Liebling,
I respect your opinion and I do know where you are coming from, but the issue with me is that I don't social with the deaf, I would only see deaf people at events or deaf expos. I social mostly with hearing people and am friends with hearing people the most in my hometown. Most of my close deaf friends live far away from me.
My boys are aware of my deafness, and understands that I uses sign language, but they do know a few signs but they do not sign fluently, either do I, those who met me in real life can tell you that.
We are more comfortable with using our voices more than signs, my children don't mind learning signs they think it's fun, and I don't mind teaching them more if they are interesting in learning. But, really the issue is we don't go to any deaf communities or social around the deaf very often, it's rarely.
If that makes me a bad mother be it, because I don't think my boys should learn my language when they're hearing and I'm not going to force them, if they want to learn, I'm all to it. I always believe in individuals choice.