A vent- need to get off my chest...

racheleggert

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I am not yelling at y'all, that just I need to share my feeling with whoever feel free to comment.. Please no bashings!! Thanks!!!


have learned something on my own after I have been going through with a guy I chatted online since December but we called it stop few weeks ago.... He just hate me for no reason...

One thing a guy was right about me- I can't love people cause I show them some pity.

I didn't betray, and I didn't do something stupid.... I have no feelings for men who I chat online because I can't touch or feel them at all. If I want some feelings- gotta be in person, get to know me more in person instead of online. I like to chat in person if someone want a relationship with me. He thinks I was out doing bad stuff, and was so disloyal to him so he called me nasty name- I just laughed my butt off because I have never met him. I am not in rush to get marriage or to have sex.. no thanks.. I am not that kind of person to go around and open my legs and run away to Vegas to get hitched.. Its not my type... I don't sleep around if you heard rumor. I prefer a man who hold a job, more educated. I don't want a guy who stay home all day playing video games 24/7 and only had one interview. I also would like a guy who have more smart discussion with me instead of just video games and cheap stuff, and simple stuff.... I want more discussion on anything, and expand the topic. I don't want someone to write dark songs- they are too depressing for me, and I don't want someone to pretend that he is in a band or whatever... Need to wake up, this is real world not a fanasty world and need a reality check!!!! I am in college, I do have a fulltime job during half of the year, I volunteer, and very outgoing. I don't stay home play video game 24/7, stay home after turned down from a job, and I hate dark songs, even going to school.....

I feel much better venting this out.... It have been on my shoulder as heavy burden for awhile and I need to get it off...

When I was stressed out, and he didnt talk to me before I removed from myspace friend and blocked him on AIM. He just signed off when I say hello....

I just moved on, thats all....
 
good vent rachel

i am same as you my ex just broke up with me last jan and i was in much in pain and been depressed for 2 months
and i don't know what to do with my life anymore i guess i don't have a life anymore i would crawl under my bed and cut everyone out of my life
 
racheleggert said:
... I prefer a man who hold a job, more educated. I don't want a guy who stay home all day playing video games 24/7 and only had one interview. I also would like a guy who have more smart discussion with me instead of just video games and cheap stuff, and simple stuff.... I want more discussion on anything, and expand the topic. I don't want someone to write dark songs- they are too depressing for me, and I don't want someone to pretend that he is in a band or whatever....
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In other words, you are a NORMAL young lady! :P

I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. :hug:
 
Reba said:
In other words, you are a NORMAL young lady! :P

I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. :hug:
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I agree too! I want the same things in a man too and for 4 years I was frustrated meeting the wrong guys. Finally, I fell in love with my good friend of 3 years and now he is my 2nd hubby. Important u follow your heart and know what u want. Smile
 
good thing that u vent out from ur chest.. i hope everything will smooth for u :hug:
 
First I would like to say good venting Rachel. You have the right to feel what you want to feel. ;) You're speaking of yourself, and that's important.

Every person is different how they fall in love, when and where. There's no specify place where someone should falls in love, weather in person, weather on line, whether just by talking to someone. Nobody has the right to judge anyone, or tell us how we are supposed to feel, the only person knows how they feel are themselves. ;)

I don't like the fact that some would say "You're going too fast", nor "You fell in love too fast", Nobody can tell me what my heart is feeling, nobody has the right to judge anyone, or tried to trash relationship, or butting in people's love life. It isn't anyone's business, and it's not your life. It's their life and only theirs. ;)

Take a few members here for example, Sweetheart and Seq (forgive me for using your member's names as an example.) They fell in love on line, then they met in real life, Sweetheart moved in with Seq just after they first met, they're still together and very happy. Take Roadrunner and Angel (Forgive me) for another example, They fell in love on line, met in real life, couple months later Roadrunner moved in with my sister, they're still together and getting marry this year of July.

Is it anyone's business how fast they go in a relationship? Of course not, all we should do is be happy for them. (This is generally speaking, not pointing fingers at anyone)

Gonna say this, Nobody is perfect, we fall in love, we get our heart broken, we find new love, or we will never find love. But, still it doesn't give anyone any right to ruin relationships, judge one another. Everyone has their own needs, their own want, their own love life, and how they want to live their life. Thank-you. ;)

Just my four cent.
 
Cheri, I understandable your feeling as compare w/others...

Isn't my position as long you want be happy.. That would be no problem.
Remmy, I'll be here for you.. Hey you, keep your chin up...
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Good vent Rachel!! AND Cheri good post :)
 
I've learned something that if you want to vent this is a good place to do it.. if you don't want to vent in public just simply get a book or a pad of paper write everything that comes to mind.. DON'T READ IT and throw it in the garbage you'll feel much better afterwards... It'll do you good!!! the more you vent the better you feel !!!
 
I agree with cheri with her post.

and sometime it is good to vent

you just need to know where you stand (obviously u do:) )

my advice?...here it is dont let men play u :)
 
SpiceHD said:
I agree with cheri with her post.

and sometime it is good to vent

you just need to know where you stand (obviously u do:) )

my advice?...here it is dont let men play u :)
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ditto that!! as well noone is perfect!! if it not work out it's not meant to be... some work some don't at least you did try!! maybe end up being great friends than just a couple.. smile
 
cheri great vent and post i agree with ya

i undy how cheri and rachel have been though you all not alone i am in this too smile :grouphug: with cheri and rachel
 
good vent rach. :) same here i wud just let guys talk *yawns* cuz online doesn't really mean anything to me unless it's in person then that's whole different ballpark here.. so just have fun and be careful online ;)
 
Yuppie, and thanks... I had to go back to threads that person made, and I sensed that he was lying and whatever happened in south. I don't want to be like that. I hate controlling men... On myspace he wrote "Keep your hands off my woman!" comment on a picture of me and a black congressman.. so I had to remove that comment as well.
 
Wow.. good vent, Rachel..and ya too, Cheri.. yeah who knows what kind of guy will show up for ya and etc.. there's always some chance of the guy being a bit in the odd way and not doing anything that would be enough to love more and etc? I dunno, and I hope that makes sense.. if not, I'll try again and explain somehow?
 
Northstar said:
Wow.. good vent, Rachel..and ya too, Cheri.. yeah who knows what kind of guy will show up for ya and etc.. there's always some chance of the guy being a bit in the odd way and not doing anything that would be enough to love more and etc? I dunno, and I hope that makes sense.. if not, I'll try again and explain somehow?
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Yep I got what you mean.... He also want to rush everything when meet me... no thanks for that... He said he was going to ask me to marry him when we meet first time and he was planning on getting me a ring but lucky I dumped him before he bought ring... what a close call!!
 
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