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Without his hearing aids, Dr. Don Thaler has trouble holding a conversation in a crowded restaurant. With the devices in, however, the ambient noise -- the clinking of dishes, the shuffling of feet, the drone of table talk throughout the room -- can be intolerable.

"I just hate 'em," Thaler, a retired dentist in Amagansett, N.Y., said of his hearing aids -- digital ones that fit completely inside the ear canal and cost more than $7,000 for the pair.

He wears them only when going out with company. Even then, he said, "I always carry a leather pouch because inevitably I end up pulling them out of my ears."

Thaler's wife, Cabot Paley, on the other hand, embraced hearing aids from the moment she tried them more than 10 years ago.

"All of a sudden, the world around you is just filled with sound," she said, "and it's a wonderful feeling to be able to take part in it."

Only about 22 percent of 30 million people with hearing impairments in the United States get hearing aids, according to Sergei Kochkin, executive director of the Better Hearing Institute, a nonprofit organization financed by hearing aid makers.

Yet they offer the best way for many people to maintain a social life and connection to the world. But hearing aids can also disappoint new users because even the most expensive kinds do not restore normal hearing.

"It's not like putting on a pair of glasses and getting 20/20 vision," said Bevan Yueh, an otolaryngologist at the University of Washington, "because hearing loss is about more than just amplification of sound. It also affects the way we process sound."

Many people who try hearing aids are, like Thaler, dissatisfied with them. Doctors say that is partly because they have unrealistic expectations and partly because it takes time to adapt to a new way of hearing.

In nine of 10 cases, hearing loss is caused by a deterioration in the hair cells of the inner ear because of age or exposure to loud noises.


These same hair cells are what we use to zero in on the sounds we want to pay attention to and screen out what is uninteresting. So when hearing goes, the ability to focus on favored sounds goes with it.

One reason people neglect even to ask their doctors about hearing aids is that they do not realize their hearing has deteriorated.

"It happens gradually and it can be very, very subtle," Yueh said. "And other people in a position to notice often attribute problems not to hearing loss but to the person being a little clueless."

Hearing aids cost anywhere from $800 to $3,500 each. Health insurance usually does not cover hearing aids, or if it does, it pays only part of the cost.

About 20 companies make hearing aids. The six biggest brands are GN ReSound, Oticon, Phonak, Siemens, Starkey and Widex.

Hearing aids that fit entirely inside the ear canal are popular because many wearers want to avoid the stigma of having plastic visible in their ears.

"People will readily wear glasses, which change your appearance more," said Robert Jackler, chairman of otolaryngology at Stanford. "But with hearing aids, the perception is that the person is old and maybe has diminished intellectual capacity."

The downside of the hidden devices is that their components are tiny. "The batteries are very, very little," Thaler said, from personal experience, "and the dexterity you need to replace them is incredible."

Digital hearing aids are gradually supplanting the old analog type because they can enhance the clarity of sound and cut back on feedback -- the whistling that plagues wearers of older devices.

The most advanced ones are capable of recognizing human voices so that they can selectively enhance speech.

It can be less expensive to buy hearing aids over the phone or on the Internet, but doctors advise patients to consult audiologists or other licensed hearing aid dispensers to make sure the devices are right for wearers' hearing loss and daily needs, and to get a good fit.

(An audiologist is required to have a master's degree or doctorate, but states also license hearing aid dispensers who have been trained on the job.)

Many states require that consumers be allowed to return hearing aids within 30 days. Some sellers will extend the trial period further.

Audiologists are also beginning to provide training to help new hearing aid users adapt to a different way of hearing.

After three years with his hearing aids, Thaler admits that even he is slowly learning to appreciate what they can do.

"Every now and then," he said, "I hear a bird, which I may not have heard before, and I think, Wow, I like to hear that."

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This is true. I have a few friends who do the same thing. They prefer being DEAF and don't wear their hearing aids. :(
 
My husband only puts on hearing aids if there is an unexpectedly visitor to our house or when our family is in the room and he cannot keep track of everybody's mouths.

Meanwhile I leave my hearing aids in a box, collecting dust somewhere in my closet. I recently put them on a week ago and it was completely different for me-- I was on alert, I recongized the noise, and .... I just can hear. Tad spooky. My husband found it... unusual that I acknowleged him whispering my name. "Oh. You CAN hear that with your aid?" Guess he felt vulnerable-- just like I was when he put on his hearing aids and kept saying "what?" to me when I whispered his name (just to test his hearing- lol). I refuse to take my hearing aids out of the house because the urban noises are just ANNOYING. I would get headaches and ringing in my ears if I turn my aids off. I was driven nuts by hearing the cars going down and up the street at least 150 feet away from my home. JUST HEAR THEM just annoys me so how could I stand it if I hear a loud city bus going by me 3 feet away.

What about you guys? Do you take your hearing aids out to the public or you strictly keep it in the home when you can understand what is going in your home with friends/family?
 
Wear HA's most of the time

I have been wearing hearing aids for a little over 20 years. I never went to a special school during my middle and high school or even college education years. I was able to hear enough at the front of the class room along with visits to professors office hours for help on certain subjects. I never really wanted to be in the minority of hearing loss. I really wanted to be a part of the hearing society, but it is difficult. I have slowly come to realize over the years, I am not going to have the luxury to hear everything clearly. It always bothered me emotional when I am with people of normal hearing their conversations are lost with soft voices and noisy atmospheres. Anyway, I have worn my HA's pretty much everyday. I am not able to read lips, and only recently have I started learning some ASL. If I could get away with it, I'd leave HA's at home. But my job requires me to communicate hearing customers, clients, etc. I like my job, it is just the people I work who seem to treat me like a disease. Like before, I would like to leave the HA's off, so I don't have to put with hearing pretentious people with artificial smiles.

