Pls Help My Friend!

Cheri said:
TweetyBird,

I want to know if she had accept the money and willing to be married to him for two years?
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she think abt it and dont know what to do
 
TweetyBird said:
she think abt it and dont know what to do
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I want to add that I am sorry about my offtopic posts.

Anyway, I hope that your friend will take few things into account... like he is probably like to harm women... or a person who would treat women badly. There are several things that she needs to consider before she can make a decision. Just a thought.
 
TweetyBird said:
she think abt it and dont know what to do
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She needs to think long and hard about the cons.

Cons are:
INS will find out
It can be a federal crime.

It will be loveless.
He will be out with other men, not helping her around the house.

10,000K is NOTHING.

What if she meets a great guy before 2 years is up and he asks her why she is married to this man???

And so on..
 
Hmm, I would describe this
whole thing something like
"non-sexual prostitute"
(just ask her about which
is more important: love vs money/security )
 
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TweetyBird said:
she think abt it and dont know what to do
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No amount of money is worth to get married over, Because he is gay, and if he goes out and see his boyfriend while is married to a woman, He would get caught and they both might get in trouble with the law for faking a marriage, to keep him in the United States. It's not worth it.
 
I personally see nothing wrong with this arrangement as I see it. She is just merely living with someone as a "roomate" giving the person a second chance to be a us citizen. Who said that she can't go out and have a real realationship with someone else? who is going to know? During those two years she can date people, and do whatever she wants with her life, its just simply just a mere roomate arrangement.
 
at least this would be a more honest marriage than some. LOL both would use each other..... altho i think it's ethically a mistake to marry for money or for a green card.
 
Don't trust that lawyer. His suggestion is fraud; it is totally illegal. If Immigration (INS) finds out that a marriage was performed just to stay in the country, your friend will be immediately deported and not allowed back into the USA. He will be in a worse situation.

Some people have tried that and got into big trouble. In SC, there was a scam where American women were paid to marry several foreign men just so the men could stay here. They were caught. The men were deported, and the women were put in jail.

http://www.allanwernick.com/book_familysample.htm

http://www.murthy.com/news/ukmiami.html

http://www.visaus.com/marriage.html

http://www.usdoj.gov/usao/cac/pr2004/126.html

http://immigration-dictionary.visapro.com/I8.asp
 
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10k is a lot of money. However, green card marriages, make me sick. There has to be other ways to get into the US without having to have to marry someone you dont particularly love. Marriage is sacred, but some people seem to not care about that. Thats why so very few people have "old" values. =/ But 10k is a lot of money.. If she wants the money and not the man, he doesnt have to really live with her, if you think about it that way. Many people stay married but cant live with their spouse (have you heard that? I have.) "Love them, cant live with them" that sort of thing. I know it doesnt apply here. Anyways, its a matter of moral justice, what she thinks is right for her. If she takes it, I hope she files her taxes accordingly. :)
 
let u know that my friend changed her mind not marry him! WHEW!!! thanks for help me so i can talk my friends abt this
 
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