your parents think about you dating boyfriend and girlfriend?

[sara1981]

Sara, I wish you the best of luck with the right man just to be sure, But who you date is your business and you are 26 years old, Your parents can't control who you date. But I do agree on some of the people that says "becareful who you date from online" , Because I been there many times. My advice if you not yet have met him in person, I suggest you meet him in a safe public places with bunch of people around or bring a friend around with you so you can be sure feel safe before you trust a guy. People don't always say what they means online then it is in person. It still a risk you have to becareful. If you gonna meet him in person, get to know him ask him plenty of questions, study him and make sure he don't have a criminal background. Some guys can be perverts or a rapist online. So please becareful, alert and safe. It may not seems like a big deal online dating, but it best think twice. I would not have say this to you if I didn't care about you. I am sure other people on the post cares about you too. I believe they just want you to be safe than sorry.

i dont know what you says but that story very nice

but i dont using dating online anymores but im been using dating online for years till im quit that dating online for good excuse!

but i always asked my boyfriend on e-mail question lots,lots! ever! but im sure he would be so trust me im hope so but we have wait and see!

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Sara,

Yes, I remember your past threads over your ex-online boyfriends and disappointed that they are scammers until you found your online boyfriend "James Windsor" and said that he is not scammer because you know him from Royal Forum.

I can understand where ADers come from. They want to help you to see yourself because they know your past threads about ex-online boyfriends. James is one of your online boyfriend and said that he is not scammer.

Okay, you are an adult and know what you doing. All what I want to say is wish you best of good luck.

 

[sara1981]

Sara,

Yes, I remember your past threads over your ex-online boyfriends and disappointed that they are scammers until you found your online boyfriend "James Windsor" and said that he is not scammer because you know him from Royal Forum.

I can understand where ADers come from. They want to help you to see yourself because they know your past threads about ex-online boyfriends. James is one of your online boyfriend and said that he is not scammer.

Okay, you are an adult and know what you doing. All what I want to say is wish you best of good luck.

James is not include with online dating but he found me on royals forums where i was member of Royals forums they later im no longer he found my e-mail address they later i exchanges e-mail address to James on yahoo.

you are right im also adult i know what im doing what i know what best for good or bad scammer but James dont using scam to send me money neither!

i would trust you

 

[Jiro]

no offense but... it's kind of hard to read what you're saying. it's incoherent!!

however - before I say anything, I speak frankly and crude - I don't sugarcoat anything I say. That's why a lot of people, in an odd way, actually respected and valued my opinions because I give them a cold, hard truth in whatever the situation they're in (usually bad) and it usually help them a lot. If people get in deep shit situation that they want to get out (relationship, legal problem, life, whatever), it usually takes a big slap on their faces for them to realize the situation and take action that they did not want to take. Most of their friends would just encourage them (false hope) or sugarcoat thing or say something useless like "it's ok. it's your choice. whatever you decide, I'll be with you, etc."

I'm not a mean person but just drama-free guy so forgive me if I'm being frank and crude.

anyway... from what I gather... NO he is not your boyfriend at all until you meet him in person and actually held hands together. As far as I'm concerned, he could be a jerk or a lonely person who enjoys telling lies or being smooth to anybody online. I'm sorry but "online-dating" him for a long time does not qualify him as your boyfriend. You need to stop fooling yourself. Honey, if he's "too busy" and dragging this on for months, he ain't coming at all. He's toying with you. I don't care if he's such a sweetheart and understands you well. I'm not being judgmental but if your mom is telling you what to do all the time, maybe it means you're not matured and not ready to do handle things responsibly yourself.

Try to make every effort to meet a guy from around you. I understand there's nobody in your town that you like. It happens. but unless you live in a farm house with nothing around for 100 miles... go with friend to club/bar/party/etc. and talk to anybody that interests you. You're 26 years old. I'm 26 years old too and I'm HOH. You should be comfortable with yourself to talk to anybody. I understand that your confidence would get shot down if one person said something mean to you but don't let that ruin you!. just be confident and meet people and keep meeting until you find one great guy. You try on many clothes at store before you find one that fits you well, right? same thing

keep your head up and grin!

 

[sara1981]

no offense but... it's kind of hard to read what you're saying. it's incoherent!!

however - before I say anything, I speak frankly and crude - I don't sugarcoat anything I say. That's why a lot of people, in an odd way, actually respected and valued my opinions because I give them a cold, hard truth in whatever the situation they're in (usually bad) and it usually help them a lot. If people get in deep shit situation that they want to get out (relationship, legal problem, life, whatever), it usually takes a big slap on their faces for them to realize the situation and take action that they did not want to take. Most of their friends would just encourage them (false hope) or sugarcoat thing or say something useless like "it's ok. it's your choice. whatever you decide, I'll be with you, etc."

