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to you that would change your life forever...

Did something hit you so hard that would wake you up?
 
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For many, it was 9/11 that changed their lives.

But there are far more personal matters that make a serious impact on their lives and the results will vary among the people.

People get the same problems, but they all do different things to deal with it.
 
begin a single father had been a big impact on me. taking full resposibility, lost fun activies, etc.etc....
 
Well, I've had things happen to me - not sure if they "woke me up," though. I WILL say that I wouldn't be where I am now if certain events were removed from my past. Everything happens for a reason, I am sure of that - but of course, we always wish we knew those reasons. I don't regret what I have now, and that, to me, is the most important thing.

Malfoyish
 
Yes, Eternity. :)

Banjo, did something happen to YOU? :-O hehe

Malfy, that's great you don't regret where you are today. I don't either! It's sort of ironic all the things that ever happened in our lives - today is a result of these things.
 
DeafSCUBA98 said:
begin a single father had been a big impact on me. taking full resposibility, lost fun activies, etc.etc....
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Yes, we are in the same boat ! My Mom passed away in 1990. Everything has a big impact on me and two sons. Single Mom is very difficult time for me to support my two sons since they were little kids. Now, they are teenagers as more responsiblity for me to deal with their out grow !

I am much more less socialize life as I have been working two jobs and will start go back to school this fall. My schedule will be overwhelming !

* Important stay strong as much as you can*
 
When that time My Grandpa Killed himself in the Garage of his home. It hit me hard... Because, I was real close to him. He always call me and my twin sister his Princess...I Still Think about him and Do Miss him A LOT. :tears:
 
eternity said:
to you that would change your life forever...

Did something hit you so hard that would wake you up?
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Did something happened to you, Eternity that made you to want to start this thread?...hope nothing bad happened to you!
 
I used to send email to my mom on april 1st 2003....mom didn't like the joke even its bad one. I apologized it to her...but my dad mentioned to me that day april 1st 2004, this year and told me if I remember that I sent it to my mom and it did actually happen to me. My daughter has a vibe and told her step mom that she knew something will happen to her mom just a week before something happened. And many things in that day has been going on. But it did chamge my life after it happened to me and I'm grateful that I'm still here which I ll never forget about that day.
 
My life changed when I was suddenly sick for four years - was paralyzed and could not feed/dress myself for four years. I went from this healthy and active woman to a sick woman. It sure changed my life and realized that good health should never be taken for granted.

I see young people making fun of other people with health problemsa nd I tell myself " Wait til they experience it themselves and they'll be more compassionate".

It is now 8 years and I am finally better but not at where I was before that happened but I am extremely grateful to be alive and able to walk, even though that illness caused my ex to divorce me. But I know that everything happens for a reason - we spend too much time asking WHY where we should be patient and wait for that lightbulb to go off in our heads one day and realized why and how we can become better humans from that.

It annoys me when I see people whining about small problems or always being so negative. Life is never perfect ..for every bad thing that happens, we learn from it and appreciate life even more. If nothing ever happens, how are we gonna learn anything?
 
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I used to send email to my mom on april 1st 2003....mom didn't like the joke even its bad one. I apologized it to her...but my dad mentioned to me that day april 1st 2004, this year and told me if I remember that I sent it to my mom and it did actually happen to me. My daughter has a vibe and told her step mom that she knew something will happen to her mom just a week before something happened. And many things in that day has been going on. But it did chamge my life after it happened to me and I'm grateful that I'm still here which I ll never forget about that day.
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um...I dont really follow. :confused:

WHAT kind of joke did you tell her??

some kind of personal female problem or something?
 
well, for one thing that sure did change my life was my parents' divorce, and my mom's next marriage, etc...everything didn't go good at first, but just once in awhile everything is cool and then it happens all over again...etc but right now everything is okay and we have no problems at home and shit like that anyway bleh long story so I appericate everything my mother has done for me and my brother and sister in the past and still stick with us from the begining and always will, no matter what. I can't thank God enough for giving me such a caring and understanding mother like my mom so she's pretty cool ^^
 
Well,

I would say one thing really did woke me up when I knew I didn't belong in a marriage where abuse was going on and even known that it could never end no matter how much I tried....so I finally woke up and said ' Enough is Enough ' and I'm happy that I became stronger than I was before.... :fruit:
 
Eternity, I don't really follow what you were trying to say about last year's April 1st, or what happened, and so on.
 
^Angel^ said:
Well,

I would say one thing really did woke me up when I knew I didn't belong in a marriage where abuse was going on and even known that it could never end no matter how much I tried....so I finally woke up and said ' Enough is Enough ' and I'm happy that I became stronger than I was before.... :fruit:
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That's the most important thing, Angel...as long as you are making things right for yourself and for your children... :) You deserve to be happy.

I say, some wake up calls are just plain nasty. :::shaking head.:::

Malfoyish
 
eternity said:
to you that would change your life forever...

Did something hit you so hard that would wake you up?
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Yes, I do...My grandpa and I used be close since I was 3 days old...Admired his discpline and etc..He's my father figure to me...Till his death (during my senior year at HS) hit me so hard...Miss his handyman job, mechanic job, and more more...My family said my attitude is very similiar to him...

Another one, My fave cousin and I grew up since we were babies. Fighting, have good tme, and many happened. Till she was killed by her bf. Her death affect our family big hit! Changed anything. Seem not same as before. Taking lot of time to acceptance and move on.
 
When I recived email from the agency and said.. you got found a birth mom. I woke up next day, how much I felt funny something big changes for me.. What do with my birth mom ???Would be great to meeting my birth mom in Toronto,Ontario..
Big Changed lot for me because change lifestyles reason why.. found Birth mother and birth relatives by mother's side..
Yes, Change lot of lifestyle about my Adoptivee parents and Birth parents. btw, I still seeing both of parents espically not seeing my Adoption Dad.. No Thanks.. (long story).. That's all I ever had..

If win lottery, would be big change when I might wake up.. *Oh please knock the wood* doesn't want change lifestyles.. all want to be "Normal lifestyles contuines stick that way forever*
 
eternity said:
I used to send email to my mom on april 1st 2003....mom didn't like the joke even its bad one. I apologized it to her...but my dad mentioned to me that day april 1st 2004, this year and told me if I remember that I sent it to my mom and it did actually happen to me. My daughter has a vibe and told her step mom that she knew something will happen to her mom just a week before something happened. And many things in that day has been going on. But it did chamge my life after it happened to me and I'm grateful that I'm still here which I ll never forget about that day.
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i dont get it???? can u explain us again???
 
Steel and sweet kj

I'm not ready to say it whole but I gave a bit of my story and one is in angel's post called someone/witness who watched someone that struggled with his/her life by something that dignosed with cancer or disease or some other kind......or something happened to that person who had to fight for her/his life....

Kwim?
 
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