Still Disturbed...

DreamDeaf said:
Rebbie, me too. Thanks. It's been hard on me and my health, and I do admit that I've taken it out on MizzDeaf a few times, which I have been ashamed of and apologized many times over and over. *sigh* Those emails were such a cruel prank, and if you saw the picture that accompanied them, you'd understand why.
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I tried to open it but I couldn't. I did that with Chris when I was so upset with the other person and I would take it out on chris. It was like he is peaceful and has nothing to do with it.. It kinda pissed me off but that was a long time ago. I do hope that the 4 can respond and apologize and get that over with.
 
I do hope this will be smoothed out and for those that it involves will come forward and since you've explained that you won't sever the ties of friendship providing what can be done be done so....

Isn't time that most of 'us' realize the preciousness of having friends, trying to get along, more so when this kind of community isn't very large--it would be grateful if it more people would realize the impact of a community coming together, armed with peace and harmony, then the value of friendships will go far--.

Do take care, however it goes...hang in there. :hug:
 
RebelGirl said:
I tried to open it but I couldn't. I did that with Chris when I was so upset with the other person and I would take it out on chris. It was like he is peaceful and has nothing to do with it.. It kinda pissed me off but that was a long time ago. I do hope that the 4 can respond and apologize and get that over with.
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Trying again here...

http://www.alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=20657
 
Roadrunner said:
I do hope this will be smoothed out and for those that it involves will come forward and since you've explained that you won't sever the ties of friendship providing what can be done be done so....

Isn't time that most of 'us' realize the preciousness of having friends, trying to get along, more so when this kind of community isn't very large--it would be grateful if it more people would realize the impact of a community coming together, armed with peace and harmony, then the value of friendships will go far--.

Do take care, however it goes...hang in there. :hug:
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Thank you very much for your kind prose, RoadRunner...it means a lot to me.
 
Oh yes I remember I was there to support you in your other thread... :hug:

I can understand how you feel. Yes you deserve the truth then over and move on..... If a person feel guilty then he or she would of contact you to free of his/her guilt and solve with you. I hope he/she know what he/she did to hurt you terrible...

I will think of you and hope everything solve then you will move on ... :hug:
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Oh yes I remember I was there to support you in your other thread... :hug: I can understand how you feel. Yes you deserve the truth then over and move on..... If a person feel guilty then he or she would of contact you to free of his/her guilt and solve with you. I hope he/she know what he/she did to hurt you terrible... I will think of you and hope everything solve then you will move on ... :hug:
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Thank you, Darling honey, and I do appreciate you being there for me when it happened. I do hope that this person will step forward and admit guilt and apologize for this, also.
 
How could I be so blind about not seeing your old thread??? I read it and I couldn't believe that someone would actually do that to you and mizzdeaf. :( I certainly hope that they will come forward and get it over with. :hug:
 
Aww DD..:( this sucks when someone is jealous of you. They need to grow up and move on and worry about their business. Just ignore them and move on with your life. Be happy that u have Mizzy in ur life and ya will do fine! :)
 
Luckysmile23 said:
Aww DD..:( this sucks when someone is jealous of you. They need to grow up and move on and worry about their business. Just ignore them and move on with your life. Be happy that u have Mizzy in ur life and ya will do fine! :)
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Thanks Lucky - I don't think its a case of jealously, but a prank that was meant to be funny and instead, turned out to be cruel.

Since then, I have gotten sensitive about who and what I am and it's hard to change mid-stride...oh well.
 
Dreamdeaf, I hope this issue will be solved soon as possible and that person comes forward. We'll see about that. I'm sorry about the trouble they caused.
 
sequoias said:
Dreamdeaf, I hope this issue will be solved soon as possible and that person comes forward. We'll see about that. I'm sorry about the trouble they caused.
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Thanks, TreeHugger - I think this will be over soon...I hope!
 
DreamDeaf said:
Thanks, TreeHugger - I think this will be over soon...I hope!
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You're welcome, Dreamdeaf! I do hope so, too!
 
Awwwwwww DD. You are a sweet gal. I do understand your feeling. I hope thing will go your way if all possible. :hug:
 
Pomeranian said:
Awwwwwww DD. You are a sweet gal. I do understand your feeling. I hope thing will go your way if all possible. :hug:
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Thanks, Pommie - I think it did.
 
The person who started it all with the emails has finally emailed me and apologized for the prank. I've accepted the apology, and forgiven the person. I still remain friends with this person, and hope that you all understand my decision to keep my friendship with this person, even if I was hurt badly by those emails.

I think that forcing this out into the open has helped - it was a last resort, I know, but I had to resolve this and then come to terms with what happened then and now.

I think I will finally be able to move on, although it will take me some time.

Thank you for all the love and support you've shown here.

Always yours,
 
That's up to you, DreamDeaf, If I was in your shoes, friendship would never be the same again. Once a liar would always be a liar. That's what I believe. ;)
 
DreamDeaf said:
The person who started it all with the emails has finally emailed me and apologized for the prank. I've accepted the apology, and forgiven the person. I still remain friends with this person, and hope that you all understand my decision to keep my friendship with this person, even if I was hurt badly by those emails.

I think that forcing this out into the open has helped - it was a last resort, I know, but I had to resolve this and then come to terms with what happened then and now.

I think I will finally be able to move on, although it will take me some time.

Thank you for all the love and support you've shown here.

Always yours,
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I'm glad its out in the open now and now you can start healing~!
 
I went through same thing....
its hard.. but i let them go.. I moved on..
than burden on my shoulder..
 
In retrospect, I know this may seem confusing that I'm able to forgive someone, remain friends, and move on.

It's my philosophy - life is too short not to forgive, be friends and move on.

There are a lot of people that have hurt me over the years, and yes, including here and other forums, but I've always been able to forgive and move on, although there are some circumstances, where I felt that remaining friends would not be a good idea, and ended those friendships.

My favorite way of thinking...

To forgive a wrong is the best revenge. By forgiving the person that did me wrong, I have extracted my revenge. Then, I can live well, and be without shame or guilt.

Smiles!
 
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