I think its all dependent on the situation. you cant neccisarily help who you have feelings for, if you choose to act on them is your descression obviously. No one is 100% this or 100% that. I dont know why people are so quick to judge or put labels on things, apparently it makes people feel...
Does a cochlear implant allow one to hear? Lol ive played at the rave a few times. Ive opened for Paul Oakenfold a few years ago if your familiar with him. =D. I love loud music myself! Are you deaf?