If you remember a few months ago, I created a thread...
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20657
Well...now I gotta admit that this has been bothering me longer than I care to admit.
Its the knowledge that there were four (yes, 4) AllDeaf members that have intimate knowledge about this.
One has completely disappeared from sight from both here and from my life - I talked to a friend of mine (no connection to AllDeaf) that lives in that state - and was told that the person feels so quilty about it, that the person will not talk to me anymore, even on AIMs or email. That person has not even apologized to another friend of mine - my friend's name was used in sending the emails to me, suggested by the disappearing AD member.
One was not present when this happened - but I do know that the person does know what really happened.
Two were present when this was done - and both have said that the other did it, and still have not come up with the real story or facts to support their stories.
To this present day, it still bothers me that these four AllDeaf members knows who has done this to me, and yet, not one of them have told me the REAL story or even apologized to me for pulling this cruel prank on me.
Yes, I still continue to talk to three of these people - and one of them have started getting to know me better and emails me more often with what is going on.
One has kind of tapered off in emailing me - we still continue to talk.
One is still emailing me as if nothing is wrong, and often we talk about what is going on at that moment.
However, to tell you the truth...
THIS IS REALLY BOTHERING ME. I have not been able to go past the plateau - and I had been doing really good in my weight loss before this happened. I know it's been six (6) months since that happened, but I would like to know who really did this and why that person did that to me... if it was a prank, then it was a very cruel, thoughtless and heartless prank. If that person has a grievance against me, why not confront me directly and ask me for the truth? I am always willing to tell the truth - even when it may hurt our friendships.
I have been stuck on the same 10 pounds since October - and I would like to be able to put this behind me, so I can continue on the weight loss plan - the doctor has ordered me to lose weight and I do have to follow my doctor's orders...he has told me that I could require knee replacement surgery before I'm 50 years old, and recently he told me that this will take a toll on my life expectancy and that I must lose weight NOW.
Please, please, I beg you, all four of you, to come up to me with the truth - who, why and what reason. I am not going to desert you - yes, I will be hurt, but at least I will be able to put it behind me and move on. Our friendship may be strained for a while, but I am always able to put problems behind me and continue on with friendships.
However, the longer this silence and lying continues, I cannot guarantee that my friendship will continue - it is really hard on me and taking a toll on my health.
Thank you for listening.
DreamDeaf
P.S. Please no drama, negative comments, flaming or statments that says I am looking for drama in my life, which I am not. I am looking for a resolution to this situation that will enable me to put my soul at rest and finally move on.
http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20657
Well...now I gotta admit that this has been bothering me longer than I care to admit.
Its the knowledge that there were four (yes, 4) AllDeaf members that have intimate knowledge about this.
One has completely disappeared from sight from both here and from my life - I talked to a friend of mine (no connection to AllDeaf) that lives in that state - and was told that the person feels so quilty about it, that the person will not talk to me anymore, even on AIMs or email. That person has not even apologized to another friend of mine - my friend's name was used in sending the emails to me, suggested by the disappearing AD member.
One was not present when this happened - but I do know that the person does know what really happened.
Two were present when this was done - and both have said that the other did it, and still have not come up with the real story or facts to support their stories.
To this present day, it still bothers me that these four AllDeaf members knows who has done this to me, and yet, not one of them have told me the REAL story or even apologized to me for pulling this cruel prank on me.
Yes, I still continue to talk to three of these people - and one of them have started getting to know me better and emails me more often with what is going on.
One has kind of tapered off in emailing me - we still continue to talk.
One is still emailing me as if nothing is wrong, and often we talk about what is going on at that moment.
However, to tell you the truth...
THIS IS REALLY BOTHERING ME. I have not been able to go past the plateau - and I had been doing really good in my weight loss before this happened. I know it's been six (6) months since that happened, but I would like to know who really did this and why that person did that to me... if it was a prank, then it was a very cruel, thoughtless and heartless prank. If that person has a grievance against me, why not confront me directly and ask me for the truth? I am always willing to tell the truth - even when it may hurt our friendships.
I have been stuck on the same 10 pounds since October - and I would like to be able to put this behind me, so I can continue on the weight loss plan - the doctor has ordered me to lose weight and I do have to follow my doctor's orders...he has told me that I could require knee replacement surgery before I'm 50 years old, and recently he told me that this will take a toll on my life expectancy and that I must lose weight NOW.
Please, please, I beg you, all four of you, to come up to me with the truth - who, why and what reason. I am not going to desert you - yes, I will be hurt, but at least I will be able to put it behind me and move on. Our friendship may be strained for a while, but I am always able to put problems behind me and continue on with friendships.
However, the longer this silence and lying continues, I cannot guarantee that my friendship will continue - it is really hard on me and taking a toll on my health.
Thank you for listening.
DreamDeaf
P.S. Please no drama, negative comments, flaming or statments that says I am looking for drama in my life, which I am not. I am looking for a resolution to this situation that will enable me to put my soul at rest and finally move on.
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