sigh..

what happen between the two of you that makes him want to divcore you? Werid I thought that you guys were doing great and thinking about moving to South Carolina and renew your marriage.... etc.....

Im sorry to hear about that, He just needs to grow up and be like man to you. He prolly got a lot of growing up to do since people who are in the twenty's are most likely childish.... Maybe you can talk to him alone where no kids are around and ask him what's the point of getting a divcore since you both got 2 little kids together and what went wrong BUT If it makes both of you missiarable (sp) then get a divcore..

To be honest with you, you need to make yourself happy.....
 
I´m glad to hear about this... :thumb:

Like what I say before that there´re ups and downs in marriage life.
 
Well, IMO, if he didn't mean it... he should never say that in the first place because it can hurt you. Dont say it if you don't mean it, period.
 
hey.. dont worrie.. u will work it out.. with ur hubby.. My boyfriend's parents are still married but they are seprate for more than 15 years sumthing..... or 20 years i dunno really and they are still married and they have own boyfriend/ girlfriend they dont want to divorce cuz of $$$$.... so they will die and bury together saying.. "did u have fun with ur life? " u know

SMILE
 
oh whew
sometimes guys didn't mean to say things to hurt our feelings

i hope everything are alright
 
FelixKat930 said:
sigh he wanna divorce..
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:confused: :hyper: :confused: You got me all confused.. First you and Jeremy got married.. Then you two had 2 kids... Then you and Jeremy want to get married (renew) with a big wedding again next year, and now Jeremy want a divorce, and what are you doing? And then you said you and Jeremy are moving to South Carolina. HUH???

It looks like Jeremy wanted a divorce, cause he is not happy with you or you might not be happy with him. Sometime he meant that or not. Every marriage have up and down and some doesn't make thru their golden years and some does make thru golden years. So why are you having another wedding?? You might want to think. Save your money, and forget about the renew wedding, and work on to save your marriage and look for a house to buy.

What are you going to do??? If you two moved to South Carolina, and end up getting divorce, what are you going to do, moving back home in your hometown and leaving Jeremy in South Carolina. What about your family, I thought you was having problem with your family due to neglects, abuse, and controlling... You got me all confused, and I have NO idea what's happening with you. Remember, you MUST have the communicate stay open and compromise with your husband.

If things doesn't work, you need to wake up and see how tough the marriage and divorce, it is going to be HARD!! I hope you have plenty money to live on yourself (if you are not working and owning a house) and for your kids alone. It's not easy... Especially when you have 2 kids with Jeremy.

You need more to think about. Think hard... You two are already married, now what's next... What's the best for future? House, Money, Kids???
 
:mad: Didn't you see my previous post that everything is ok? Marriage have ups and downs.. and I do have a right to vent {Mod Edit:}

CrazyMomma said:
:confused: :hyper: :confused: You got me all confused.. First you and Jeremy got married.. Then you two had 2 kids... Then you and Jeremy want to get married (renew) with a big wedding again next year, and now Jeremy want a divorce, and what are you doing? And then you said you and Jeremy are moving to South Carolina. HUH???

It looks like Jeremy wanted a divorce, cause he is not happy with you or you might not be happy with him. Sometime he meant that or not. Every marriage have up and down and some doesn't make thru their golden years and some does make thru golden years. So why are you having another wedding?? You might want to think. Save your money, and forget about the renew wedding, and work on to save your marriage and look for a house to buy.

What are you going to do??? If you two moved to South Carolina, and end up getting divorce, what are you going to do, moving back home in your hometown and leaving Jeremy in South Carolina. What about your family, I thought you was having problem with your family due to neglects, abuse, and controlling... You got me all confused, and I have NO idea what's happening with you. Remember, you MUST have the communicate stay open and compromise with your husband.

If things doesn't work, you need to wake up and see how tough the marriage and divorce, it is going to be HARD!! I hope you have plenty money to live on yourself (if you are not working and owning a house) and for your kids alone. It's not easy... Especially when you have 2 kids with Jeremy.

You need more to think about. Think hard... You two are already married, now what's next... What's the best for future? House, Money, Kids???
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It seems to me that asking for a divorce is more than just an "up and down" of marriage. That's very serious.

It seems very weird that the husband wanted a divorce in the morning, and then by afternoon everything was "fine" again. Something strange happening.

Oh, well. :dunno:
 
Just normal for everyone... May happends spill your breath out.. next day Oh OppiSe, I'm sorry honey... I still love you..

Alikely everyone are does same thing everyday nobdoy perfect btw...

hope you'll working it out your marriage.. I advise you don't spill your beans front of public about your personal life style on AD..

Kept privacy your personal life... none of their business.. Where you feel trust and speak w/your friend.... Pure o'le simple...
GL!
 
i agree this is not a place to vent your personal plms. if you need advices and help .. can always ask your CLOSE friend or better yet- a counselor to help you out with this.

I pray and hope everything will go smooth. it takes two to TANGO! cHEERS!
 
Make sure to let your hubby to know not to say "divorce" again unless he means it. Tell him that you are hurt big time by that comment and you dont want to hear it again as a causual thing to say. Just saying it any old time can cause problems and emotional upsets so its never good idea to say divorce except when you/hubby really mean it.
 
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