I'm not a mean person but just drama-free guy so forgive me if I'm being frank and crude.

anyway... from what I gather... NO he is not your boyfriend at all until you meet him in person and actually held hands together. As far as I'm concerned, he could be a jerk or a lonely person who enjoys telling lies or being smooth to anybody online. I'm sorry but "online-dating" him for a long time does not qualify him as your boyfriend. You need to stop fooling yourself. Honey, if he's "too busy" and dragging this on for months, he ain't coming at all. He's toying with you. I don't care if he's such a sweetheart and understands you well. I'm not being judgmental but if your mom is telling you what to do all the time, maybe it means you're not matured and not ready to do handle things responsibly yourself.

Try to make every effort to meet a guy from around you. I understand there's nobody in your town that you like. It happens. but unless you live in a farm house with nothing around for 100 miles... go with friend to club/bar/party/etc. and talk to anybody that interests you. You're 26 years old. I'm 26 years old too and I'm HOH. You should be comfortable with yourself to talk to anybody. I understand that your confidence would get shot down if one person said something mean to you but don't let that ruin you!. just be confident and meet people and keep meeting until you find one great guy. You try on many clothes at store before you find one that fits you well, right? same thing

keep your head up and grin!

your story very impressive!

 

[Pinky]

About me. My dad have passed away when I was 15. I dated with age 21 when I was 16. My mom think that man is too older for me. We are together for 1 half month. He cheated on me. I found it out he was a gay. He got me a broken virgin. My mom didn't like him. I dated with deaf younger boy. She think he is immature. She drove me crazy! She didn't like to see any guys hurt me. It make her piss off. She is caring about me. My mom helped me to find a right man. She said must pray to god to send me a right man like my mom did to my dad. I never see my parent get divorce. They are happy and true love. She was a widow. Now I have a new husband. My mom really love him so much. My mom and My husband both are disagree on wedding stuff. It drove me nuts! His mom and I are disagree too. His mom is a old fashioned! I am sick of old-fashioned decorate and stuff. I don't want our living room decorate like a grandma! LoL I prefer to have a style and simple decorate. His mom is really love me so much! His family are happy for him to have me. My family is happy for me to have him.

 

[Awauphi]

About me. My dad have passed away when I was 15. I dated with age 21 when I was 16. My mom think that man is too older for me. We are together for 1 half month. He cheated on me. I found it out he was a gay. He got me a broken virgin. My mom didn't like him. I dated with deaf younger boy. She think he is immature. She drove me crazy! She didn't like to see any guys hurt me. It make her piss off. She is caring about me. My mom helped me to find a right man. She said must pray to god to send me a right man like my mom did to my dad. I never see my parent get divorce. They are happy and true love. She was a widow. Now I have a new husband. My mom really love him so much. My mom and My husband both are disagree on wedding stuff. It drove me nuts! His mom and I are disagree too. His mom is a old fashioned! I am sick of old-fashioned decorate and stuff. I don't want our living room decorate like a grandma! LoL I prefer to have a style and simple decorate. His mom is really love me so much! His family are happy for him to have me. My family is happy for me to have him.

I am now confused... you said you will get married next month. Now you said he is your husband? make your own mind up. jeez!

 

[Pinky]

I know. I mean soon to be my husband. I just tired to say fiance. It very close to marry next month. I don't care! I like to say my husband that all. I am sorry for confusing you.

I am now confused... you said you will get married next month. Now you said he is your husband? make your own mind up. jeez!

 

[Awauphi]

I know. I mean soon to be my husband. I just tired to say fiance. It very close to marry next month. I don't care! I like to say my husband that all. I am sorry for confusing you.

fiance and husband have 2 different meanings.

Fiance mean you are bethroed to be married.


fi·an·cé (fēän-sā', fē-än'sā)
---------------------------------

[French, from past participle of fiancer, to betroth, from Old French fiancier, from fiance, trust, from fier, to trust, from Vulgar Latin* fīdāre, from Latin fīdere.]

noun
A man to whom a woman is engaged to be married.

