Is this cheating?

Daisy - I just found a pix of us in fb that may be as cheating :lol: Would you like me to post it here?
 
Jiro said:
Daisy - I just found a pix of us in fb that may be as cheating :lol: Would you like me to post it here?
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What are you trying to do, troublemaker? :shock:

Errr no she is not cheater, she's comfortable because she might have an understanding husband. I am sure they talked about trust and honest.
 
one thing for sure - if the BF/Hubby or GF/Wife is not happy with the pix like above, then this is the kind of person I will not date. I don't like insecurity problem. It's all about trust and she should trust me that I wouldn't cheat around.
 
Jiro said:
one thing for sure - if the BF/Hubby or GF/Wife is not happy with the pix like above, then this is the kind of person I will not date. I don't like insecurity problem. It's all about trust and she should trust me that I wouldn't cheat around.
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That's your choice, your decision, your believe, your vaule, that's you. What is your status again, single? Oh just wonder :cool2:

I do not like dealing with insecurity neither. Sometime I have to understand why people feel insecurity. It has to do with their experience or not communicating/trusting enough because lack of understanding? It’s possible. Guide them, teach them with patience. I learned that way in the hard way
 
Jiro said:
one thing for sure - if the BF/Hubby or GF/Wife is not happy with the pix like above, then this is the kind of person I will not date. I don't like insecurity problem. It's all about trust and she should trust me that I wouldn't cheat around.
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but on the other hand, what if FF didn't tell her husband about ALLDEAF at all?
 
they are married. I trust my husband enough that if he didn't tell me about his lunch with a girl, it wouldn't bother me (and I'm sure he have many times and I don't know about it. although he have told me about them. I know about this because he is willing to be open about it whenever topic ever come up) But if we were dating and not married... it does. I guess it is because relationship is new.
 
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Lighthouse77 said:
but on the other hand, what if FF didn't tell her husband about ALLDEAF at all?
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LOL nah, He knew about it that we had one computer at this time I was a member here sine 2003. Also, he knows that I went to NYC to meet bunches of alldeafers. This AD is in public, not in private. anyone can see this. :shock:
 
all I know is that if my husband stop communicating with me, no matter what the topic is, I know our marriage is in trouble.

Some people get divorce because people spend more time on the computer, out at a bar, etc. because they communicate less with their spouse.
 
Lighthouse77 said:
but on the other hand, what if FF didn't tell her husband about ALLDEAF at all?
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does it really matter? I don't really care what forum or website my wife/gf frequents to. It's really none of my business. I don't think we need to tell each other every single thing. It's not that important as long as there's privacy and honesty.
 
Driving Miss Daisy said:
That's your choice, your decision, your believe, your vaule, that's you. What is your status again, single? Oh just wonder :cool2:

I do not like dealing with insecurity neither. Sometime I have to understand why people feel insecurity. It has to do with their experience or not communicating/trusting enough because lack of understanding? It’s possible. Guide them, teach them with patience. I learned that way in the hard way
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lol! you didn't know?? I'm single yes.
 
I'm confused. People tied the knot does not mean they won’t fall in love or like someone else in their lifetime. That’s great the marriage couples trust their partners, but wouldn't they be careful sometimes? Look at Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt. They were happily married couple til Brad fell in love with Angelina Jolie. People cannot control their feelings, and actually they don't physical cheating on their partners. Is that something? Again, that’s me. Everyone is different.

Driving Miss Daisy trusts a man who communicates with me. Many times, I have seen women sent romantic notes and taking pictures with female friends to his sweetheart. He interacted with everyone. That’s super cool because I trust his judgement and will be responsible to speak, I'm not single and f**k off (maybe in the nice way.) But this unknown boyfriend went to a concert w/o telling his girlfriend and kept it “secret,” until this girlfriend found out by a picture in social network. That hypocrite boyfriend should not preach on this “communication is a key word. I rather to tell my girlfriend even it will hurt her than keeping it secret not to casue the problem.” That is not cool. I understand his girlfriend. She was hurt.
 
Lighthouse77 said:
all I know is that if my husband stop communicating with me, no matter what the topic is, I know our marriage is in trouble.

Some people get divorce because people spend more time on the computer, out at a bar, etc. because they communicate less with their spouse.
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bingo. that's true. what you just said above is usually always a good indicator that the marriage/relationship is in trouble. Or it's possibly because he/she is very addicted and addiction is not healthy. Addiction hurts people.
 
Driving Miss Daisy said:
I'm confused. People tied the knot does not mean they won’t fall in love or like someone else in their lifetime. That’s great the marriage couples trust their partners, but wouldn't they be careful sometimes? Look at Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt. They were happily married couple til Brad fell in love with Angelina Jolie. People cannot control their feelings, and actually they don't physical cheating on their partners. Is that something? Again, that’s me. Everyone is different.

Driving Miss Daisy trusts a man who communicates with me. Many times, I have seen women sent romantic notes and taking pictures with female friends to his sweetheart. He interacted with everyone. That’s super cool because I trust his judgement and will be responsible to speak, I'm not single and f**k off (maybe in the nice way.) But this unknown boyfriend went to a concert w/o telling his girlfriend and kept it “secret,” until this girlfriend found out by a picture in social network. That hypocrite boyfriend should not preach on this “communication is a key word. I rather to tell my girlfriend even it will hurt her than keeping it secret not to casue the problem.” That is not cool. I understand his girlfriend. She was hurt.
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First sign of cheating is lack of communication..
 
Jiro said:
does it really matter? I don't really care what forum or website my wife/gf frequents to. It's really none of my business. I don't think we need to tell each other every single thing. It's not that important as long as there's privacy and honesty.
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It would be a big deal if FF took off at night without telling her husband :) and then won't say anything to him about it.
 
Lighthouse77 said:
It would be a big deal if FF took off at night without telling her husband :)
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now that's the different story. but then.... wife is not my daughter and she doesn't need my permission to go out but yea it would be nice of her to let me know if she's going out
 
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