Anyone on Alldeaf, whose is a proud BBW?

Mrs Bucket said:
I have excellent advice too.

Don't wait. :hug: I didn't wait for my hubby and he didn't wait for me. We both just literally took a huge risk and we are so glad we did it.

Seqs and Brad, this is for both of you as well.

In love and life, risks are important to take. Hubby and I did it. Hubby is American and I'm Canadian. Long distance relationships, I was finished with it.. throughout and done. Burnt out of love as well & pretty much tired of men.

Hubby was a good friend of mine online and we chatted really well. We just clicked online and he was a wonderful confidante and an excellent friend of mine. He never judged me & I the same as him. He knew me for who I was at the most vulnerable moment of my life and he didn't take advantage of me. I really appreciated him and started to fall in love with him when I was single.

We took risks and we started dating in real life. We did not want an online relationship as we had an online friendship. I moved to USA with him and he did the same for me, he moved to Canada. It was a real test of faith for both of us and you know, it worked.

We learned about communication, of course, we had our arguments and this was how we knew more about each other. We discussed who would move to which country. I volunteered to move to USA, hubby decided to do the opposite which surprised me and shocked me.

He stated all the reasons and you know, I fell in love with him much more. Each day, we learned more about each other and we married. We had our own private and intimate wedding ceremony with our families. We chose our vows and it was something we both planned & wanted. Nothing traditional and something unique to reflect off on our unique relationship built on how we grew together.

It's 2 1/2 years we've married and we believe in celebrating each day of our marriage together. When people ask us what's our secret, we say "Love yourself and take risks."

You just never know what love offers.

Don't wait.
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Good advice but I've heard conflicting advice that suggests not actively looking for someone.

I have no idea what works best. I just stay positive.
 
Mrs Bucket said:
I have excellent advice too.

Don't wait. :hug: I didn't wait for my hubby and he didn't wait for me. We both just literally took a huge risk and we are so glad we did it.

Seqs and Brad, this is for both of you as well.

In love and life, risks are important to take. Hubby and I did it. Hubby is American and I'm Canadian. Long distance relationships, I was finished with it.. throughout and done. Burnt out of love as well & pretty much tired of men.

Hubby was a good friend of mine online and we chatted really well. We just clicked online and he was a wonderful confidante and an excellent friend of mine. He never judged me & I the same as him. He knew me for who I was at the most vulnerable moment of my life and he didn't take advantage of me. I really appreciated him and started to fall in love with him when I was single.

We took risks and we started dating in real life. We did not want an online relationship as we had an online friendship. I moved to USA with him and he did the same for me, he moved to Canada. It was a real test of faith for both of us and you know, it worked.

We learned about communication, of course, we had our arguments and this was how we knew more about each other. We discussed who would move to which country. I volunteered to move to USA, hubby decided to do the opposite which surprised me and shocked me.

He stated all the reasons and you know, I fell in love with him much more. Each day, we learned more about each other and we married. We had our own private and intimate wedding ceremony with our families. We chose our vows and it was something we both planned & wanted. Nothing traditional and something unique to reflect off on our unique relationship built on how we grew together.

It's 2 1/2 years we've married and we believe in celebrating each day of our marriage together. When people ask us what's our secret, we say "Love yourself and take risks."

You just never know what love offers.

Don't wait.
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lumbingmi said:
Sequoias' favorite magazines :lol:

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That is the best magazine ever!!! It would be a dream true to be in it....ohhh did I say that outloud....ha ha :P
 
BradB08 said:
BBW-lover here. Of course, it depends on the BBW herself. Some I am attracted to and others I am not.

I am a big guy though and find it hard to find a good woman. At least when I play my cards right, I can get a BBW for the night.
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Wow....but wouldnt you want a bbw for more then a night?
 
sequoias said:
yep, that's who you are! ;) BTW, some of you don't know what SSBBW means....it means super sized big beautiful woman. Some of you saw her pictures in the the pictures thread so you get the idea. SSBBW in general whose weighs at least 325-350 lbs (depends on the source).
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Well Sequoias, sometimes an SSBBW can weigh more then 350lbs :)
 
Aghori said:
Are BBWs consider themselves as fat acceptance? Or part of their lifestyles?
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Aghori,

I think it really depends on the bbw or the larger person and if they wish to get involved with the size acceptance movement or more involved in fat acceptance. It can be in many lives and degrees in life, some of the bbw's I know choose to be out spoken and to out and speak for the other bigger women and men of this world and others just choose to live there lives as they do. Some are destined to do more then others, but I really believe we all do our part on fat acceptance when we go into the world each day and be who we are and confident in the skin we are in.

Thank you
 
Gabi said:
That is the best magazine ever!!! It would be a dream true to be in it....ohhh did I say that outloud....ha ha :P
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:giggle: You showed me that magazine when we met in person on Dec 2007. They got pretty good articles about the bbw models in there.
 
Gabi said:
Aghori,

I think it really depends on the bbw or the larger person and if they wish to get involved with the size acceptance movement or more involved in fat acceptance. It can be in many lives and degrees in life, some of the bbw's I know choose to be out spoken and to out and speak for the other bigger women and men of this world and others just choose to live there lives as they do. Some are destined to do more then others, but I really believe we all do our part on fat acceptance when we go into the world each day and be who we are and confident in the skin we are in.

Thank you
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Good posting!
 
sequoias said:
:giggle: You showed me that magazine when we met in person on Dec 2007. They got pretty good articles about the bbw models in there.
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Really! I am glad you like it so much! I really believe Bodacious is just like Playboy but for the larger and bigger women :) And those who love them :) hehe
 
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