I have to admit, being HOH is teaching me to be more patience and not take everything too literally. I ride this emotional roller coaster everyday, what I really need to do is get off of it and have serenity now, serenity now. So help me God.
 
gnarlydorkette said:
What about you guys? Do you take your hearing aids out to the public or you strictly keep it in the home when you can understand what is going in your home with friends/family?

I admit that I do that. I only put my processor on when I know I have to meet my family or go to appointments, etc.

I love silence too much to have the processor on 24/7!
 
bwinkler you live in carrolina and you went to NORMAL HIGH SCHOOL? :eek: I was living in baltimore i was HOH and i wasnt allowed to go to a normal high school. I loved hearing aids i done very well with a hearing aid. But i cannot stand attending to a special school full of retards. But i was upgraded once went to MSD but i hated there cause i didnt know sign. I was the only one HOH in MSD so i find a way to get kicked outta there and so i went back to a school full of retards again. I wish my family moved the north carrolina so perhaps i might had settled with a girl and got married by now.
 
ravensteve1961 said:
I wish my family moved the north carrolina so perhaps i might had settled with a girl and got married by now.

Never too late to marry. Just get off on this computer and look for a sweet woman. Just dont scare her away with your political views. :ugh2:
 
You know I wonder if the dissatistisfaction with hearing aids has to do with the fact that the canal aids are the most popuar. Most of the baby aids do NOT provide enough power for more then a mild loss. People can and do hear with them, but probaly not as well as they could with larger aids. I mean I went through this myself..(jr high switched from BTEs to ITEs) ..so I wonder? I don't get how people complain that hearing aids amplify everything....yes they do, but you learn to tune things out. I can and do..
Do you take your hearing aids out to the public or you strictly keep it in the home when you can understand what is going in your home with friends/family?
If I don't have my aids on I am NAKED. There are times when I can switch off my aids and read lips, like for noisy concerts and stuff like that.
 
Meg said:
Never too late to marry. Just get off on this computer and look for a sweet woman. Just dont scare her away with your political views. :ugh2:
Im 43,,Its almost too late cause i wanted a 18-25 year girl the younger the better so i can have a family. I dont want her kids she had with someone else. I want my own kids that came out of my flesh in blood. Besides hearing people dont understand deaf people. They would get away from you if they found out youre deaf. Same like looking for a job employers will not hire you if your deaf because of communication skills.
 
When I was a young kid, I was introduced to hearing aid by my speech therapist and I threw it out in next week. But my damnedest speech therapist gave me another one.. I threw it out in next day. She finally gave up on me. Hooray. I couldn't stand the hearing aid, it kept giving the odd 'rings' in my ears so I threw these out (in the trash).
 
Ravensteven said:
I wish my family moved the north carrolina so perhaps i might had settled with a girl and got married by now.


Meg said:
Never too late to marry. Just get off on this computer and look for a sweet woman. Just dont scare her away with your political views. :ugh2:

and also STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN calling you too much in the middle of you PEEING, YOUR FOOTBALL GAMES AND WHATNOT!! then you will have a woman ERM... (choking on an apple) i won't say it in here but i can say.. who can ROCK YOUR WORLD IF YOU GET THE CLUE!! unless you NEED VIAGARA!?? :D
 
zesty said:
and also STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT WOMEN calling you too much in the middle of you PEEING, YOUR FOOTBALL GAMES AND WHATNOT!! then you will have a woman ERM... (choking on an apple) i won't say it in here but i can say.. who can ROCK YOUR WORLD IF YOU GET THE CLUE!! unless you NEED VIAGARA!?? :D

:rofl: u should try dating with miss p...hehehe
 
i was HOH and i wasnt allowed to go to a normal high school. I loved hearing aids i done very well with a hearing aid. But i cannot stand attending to a special school full of retards. But i was upgraded once went to MSD but i hated there cause i didnt know sign. I was the only one HOH in MSD so i find a way to get kicked outta there and so i went back to a school full of retards again.
Ravensteve, I think bwinkler is around my age (20's) Many of us hohies of that generation were automaticly mainstreamed....I'm not surprised that you had such a negative experiance. Back in those days the education at schools for the deaf was really substandard. They thought that if you were dhh you couldn't learn. It's gotten better.
I wish my family moved the north carrolina so perhaps i might had settled with a girl and got married by now.
A LOT....and I mean a LOT of oral dhh and mainstreamed dhh kids have social problems. Maybe if you had learned to embrace your disabilty and not been taught to function as "psudeo-hearing" but rather embraced the wholeness, you would have found a home and then a mate in the Deaf world. There is value in the deaf world...You're a perfect argument for why dhh kids need exposure to both the deaf and hearing worlds!
 
zesty said:
:liar:

cuz you won't even date him!! :nana: :rofl:

Ditto, Zestyapoo!


But if you are right, Tom Cruise? ACK ..hes not a hearthrob in my view. If you say he looks like Clive Owen, I would go for him in a second with no questions asked.
 
This topic sure did take a turn. Guess my fingers should stay away from the keyboard.
 
I wear one hearing aid in the day time, and take them off when I go to sleep. I love hearing sounds, it doesn't bother me. I even try lipread with people with them on. I grew up using voice with my parents and some hearing people, too.
 
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