Even though they said Living Wills are simple,
but I think that's NOT simple at all. Here is the
example of Simple Living Will I just copied from
another source here only because I still
can NOT find a real good & simple Living Will....
and I am NOT sure if this is a good one or NOT.....
See below. Perhaps someone else have
a better one than this.
An advance directive executed pursuant to this article may, but need not, be in the following form, and may (i) direct a specific procedure or treatment to be provided, such as artificially administered hydration and nutrition; (ii) direct a specific procedure or treatment to be withheld; or (iii) appoint an agent to make health care decisions for the declarant as specified in the advance directive if the declarant is determined to be incapable of making an informed decision, including the decision to make, after the declarant's death, an anatomical gift of all of the declarant's body or an organ, tissue or eye donation pursuant to Article 2 (§ 32.1-289 et seq.) of Chapter 8 of Title 32.1 and in compliance with any directions of the declarant. Should any other specific directions be held to be invalid, such invalidity shall not affect the advance directive. If the declarant appoints an agent in an advance directive, that agent shall have the authority to make health care decisions for the declarant as specified in the advance directive if the declarant is determined to be incapable of making an informed decision and shall have decision-making priority over any individuals authorized under § 54.1-2986 to make health care decisions for the declarant. In no case shall the agent refuse or fail to honor the declarant's wishes in relation to anatomical gifts or organ, tissue or eye donation.
ADVANCE MEDICAL DIRECTIVE
I, .........., willfully and voluntarily make known my desire and do hereby
declare:
If at any time my attending physician should determine that I have a terminal
condition where the application of life-prolonging procedures would serve only
to artificially prolong the dying process, I direct that such procedures be
withheld or withdrawn, and that I be permitted to die naturally with only the
administration of medication or the performance of any medical procedure
deemed necessary to provide me with comfort care or to alleviate pain (OPTION:
I specifically direct that the following procedures or treatments be provided
to me: ....................)
In the absence of my ability to give directions regarding the use of such life-prolonging procedures, it is my intention that this advance directive shall be honored by my family and physician as the final expression of my legal right to refuse medical or surgical treatment and accept the consequences of such refusal.
OPTION: APPOINTMENT OF AGENT (CROSS THROUGH IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO APPOINT AN AGENT TO MAKE HEALTH CARE DECISIONS FOR YOU.)
I hereby appoint ....... (primary agent), of ....... (address and telephone
number), as my agent to make health care decisions on my behalf as authorized
in this document. If ....... (primary agent) is not reasonably available or
is unable or unwilling to act as my agent, then I appoint ....... (successor
agent), of ....... (address and telephone number), to serve in that
capacity.
I hereby grant to my agent, named above, full power and authority to make health care decisions on my behalf as described below whenever I have been determined to be incapable of making an informed decision about providing, withholding or withdrawing medical treatment. The phrase "incapable of making an informed decision" means unable to understand the nature, extent and probable consequences of a proposed medical decision or unable to make a rational evaluation of the risks and benefits of a proposed medical decision as compared with the risks and benefits of alternatives to that decision, or unable to communicate such understanding in any way. My agent's authority hereunder is effective as long as I am incapable of making an informed decision.
The determination that I am incapable of making an informed decision shall be made by my attending physician and a second physician or licensed clinical psychologist after a personal examination of me and shall be certified in writing. Such certification shall be required before treatment is withheld or withdrawn, and before, or as soon as reasonably practicable after, treatment is provided, and every 180 days thereafter while the treatment continues.
In exercising the power to make health care decisions on my behalf, my agent shall follow my desires and preferences as stated in this document or as otherwise known to my agent. My agent shall be guided by my medical diagnosis and prognosis and any information provided by my physicians as to the intrusiveness, pain, risks, and side effects associated with treatment or nontreatment. My agent shall not authorize a course of treatment which he knows, or upon reasonable inquiry ought to know, is contrary to my religious beliefs or my basic values, whether expressed orally or in writing. If my agent cannot determine what treatment choice I would have made on my own behalf, then my agent shall make a choice for me based upon what he believes to be in my best interests.
OPTION: POWERS OF MY AGENT (CROSS THROUGH ANY LANGUAGE YOU DO NOT WANT AND ADD ANY LANGUAGE YOU DO WANT.)
The powers of my agent shall include the following:
A. To consent to or refuse or withdraw consent to any type of medical care, treatment, surgical procedure, diagnostic procedure, medication and the use of mechanical or other procedures that affect any bodily function, including, but not limited to, artificial respiration, artificially administered nutrition and hydration, and cardiopulmonary resuscitation. This authorization specifically includes the power to consent to the administration of dosages of pain-relieving medication in excess of recommended dosages in an amount sufficient to relieve pain, even if such medication carries the risk of addiction or inadvertently hastens my death;
B. To request, receive, and review any information, verbal or written, regarding my physical or mental health, including but not limited to, medical and hospital records, and to consent to the disclosure of this information;
C. To employ and discharge my health care providers;
D. To authorize my admission to or discharge (including transfer to another facility) from any hospital, hospice, nursing home, adult home or other medical care facility for services other than those for treatment of mental illness requiring admission procedures provided in Article 1 (§ 37.1-63 et seq.) of Chapter 2 of Title 37.1; and
E. To take any lawful actions that may be necessary to carry out these decisions, including the granting of releases of liability to medical providers.
Further, my agent shall not be liable for the costs of treatment pursuant to his authorization, based solely on that authorization.
OPTION: APPOINTMENT OF AN AGENT TO MAKE AN ANATOMICAL GIFT OR ORGAN, TISSUE OR EYE DONATION (CROSS THROUGH IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO APPOINT AN AGENT TO MAKE AN ANATOMICAL GIFT OR ANY ORGAN, TISSUE OR EYE DONATION FOR YOU.)
Upon my death, I direct that an anatomical gift of all of my body or certain
organ, tissue or eye donations may be made pursuant to Article 2 (§ 32.1-289
et seq.) of Chapter 8 of Title 32.1 and in accordance with my directions, if
any. I hereby appoint ....... as my agent, of ....... (address and telephone
number), to make any such anatomical gift or organ, tissue or eye donation
following my death. I further direct that: ....... (declarant's directions
concerning anatomical gift or organ, tissue or eye donation).
This advance directive shall not terminate in the event of my disability.
By signing below, I indicate that I am emotionally and mentally competent to make this advance directive and that I understand the purpose and effect of this document.
__________ ______________________________
(Date) (Signature of Declarant)
The declarant signed the foregoing advance directive in my presence.
I am not the spouse or a blood relative of the declarant.
(Witness) ________________________________________
(Witness) ________________________________________
Yes, I heard it is very expensive. Ouchie, That is one reason why I think we all should get life insurance, expectly with my income being a single mother I cannot afford a good funeral without Life insurance. 
But, I know you have a wonderful and caring husband who wouldn't hurt you anywhere as possible. So, He is worth the trustworthy. 
