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Wow, I have read a story on People's and came across this story of a woman Jessica Gonzales's ex shot their three daughters, Now that she is taken her fight in court against the police dept to Supreme Court.


What happen was she have gotten stalked by her ex husband and gotten a restraining order to keep him away, The day on June 22, 1999 Her husband took 3 daughters from a home of a sitter's house I think, and that person had phoned the police numeric of times to arrested the husband for snatching the girls from her front yard, and said there was a court order that he wasn't allow near the mother of the daughters or the girls themselves., But the police came in late and did not put out an APB for the husband's truck. The girls were laying dead which shot by their father. and Now that the mother is blaming the police for not protecting her daughters, She filed a 30 million dollars lawsuit. That's so sad, I don't blame the mother because the police were suppose to follow the court order which she had, and should have respond quicker. Stalkers are dangerous nowdays and should be taken seriously.
 
Yeah i saw the article somewhere...newspaper in Washington Post I think, it was so sad for her to go thru hell of losing her daughters that way. I know daughters were probably traumazied and shot. Too much for me to handle it since I have two small boys. heartwrenching story. I do blame on police that did not take immediate action, I wonder if she was an celebrity, would police take an immediate action??
 
downing said:
Yeah i saw the article somewhere...newspaper in Washington Post I think, it was so sad for her to go thru hell of losing her daughters that way. I know daughters were probably traumazied and shot. Too much for me to handle it since I have two small boys. heartwrenching story. I do blame on police that did not take immediate action, I wonder if she was an celebrity, would police take an immediate action??
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Yes downing,
I've noticed police always make action quicker for celebrities. FACT: True!

Rest of normal peoples... police do action their job protection others. FACT: Depends where area you living at.

Cheri, Great bring this issues.. made my heart pours goes out for 3 girls..includes mother's heart wrenching. I agreed w/mother have rights lawsuits.
 
I'm not so suprise since some cops don't take court orders or restraining order seriously, I had problems like that myself and the cops don't much about it or saying you are still married to him, that's BS!....If I die from the result of the cops ignoring the court orders or restraining orders, then I expect my family to sue those cops for not following it up....

My heart goes out for this mother, such a shame to know that some cops don't intend to follow laws in order to save those children...
 
Geez I hope you get your divorced soon Angel. :hug:

Yea it not easy when you have R.O. against the person that you dont not want to be near you or your child/ren. I dont have one but gotta go back to court cuz my exh want to take my son for the summer and I dont feel trust there. Cuz he kept saying will move to Florida and want to take him for the summer so they can go camping. So for my protection will go back to court to get this straighten out.

Hopefully everything will be fine. I am sure he aint gotta like go to back to court too bad.

My prayer and thought goes to the mother who lost her lovely 3 daughters.
 
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Geez I hope you get your divorced soon Angel. :hug:
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Actually I've been divorced since last June, I was speaking of the past when I was still married to him....Sorry I didn't explain myself clearly :ily:
 
Ive read about that case. It really pissed me off. :rl:

I cant recall where I read but there has been a new policy for police officers not to dismiss domestic violence/restraining orders casually but really take them very seriously.

I am tired of reading about innocent children/women getting killed by insanely jealous/controlling men. It really disgust me that these men are not to be taken seriously but to be shrugged off as a "family problem", not " society problem". :squint:
 
I´m speechless over cops when I read thread here.

It pissed me off what cops did nothing to support mother and her 3 daughters. Now mother lost her beloved daughters to heaven because of that lazy cops.

Yes, I´m agree with mother for blaming cops for not protect her and her 3 girls. No wonder, she filed for millions lawsuit against them. I hope the court will give mother right.

She and her daughters are my thought and prayer...

Please keep the post update.
 
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Actually I've been divorced since last June, I was speaking of the past when I was still married to him....Sorry I didn't explain myself clearly :ily:
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Awwwwwwwwww :hug: I forgive ya. Glad it was over for ya.
 
On March 21st her suit made it's way to the supreme court, She explained that her 9 years marriage with her ex husband who was prone to verbally abusive outbursts and controling behavior, then he tried to hang himself in the garage in front of her and his daughters then that is when she said enough is enough, she flee the marriage but then the daugthers pleaded the mother to take him back so she gave him a try again for another 3 years, then it got worst and then she left him in Jan. 1999 then her husband came back and change the locks in her home and stalked her, she got a restraining order in May 1999, and that her husband was to stay away 100 yards from her and their daugthers, Then it got him more madder so he phoned her and wanted to have dinner with the daughters she said no, on June 22nd, her daughters were gone, she phoned the police and in the first of five calls her officers took her report and visited her home, but did not issue an albert for his truck, Instead of the police went out looking for him, The husband came to the police dept. at 3:20 am he pulled up and got out and opened fire on the station, Officer shot back and killed the husband, then the police found in the husband truck there was three girls laying dead all shot by their father. Police said they did everything under the circumstances that they could. :roll: the Court will make it's decision probably in June..... Will keep you update ;)
 
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Awww....:(

I'm sorry to hear about the mother's loss of her beloved daughters. Yes, the police should have taken a quicker action to protect women and kids from abusive boyfriends/husbands. My thoughts are with her.
 
the mother should have move out of town with girls for temporary or safe place for while..

That what I did with my 4 children after ex abused and stabbed, after I found out that he got out of jail for only 4 days.. I was still recovering.. and asked for restraining order.. we packed up and moved out to temporary place for 3 months till the cops aware of our situations.. helped through by women shelters.. we moved back into our home.. first few months we were nervous but i put alot of faith.. hes no longer bother us just calling.. or notes.. he got in trouble from that..

I think its the best thing if ex stalks or threatened.. move out for while.. cuz you have precious children to protect.. and be aware now days the cops arent do anything in quick time.. always ALWAYS get there and its too late like the father shot all three daughters..

My heart go out to them.. he will be haunted and toture for life..
 
I think that the mother should have gotten into a witness protection program so her ex wouldnt know where she and her daughters were.
 
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