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What if ur woman request to be pregent as she know that u can't have any children as she got preg from someone else as she is doing for you as she want u to be father for her kids as she doesn't want that real father to be responbility as she want u to be father as adopt ... what is ur reaction to this ??? eventhrough u know who is real father ....
 
I would probably feel a bit upset. I know that I can't have children, but my woman should understand that for she loves me for who I am. If she really wants a man who can get her pregnant, I'd tell her to go find someone else. If she wanted to get pregnant and stay with me, then I'd work with her so that she can get a sperm donor. However, I don't think getting pregnant by another guy would exactly be a good idea. That would bring up a lot of unexpected legal battles when it wasn't originally planned. Suppose she says she rather raise the kid with me? What if later, she suddenly feels an urge to sue the other guy for child support or rape? What if later, that guy suddenly sues for child custody? Anything could happen. The more anonymous the sperm is, the less legal hassle you will have to go through. Donor is as the most anonymous as it can get... so there should be no problems. If she already got pregnant by someone else just to make me happy, that would be like having an affair with another guy without my knowledge. What if she does it again? What if she enjoys it? What if she ends up liking that other guy? A lot of things could happen.
 
I personally would disagree with u mentioned..I would prefer go off with adopting children instead of sending my own wife to other man to give her baby..it is consider secret seeds of family tree of adultery..just my believe...my wife and I agreed if children is unable to be breed from ourselve then we will go with adoption..because there are millions of oraphan children who need real home with loving parents.
 
I'd not let her get preg by other man!! it's hassle with legal battles. If she wouldn't accept doing sperm donor... and not accept who YOU are... then it's not worth it to be with her afterall. It's best that you find another woman that accepts who you are no matter what you are... no body is perfect! sadly i can't have children either.. but my fiancee accepted me for who i am and willing to work something out to get her preg one way or another without another man involved! :)
 
It's like opening a big fat can of worms!

Youre not gonna know if hes gonna have biological or genetic bugs to pass it on to your wife and the kids.

Richard
 
Nesmuth said:
It's like opening a big fat can of worms!

Youre not gonna know if hes gonna have biological or genetic bugs to pass it on to your wife and the kids.

Richard
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How true!!!!! ;)
 
VamPyroX said:
I would probably feel a bit upset. I know that I can't have children, but my woman should understand that for she loves me for who I am. If she really wants a man who can get her pregnant, I'd tell her to go find someone else. If she wanted to get pregnant and stay with me, then I'd work with her so that she can get a sperm donor. However, I don't think getting pregnant by another guy would exactly be a good idea. That would bring up a lot of unexpected legal battles when it wasn't originally planned. Suppose she says she rather raise the kid with me? What if later, she suddenly feels an urge to sue the other guy for child support or rape? What if later, that guy suddenly sues for child custody? Anything could happen. The more anonymous the sperm is, the less legal hassle you will have to go through. Donor is as the most anonymous as it can get... so there should be no problems. If she already got pregnant by someone else just to make me happy, that would be like having an affair with another guy without my knowledge. What if she does it again? What if she enjoys it? What if she ends up liking that other guy? A lot of things could happen.
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:werd: so true Vampy and its been known to have happened too
 
This reminds me of that hot, controversial issue with finding a sperm donor with a Deaf gene.
 
I have to agree with Vampy here...

If I find out that I can't have kids, and that she still wants kids, and then finds another guy she isn't even in love with, (or so it seems) and get her pregrent...it would be like an insult and would be kind of disrespectful if she did it behind your back or whatever like that...it would be considered an affair, otherwise. If she is upset that she can't get pregrent or whatever, at least we can still adopt kids! but if she says she rather get pregrent, then she ain't right for me, ya know.
 
Sure, you could keep it secret... but what if the kids find out? Nothing is 100% secret. Imagine if the kids found out that they had a different blood type. How would we answer to that? What if they needed to do some DNA testing or something, but something's not right. If the kid needs something that only the real father has, what could that kid do?
 
I totally agree with all of u .. I just types to ask so i can prove to her how i feel as i am so simply as all of u... also, there is another way to get round as get court agreements for not responbility to be father to the kids like child support or visit right etc u names it ... at least we got his real full names as i have their id number plus i have request him to answer all my questions for what i need to know his background and family history etc ... so i can save it in the files in the case whatever it would be happen to the kids' health reasons so i can track down on him and have him come and help it out in somehow .. know what i mean ???
 
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