Dictionary entries for 'fiance' - Ask.com Search



Dictionary entries for 'husband' - Ask.com Search

hus·band (hŭz'bənd)
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[Middle English huseband, from Old English hūsbōnda, from Old Norse hūsbōndi, hūs, house, + bōndi, būandi, householder present participle of būa, to dwell.]

noun
A man joined to a woman in marriage; a male spouse.


husband mean you are married to him for good and bad times.


Marriage - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Marriage is a personal union between individuals. This union may also be called matrimony, while the ceremony that marks its beginning is called a wedding and the status created is sometimes called wedlock. The act of marriage changes the personal status of the individuals in the eyes of the law and society.


I prefer truth than being deceived. I am sure others agree with me. so therefore you are not married to him just YET. so he is not your husband. as you said you will get married next month so right now you are still engaged to be married.

 

[Cheri]

I know. I mean soon to be my husband. I just tired to say fiance. It very close to marry next month. I don't care! I like to say my husband that all. I am sorry for confusing you.

You can say it's your husband, because you'll be marrying him very soon. Are you excite?

 

[Pinky]

I KNOW!!!!! I'm not stupid about the dictionary. You don't have to show me the dictionary. I know what is husband and fiance mean. I always use my own eyes to check it out. You don't have to harsh at me. I am calling my fiance to be my husband real soonest! My fiance said, "I am tired of being call you're my fiance. I can't wait for you to be my wife." He will be my husband. So who cares?? You don't need to say JEEZ. It sound you have a bad attitude at me. You're so rude! I do agree with Cheri said. She is right.

I prefer truth than being deceived. I am sure others agree with me. so therefore you are not married to him just YET. so he is not your husband. as you said you will get married next month so right now you are still engaged to be married.

 

[Pinky]

You can say it's your husband, because you'll be marrying him very soon. Are you excite?

Thank you! Of course, I am so exciting! I can't wait to go honeymoon with my handsome man!

 

[deafdyke]

As far as I'm concerned, he could be a jerk or a lonely person who enjoys telling lies or being smooth to anybody online. I'm sorry but "online-dating" him for a long time does not qualify him as your boyfriend. You need to stop fooling yourself. Honey, if he's "too busy" and dragging this on for months, he ain't coming at all. He's toying with you. I don't care if he's such a sweetheart and understands you well. I'm not being judgmental but if your mom is telling you what to do all the time, maybe it means you're not matured and not ready to do handle things responsibly yourself.

AMEN!!!!
You really need to be VERY careful about online relationships.

 

[Awauphi]

I KNOW!!!!! I'm not stupid about the dictionary. You don't have to show me the dictionary. I know what is husband and fiance mean. I always use my own eyes to check it out. You don't have to harsh at me. I am calling my fiance to be my husband real soonest! My fiance said, "I am tired of being call you're my fiance. I can't wait for you to be my wife." He will be my husband. So who cares?? You don't need to say JEEZ. It sound you have a bad attitude at me. You're so rude! I do agree with Cheri said. She is right.

I was not being harsh. I was just helping you with the dictionary. no harm done.

btw jeez is a sound I always made. it is not bad attitude. it is just a sound that i made. thats all.

 

[Pinky]

Oh ok. I thought you were rude. But it's alright. Thank you for helping me anyways. I am first time to get marry in my life.

I was not being harsh. I was just helping you with the dictionary. no harm done.

btw jeez is a sound I always made. it is not bad attitude. it is just a sound that i made. thats all.

 

[shel90]

I was not being harsh. I was just helping you with the dictionary. no harm done.

btw jeez is a sound I always made. it is not bad attitude. it is just a sound that i made. thats all.

Jeez Freaky Cat!!! look what u did! Just kidding.

 

[Cheri]

no offense but... it's kind of hard to read what you're saying. it's incoherent!!

however - before I say anything, I speak frankly and crude - I don't sugarcoat anything I say. That's why a lot of people, in an odd way, actually respected and valued my opinions because I give them a cold, hard truth in whatever the situation they're in (usually bad) and it usually help them a lot. If people get in deep shit situation that they want to get out (relationship, legal problem, life, whatever), it usually takes a big slap on their faces for them to realize the situation and take action that they did not want to take. Most of their friends would just encourage them (false hope) or sugarcoat thing or say something useless like "it's ok. it's your choice. whatever you decide, I'll be with you, etc."

