CSign
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CSign,
You are new on the forum and hearing. It takes a bit of time to get the 'feel' of the Deaf Community and Culture. You can't just rush in hook, line and sinker. Try not to get so defensive. The mentality here is different from the hearing world, try to understand it a little more before drawing your guns. Jillio, is hearing but has been immersed in the Deaf community for a long time. She gets it.
Me, I am Oral-deaf, raised in a hearing family, full-on mainstreamed without access to Deaf Community or sign language until 18 months ago. So you can say, I understand both worlds.
Many people seem to have this preconceived notion about what I am and what I know. The fact is that not a single person on this site has the faintest clue about what I know, where I've been, and where I am going. Just because I am hearing, I am not prevented from making well informed choices. I have not rushed in, "hook line and sinker." I've been immersed in this for the last almost 7 years. I made well informed choices based upon conversations, research, studies and my critical thinking skills.
I am pragmatic, which has allowed for me to weigh out without bias the benefits and challenges of the language modes available. I have also made a point of learning more about Deaf culture, so I can be the best parent I can be for my child. I didn't make choices because I was told it was what to do, I made choices based upon the loads of information I sought out.
If I did what I was "told", I would have put my son in a mainstream environment when he was 3 because he "no longer qualified" because he was "doing too well." Doing so well because he was given complete and meaningful access to language I might add. Instead I fought for my son's right to access language, made a unilateral placement to a school that used TC and SEE and after a year filed for due process. That placement in a Non-Public school was ultimately paid for by the district. It took an extensive amount of time out of my life to fight for my child's best interest but it paid off.
I have been on this forum for over a year so I am familiar with some of the AD'ers and had an idea as to what to expect. I've read the threads. I just don't get why some are so incredibly negative about TC and SEE.
Jillio, you yourself said that you've never actually seen any SEE users or something to that effect. I don't know how to post something from another thread yet otherwise I would. With that being the case, how can you say it is so bad and ineffective if you've never seen an appropriate language model?
I get it. I understand. I want essentially the same things the rest of you want. I am not coming from a place of darkness. I come from a place of light, and I will stay there