Biologist: Having sex on a first date may lead to long term relationship

I completely 2nd that. :smash:

I know some of us that cannot stand ourselves by blaming our mistakes so we just throw it on somebody else. even thru it shld be go around back on us; like karma cookies always says, "what goes around, comes around."

in my experience from where I lost my virginity on 1 night stand, I do regret it but I never had to put a blame on him bec it was MINE mistake & I choose to do that to myself. til then I have learned to handle it a lot better.

& yes, shel90, ur right people shld have appointed their own mistakes to themselves.

althrough, they just don't like hearing that they are wrong. might as well, they wld have to start over. :D
 
My girl kitty is lonely and is looking for a cute tomcat to prowl with....

I wonder if animals do fall in love?? Or just plain old lust to procreate??

I know this is off topic but ever wonder if animals fall in love like us humans do? Ummm :hmm:
 
mostly people who been dating for more than decades and like have sex before got married that happened and their busniess!

i never been have sex with any boys but i have boyfriend already! so i would love to have sex with my boyfriend im really wanted that my busniess!
 
I have had sex on first dates but then again I have not had sex on first dates. I think that when I had sex on first date, it is when I knew that the guy wont materalize into a long term relationship or something more substantial...


I do not need judgements or overanalysis of my sex life..I know how to take care of myself. Sometimes I like to go out on first dates only to have a wild night because that means there is no emotions involved or strings attached.

But if I really like this guy so much, I will take my time...as I want to get to know him deeper than just on a physical side before plunging into something much more than the first date.

I hate it when women are called sluts if they sleep on first dates yet tell men whooo hoo for being studs...Talk about double standards, tsk tsk tsk :whip:
 
Chic said:
I have had sex on first dates but then again I have not had sex on first dates. I think that when I had sex on first date, it is when I knew that the guy wont materalize into a long term relationship or something more substantial...


I do not need judgements or overanalysis of my sex life..I know how to take care of myself. Sometimes I like to go out on first dates only to have a wild night because that means there is no emotions involved or strings attached.

But if I really like this guy so much, I will take my time...as I want to get to know him deeper than just on a physical side before plunging into something much more than the first date.

I hate it when women are called sluts if they sleep on first dates yet tell men whooo hoo for being studs...Talk about double standards, tsk tsk tsk :whip:
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U and me both! That was my rule too when I was single and playing around. :)
 
can I have the data please, I'm not reading an article that states what some scientist have said

did the data take in consideration of the frequency of different sex partners and the sex act itself?
 
Kai Onca said:
can I have the data please, I'm not reading an article that states what some scientist have said

did the data take in consideration of the frequency of different sex partners and the sex act itself?
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look upon the first page & 2nd page in this thread.. or google the title - "sex on first dates"
 
KINGOFNOOBS said:
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Pity women do not understand men's need :pissed:
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Ok.. If we started to let men having sex with us, who are going to take care of our kids? Think about it. :eek3:

In mother nature, it takes a lot of time to raise and nurse a healthy child so females only can have one baby at a time.


Handsome men evolved thanks to picky females - 12 May 2004 - New Scientist

Sociobiology

"Sexual selection is one form of natural selection
sexual selection is natural selection that favors traits that increase success in mating

two kinds of sexual selection:
intrasexual selection: selection that occurs due to differences in success at mating that result from interactions between members of the same sex
the most common form is male-male competition

such as males fighting each other for access to females
the outcome of the interaction of the males determines which male mates; the female is not involved in the decision

example: intrasexual selection might lead to large canines becoming common among males, because the males with the largest canines can drive other males away, so they get more access to females, so they leave more offspring
intersexual selection: selection that occurs due to differences in success at mating that result from interactions between members of opposite sexes
the most common form is female choice

such as females picking the most desirable male to mate with, based on some visible trait

example: intersexual selection among peacocks might lead to large tails becoming common among males, because the female peacocks prefer to mate with males with large tails, so the large-tailed males mate more often, so they leave more offspring."

"other kinds of natural selection caused by predators, changing food supplies, etc. act more or less equally on males and females but sexual selection acts primarily on the one sex that is competing for the other

that is, it mostly affects males

recall that female mammals can have only a limited number of offspring, but males have almost no limit females can generally only conceive when they aren't pregnant or lactating, and even then only during a limited portion of their cycle males can mate any time

so there are generally plenty of males around to mate with when a female needs to
but the males have to compete for access to those limited chances to father offspring
so selection will favor any feature of the males that increases their success at mating"

Sexual selection in primates
 
Bleh - I won't have a relationship ..... never been in one and don't plan on getting it anytime soon. After many failed attempts at balancing of getting a date and haviing so many classes, I doubt that I'd be getting a date. I'd just become a bitter, grumpy, sarcastic old man who works all the time.

Yes, I have had sex, but it's just a "wham-bam-thank you" type. No such thing as "I'd like to get to know you more," and I said this in a bitter way.
 
SnAzZyStyLe2002 said:
Bleh - I won't have a relationship ..... never been in one and don't plan on getting it anytime soon. After many failed attempts at balancing of getting a date and haviing so many classes, I doubt that I'd be getting a date. I'd just become a bitter, grumpy, sarcastic old man who works all the time.

Yes, I have had sex, but it's just a "wham-bam-thank you" type. No such thing as "I'd like to get to know you more," and I said this in a bitter way.
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[mimick in sarcastic dialogue:] okay, why don't you just scribble it down on ur notebooks, we don't need to listen in your cranky life with "boo-hoo" relationships. its not about you or ur little down in the below belt. as if you get my drift.

8)
 
Missus_Philos0phyK said:
[mimick in sarcastic dialogue:] okay, why don't you just scribble it down on ur notebooks, we don't need to listen in your cranky life with "boo-hoo" relationships. its not about you or ur little down in the below belt. as if you get my drift.

8)
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Why are you bragging on him? He just want to express his opinion.
 
Missus_Philos0phyK said:
[mimick in sarcastic dialogue:] okay, why don't you just scribble it down on ur notebooks, we don't need to listen in your cranky life with "boo-hoo" relationships. its not about you or ur little down in the below belt. as if you get my drift.

8)
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Why don't you shut the fuck up, you little skanky-ass ho'ing bitch? Obviously you don't know diddly squat what's like in my shoes. It sounds like you had that *many* relationships. Congratulations on that, idiot.
 
SnAzZyStyLe2002 said:
Why don't you shut the fuck up, you little skanky-ass ho'ing bitch? Obviously you don't know diddly squat what's like in my shoes. It sounds like you had that *many* relationships. Congratulations on that, idiot.
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:eek3:
 
at least, use condom and bang gal in bed. You will be fine in future. *shurg*
 
SnAzZyStyLe2002 said:
Why don't you shut the fuck up, you little skanky-ass ho'ing bitch? Obviously you don't know diddly squat what's like in my shoes. It sounds like you had that *many* relationships. Congratulations on that, idiot.
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:giggle: boy, u gotta to find some lousy informations to throw on me... nice going dude.

but that's not me, unless you're speaking of ur exes, we never dated before..

also, for that statement, it goes back in your mouth since you "might" have know everything about women or so. :roll:

just get urself a wife then you will be happy enuff for not saying all that B.S.
 
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