I'm not a mean person but just drama-free guy so forgive me if I'm being frank and crude.

anyway... from what I gather... NO he is not your boyfriend at all until you meet him in person and actually held hands together. As far as I'm concerned, he could be a jerk or a lonely person who enjoys telling lies or being smooth to anybody online. I'm sorry but "online-dating" him for a long time does not qualify him as your boyfriend. You need to stop fooling yourself. Honey, if he's "too busy" and dragging this on for months, he ain't coming at all. He's toying with you. I don't care if he's such a sweetheart and understands you well. I'm not being judgmental but if your mom is telling you what to do all the time, maybe it means you're not matured and not ready to do handle things responsibly yourself.

Try to make every effort to meet a guy from around you. I understand there's nobody in your town that you like. It happens. but unless you live in a farm house with nothing around for 100 miles... go with friend to club/bar/party/etc. and talk to anybody that interests you. You're 26 years old. I'm 26 years old too and I'm HOH. You should be comfortable with yourself to talk to anybody. I understand that your confidence would get shot down if one person said something mean to you but don't let that ruin you!. just be confident and meet people and keep meeting until you find one great guy. You try on many clothes at store before you find one that fits you well, right? same thing

keep your head up and grin!

!!

 

[shel90]

no offense but... it's kind of hard to read what you're saying. it's incoherent!!

however - before I say anything, I speak frankly and crude - I don't sugarcoat anything I say. That's why a lot of people, in an odd way, actually respected and valued my opinions because I give them a cold, hard truth in whatever the situation they're in (usually bad) and it usually help them a lot. If people get in deep shit situation that they want to get out (relationship, legal problem, life, whatever), it usually takes a big slap on their faces for them to realize the situation and take action that they did not want to take. Most of their friends would just encourage them (false hope) or sugarcoat thing or say something useless like "it's ok. it's your choice. whatever you decide, I'll be with you, etc."

I'm not a mean person but just drama-free guy so forgive me if I'm being frank and crude.

anyway... from what I gather... NO he is not your boyfriend at all until you meet him in person and actually held hands together. As far as I'm concerned, he could be a jerk or a lonely person who enjoys telling lies or being smooth to anybody online. I'm sorry but "online-dating" him for a long time does not qualify him as your boyfriend. You need to stop fooling yourself. Honey, if he's "too busy" and dragging this on for months, he ain't coming at all. He's toying with you. I don't care if he's such a sweetheart and understands you well. I'm not being judgmental but if your mom is telling you what to do all the time, maybe it means you're not matured and not ready to do handle things responsibly yourself.

Try to make every effort to meet a guy from around you. I understand there's nobody in your town that you like. It happens. but unless you live in a farm house with nothing around for 100 miles... go with friend to club/bar/party/etc. and talk to anybody that interests you. You're 26 years old. I'm 26 years old too and I'm HOH. You should be comfortable with yourself to talk to anybody. I understand that your confidence would get shot down if one person said something mean to you but don't let that ruin you!. just be confident and meet people and keep meeting until you find one great guy. You try on many clothes at store before you find one that fits you well, right? same thing

keep your head up and grin!

Hey can you come over here and tell my friend how her husband treats her like crap..make her wake up? Maybe your approach would work!!! I tried the blunt way but either I didnt do it well enough or she needs someone neutral to tell her that. LOL!

 

[DragonYoga]

Sara, I dated online ONE time - and only because the guy was a friend of my friend - it's how we met. We talked a lot online and then he came down from VA for my birthday and again for Christmas. The first time we met, was in a public place. We had a nice time, and even though I broke up with him (for my own reasons), we are still very good friends. I think we were together for almost 1 year or just past 1 year.

Sara, I read Crime Library: crime stories on serial killers, the mafia, terrorists, spies, assassins and gangsters a lot, and there are several cases of people being KILLED by their online dates.

IF "James Windsor" comes to see you OR you go see him... BE CAREFUL.

Online dating is good for sex abusers - easy to get what they want and hard for police to catch.

And I'm 27, almost 28 - BE CAREFUL.

 

[The Highlander]

thanks!

i told my boyfriend that he trying to save money for trips but he would plans visit me somedays because he lives in Apts as rent for years im not sure how long he lives in apts but im hope he will get moves from apts somedays.

i never have webcam of him and but im been using webcam to my ex-boyfriend and that my vows to dont using webcams anymores because my ex-boyfriend asked me to show my private parts! that sick! but i asked my boyfriend if he have webcam or not but he dont have!

my boyfriend not false! he true person but he never send me money or anythings but he trust me.

Just vows to dont show your private parts.

Webcam cost $10-$100 vs airplane cost $1,200-$2k for round.

ESL and ASL are not same. How hell can you commication with him in sign?

If he is not falsed then you are FALSE OR STUPID.