what is true love?

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what does true love feel like? if u dont mind i wud like to hear some of ur comments and if u have a story that include romantic like ur bf or whatever u may post here i wud love to read and see how u feel heh and tell me how u feel and know he is ur true love? thanks folks heh
 
DzRikku said:
what does true love feel like? if u dont mind i wud like to hear some of ur comments and if u have a story that include romantic like ur bf or whatever u may post here i wud love to read and see how u feel heh and tell me how u feel and know he is ur true love? thanks folks heh
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ask DR MEGPOO!!! :whistle:
 
zesty said:
ask DR MEGPOO!!! :whistle:
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MOI????


By the way, this is a cute emoticon for love!
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Ten Things You Never Knew About Relationships

When you finally attract and build a healthy relationship, a whole new world of realizations opens up to you. You finally understand how relationships work and what deep, true love really looks like.

1.) Today I'll share ten things you will realize once you are in a healthy relationship.

2.) You did not know your soul mate right away.

When you met you soul mate, you did not know him or her by fanfare and the rush of hormones. You only knew him or her by a very gentle tug on your heart.

3.)Relationships rarely look like romantic movies or books.

Imaginary people fall in love quickly and live happily ever after. Real people fall into real love slowly and live fully ever after. It took you about 6 to 9 months to appreciate your partner enough to think about falling in love with him or her.

4.)It takes years to really get to know someone.

The gift of being human is our complexity. Is it possible to know someone in a week, a month, a few dates? Can you reveal all of your complexity in that short amount of time? How long does it take someone to truly know you? It took you years to truly get to know your partner.

5.)Great relationships are completely worth the effort.

There is nothing like being in a great relationship. There is nothing like being seen and known by the one you love, and seeing and loving back. You are grateful you have this gift, even though it took a lot of work to get here.

6.)In spite of lots of bad relationships, a great relationship is possible.

It doesn't matter if you have been "unlucky in love." All that matters is that you have taken the steps necessary to build a great relationship. These were different steps than the ones you have taken in the past. If you had to do this again, you would know exactly what to do.

7.)A relationship is like a living being; it needs love, caring, space, etc.

People tend to either ignore or smother relationships. In the first case they ignore their partner, thinking that a relationship, once established, will always be there. Or in the other extreme, they spend every moment with their partner, give, and expect undivided attention. If you had a pet, how would it survive under such conditions?

But you know better, you give your relationship the time, attention, and space it needs.

7.)Your relationship doesn't have to be like your parents'.

Regardless of the models and worldview of the previous generations, your life still belongs to you. You have chosen how you do your relationships, instead of blindly doing or thinking something just because it comes naturally.

8.)You have a great relationship because you don't need one.

Your life is wonderful and having a relationship is not its focus. This is why you attracted the right mate. You know that heaving a great life is not at all the same as forcing yourself not to think about relationships or shutting down out of disappointment.

9.)There is no such thing as boredom in a relationship.

There may be anger, resentment, shut down, but never boredom. How can you get bored with your partner when your needs are being met, when you have great communication, when you feel loved and love back? Could you ever be bored with that? What people think of as boredom is actually the accumulated weight of unspoken resentments and anger squeezing the life out a relationship.

10.)Good sex does not mean a good relationship.

Looking back, you know sex is not how you connected with you partner. The two of you have created a romantic relationship you enjoy. And from that, you have created a sex life you enjoy. Now you know that when you meet someone, you need to get to know them first and not audition them for a sex partner.
 
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You said it well, Sabrina :)

But tell us how YOU define your true love for American Chopper. What makes you know it is real with American Chopper not other men? :ty:
 
Meg said:
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You said it well, Sabrina :)

But tell us how YOU define your true love for American Chopper. What makes you know it is real with American Chopper not other men? :ty:
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If there is something bothering you. Important open the communication instead of hold any issues inside your chest. It will help the relationship last long.

Give plenty of affectionate, find something interesting outdoor, activitiy, involve with family, friends, etc...

Honset is very important for the relationship ! You have to accept for who he is. He has to accept for who she is... We can't be picky over a little things.

We constantly argued over watch the T.V. He is freaking football games ! I am freaking to watch Lifetime movies.. :whistle:

Sometime, our communication has been challenge to find the right answer. We accept if we get wrong. ;) He knows so much about history and sports, etc... Not me... :lol:
 
Zesty - is this what you mean? I found this in Magatsu's old thread.


