Prayers and good thoughts requested

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deafdyke

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Some friends and I had a huge fight. Please pray for us to make up as I really miss them and I don't want to lose their friendship. Thanks all!
 
aww Deafdyke -- im sorry to have heard that! :( that does so totally suck!

*prays and send good vibes over to u guys to make peace with eachother and remain friends!*

:hug: Deafdyke
 
*mouthin' a peaceful prayer* Once the commotions of this big outburst between you and your friends calms down, hopefully everyone will come together and realize how precious friendship truly can be and to be able to let this slide by and put aside through forgiveness, understanding...to strengthen this friendship with stronger vibes to carry on in the days ahead!! :)
 
Oh dear!
A true friend.......
* Genuinely accepts and likes you for who you are.
* Will be threre for you in bad times as well as good.
* Is loyal to you in your absence. They refuse to get involved in gossip at your expense and actively support you when others don't.
* Can be trusted with your secrets.
* Can be trusted with your partner.
* Understands how you feel, perhaps without you even needing to explain.
* Will tell you the hard truths that you need to hear.
* Will share their own secrets and fears with you.
* Is genuine and real with you - not superficial and false.

To find a true friend, it helps to...
* Value yourself and what you can offer others as a friend.
* Believe that you can find a true friend.
*Take up opportunities to meet new people.
* Be a good listener and show interest in others.
* Participate in conversations.
* Follow up with people you find interesting through ph calls and invitations.
* Gradually share your deeper thoughts and feelings.
* Nuture the friendship but don't force it to get too close.
* Be true friend to otheres in order to find one.
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copyright That's life.
 
deafdyke, :hug:

Don't worry it will blow over before you know it. Friends do fight at times but if their friendship are important to them, They would forgive and make up. Good Luck! ;)
 
Even though I am not christian anymore or in any religious group, you will be in my prayer this tonight, deafdyke.
 
Likewise, I'll send good thoughts and vibes to you. Good karma to you and your friends.
 
*cries* thanks guys! I just am so scared b/c this is my friend OB that I had a fight with. She's awesome. I mean, she knew that I'm bi without even me telling her!!!!! (one upside of this is that I've been able to come out to friends who didn't previously know that I'm bi.....and I never realized how awesome and supportive some of my friends are. I even got told by a couple of my guy friends that it would be OK for me to talk to them about what was wrong!)
I'm just nervous b/c as a result of this fight, I found out that some of OB's apartment mates feel very uncomfortable with me. I don't know why, unless I had a bipolar outburst that I don't remember. Please pray that it's just a misunderstanding or something. I mean I did know previously that a couple of her girls feel odd towards me (I can tell) and I just don't know why. I'm just scared and nervous. Please pray that in a few weeks when I call OB, that everything will be OK.
 
Aww DeafDyke don't cry sweetie :( , everything will be okay , I will pray on this!! hang in there girl :hug:
 
awww deafdyke, :hug: It will be ok sweetie, Hope it all a misunderstanding and Hope that your friends that you like so much, would let it slide under some rocks and move forward to a fresh start. I'll pray for you. ;)
 
I found out that some of OB's apartment mates feel very uncomfortable with me.
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I found out why.......Dani found out that I had a crush on her,(see my confused as hell thread in The Closet) and she's very uncomfortable with it. This means that we're no longer friends, :tears:and this has really hit hard because I loved Dani a lot. (as a friend) I know it was a misunderstanding b/c Dani thought that I was attracted to her and liked her sexually. I really don't. I loved her as a friend and was just incredibly confused because I missed her so much :( Please pray that Dani understands that it was just a huge misunderstanding.
 
It's always difficult and painful when a fight occurs and it could be the end of a beautiful friendship. Just pray and try to talk things over with them and solve the problems as rationally as possible.
 
Oh dear

I'm really sorry to hear that, I just hope Dani would understand that you don't have that sort of a feelings toward her and hopefully she wouldn't feel uncomfortable being around you....
 
Please please pray that we get over the hump. I miss my girls so damn much and I need them. I'm so fucking scared that this means that I have lost Dani forever. Please pray that she understands that I just was extremely confused.I feel so awkward now....I want this to be resolved.
 
deafdyke--

Have you ever thought of sending her a card, a letter, showering her with words of how much you enjoy the companionship, cherishing the friendship...telling her how you feel now being 'lost and confused' without her being around as a friend you dearly upheld...the desires, dedication, committment that you really seek only as in a friendly relationship, nothing more, etc.,...Do you think it might be a good time to find a heartwarming card and write a letter and send it off to her?
 
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