The definition of love has been analyzed by poets, philosophers, artists and people of all walks of life ever since civilization begun.

Yet, it remains interpretative. Each person has her/his own definition based on experiences.

Love is hard to find yet will grow steadily and strong once its roots are watered with daily affirmations.

In my case:
Love means having unusually deep, tender, affectionate and caring feelings for someone that surpasses ordinarness. It is there even during bad times. It means encouraging and pushing that person to be the best. It means sacrificing or compromising for that person. It means being committed to that person.

It is very easy to think you've found love but most are "like" or "lust". So it is hard to know if it is really love or not. But best way to test is if its given time. Time will reveal if its genuine love. In addition, if that person sticks through hard times with you and remain devoted, it means the real thing.

On the other hand, I noticed that when one is really in love, there s not a time she or he will question whether its love or not. That person simply knows. Heart knows before the mind.
 
Sabrina said:
If there is something bothering you. Important open the communication instead of hold any issues inside your chest. It will help the relationship last long.

Give plenty of affectionate, find something interesting outdoor, activitiy, involve with family, friends, etc...

Honset is very important for the relationship ! You have to accept for who he is. He has to accept for who she is... We can't be picky over a little things.

We constantly argued over watch the T.V. He is freaking football games ! I am freaking to watch Lifetime movies.. :whistle:

Sometime, our communication has been challenge to find the right answer. We accept if we get wrong. ;) He knows so much about history and sports, etc... Not me... :lol:
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*laughs* about the TV thingy. My fiance was arguing with me..and i was pouting like a little girl that I wanted to watch Lifetimes shows. He goes.. waiit it s only commercial!! I was growling @ him ...because he has his own TV in his office!!! MEN!
 
Bewitched,

PRFFTHIIIIIEEE.. Sabrina tends to fall sleep while she watch lifetime.. I take advantage of it when she falls sleep. I can change the channel what I like on TV :nana: :nana: :nana: . hehhhehhee :)
 
AmericanChopper said:
Bewitched,

PRFFTHIIIIIEEE.. Sabrina tends to fall sleep while she watch lifetime.. I take advantage of it when she falls sleep. I can change the channel what I like on TV :nana: :nana: :nana: . hehhhehhee :)
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:fu: prrfftttt american Chopper... Seeeee ladies support me.

You are loser !! MEN !!!! :rofl:
 
Sabrina said:
:fu: prrfftttt american Chopper... Seeeee ladies support me. You are loser !! MEN !!!! :fu:
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Hey bickering couple - why not buy a new TV so you guys can watch two TVs and not fight again? ;)
 
Meg said:
Hey bickering couple - why not buy a new TV so you guys can watch two TVs and not fight again? ;)
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Can we use your credit card? Buy 40 inches flat screen TV ?? meg :kiss: Sabrina
 
Meg said:
Zesty - is this what you mean? I found this in Magatsu's old thread.


The definition of love has been analyzed by poets, philosophers, artists and people of all walks of life ever since civilization begun.

Yet, it remains interpretative. Each person has her/his own definition based on experiences.

Love is hard to find yet will grow steadily and strong once its roots are watered with daily affirmations.

In my case:
Love means having unusually deep, tender, affectionate and caring feelings for someone that surpasses ordinarness. It is there even during bad times. It means encouraging and pushing that person to be the best. It means sacrificing or compromising for that person. It means being committed to that person.

It is very easy to think you've found love but most are "like" or "lust". So it is hard to know if it is really love or not. But best way to test is if its given time. Time will reveal if its genuine love. In addition, if that person sticks through hard times with you and remain devoted, it means the real thing.

On the other hand, I noticed that when one is really in love, there s not a time she or he will question whether its love or not. That person simply knows. Heart knows before the mind.
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yea but there was something else too.. but i lost it! dammit! :pissed: oh well!
 
AmericanChopper said:
Bewitched,

PRFFTHIIIIIEEE.. Sabrina tends to fall sleep while she watch lifetime.. I take advantage of it when she falls sleep. I can change the channel what I like on TV :nana: :nana: :nana: . hehhhehhee :)
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:squint: MEANIE!!!

thank god i am NOT STUCK WITH YOU!! :nana: :rofl:
 
Sabrina said:
:fu: prrfftttt american Chopper... Seeeee ladies support me.

You are loser !! MEN !!!! :rofl:
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then why are you guys getting married??

so you can GET MORE WHAMBAMBAM!?? but really you can still get that whether you are married or not!! :giggle:
 
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