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where I was. I'm still alive and well. I've been extremely busy. So much has happened that I can't explain enough right now. But I just wanted you all to know that I'm okay.

I know it was created in another thread but I'm soooo torn up and upset right now. My friend's son is in the ICU and is in very very grave situation. He is almost brain-dead caused from not breathing within 15 to 20 minutes. He had an asthma attack and it caused his heart to quit. So I know for a fact he's not going to make it. The dr is probably going to pull the plug tomorrow after they do the test on if there's any blood flowing in his body.

He's only 11 years old and such a sweet guy. He's like my own son. He loves my daughter like a sister. I just can't stand the thought of never seeing him again and missing his jokes and smiles. I kept asking why.. why... why did this happen. I guess its part of God's plan. I'm just furious. I'm just going to really really miss him.

Other than that.. I'm working and I don't have much time to sit down and talk anymore. I assumed that I'll have time to chat but I don't. I'm sorry I haven't been in here. Hope you all are doing well!
 
Oh I am sorry and here is my :hug:. Take your time and when you are ready to come back just crawl right back in and sit in the chair, take a deep breath then go for it. Take an easy girl.
 
I've heard about that 11 years old kid, I'm very sorry too I know how hard that can be on you and your daughter as well. I'll be seeing you soon in six days, and I certain would give you a nice squeezy hugs too. :hug:
 
I'm so happy to see you Rebel! :hug: And I know why some ADers don't come here much since its summer. I don't blame. But good to see them check out once awhile, to happy to see them again.

I know about Tyler, I'm very sorry that occur to u and jacey, and others. He is my prayer. I know its very emotional since hes only youth and very handsome. Feel like its punishment.

:hug: again.
 
Hey RB! Good to see you to be on AD! As right now I am in Los Angeles area! Tyler and I are leaving on the 12th. Ofc I do miss my baby, DHB65 and Tahoe. Tyler miss me, his daddy and Tahoe. He's with my mom and will get him today. I cannot wait hee! I am taking him to Disneyland tomorrow! Gonna to fun!

Anyway, I am sorry about your friend's son, Tyler. Here is my tight and big hugs from me and my boy, Tyler. It is sure hard and ask God why?? I did asked same thing...he is too young to go! :( you and Jaci will be in my thought. I can see from the picture, he is sure sweet young man!

So check in with us when you get a chance.

Hug!
 
LIFE CAN BE SO CONFUSING AT TIME, BUT IT IS STILL PART OF LIFE. I'LL BE THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. THINK OF THE GOOD TIME THAT YOU HAD WITH HIM . :angel:
 
Aw RebelGirl :tears:

I'm sooooo sorry that things are not looking good for Tyler, I do agree that there's some things that we can not explain why this has happen to someone this young, I think it helps realize that it could actually happen to anyone, and we try to do everything we can to protect our children and when things like this happen, that where it hurts the most ...I was hoping and praying for a miracle to happen :hyper: ...

I know you don't have time to be able to sit down and chat about this some more, but when ever you are able to, I'm here for you anytime....:hug:

Please do take care and I will contiune praying for him and his family...
 
I'm very sorry, Rebel. You all are in my prayers
and thoughts.
 
I am so sorry to hear about this :( My daughter will be 11 in few weeks and I cannot fathom losing her. My heart goes out to you, Jaci, Tyler's mother and friends/family. It is such a tragedy :(

I will pray for everyone involved in this - it is clear that Tyler has impacted many people in his short life.

HUGS
 
HUGS rb
i undy how you feel about losing someone you love
i lost my 2 cousin in a fatal car accident they were only 16 years old i keep telling why why why that they have to go sighs make me so sad to think of them

i undy how you feel big time HUGS more RB
 
RebelGirl, Im very sorry about Tyler. :( I'd been hoping that he will be alright. :grouphug: You, your daughter, TweetyBird and everybody are in my pray and mind right now.
 
OFC when losing ppl we love it is SO hard to let go it really hit us harder i know i have been though before

crying help to get it out never keep things inside it not good it not healthy to keep things inside when i start cry and it didn't stop until i stop cry i feel little better not 100% ofc it takes time to heal believe it it does
heal slowly is the best thing just let led by not fast but slow ofc


i had really hard 5 years of my life after lose my grandpa first then 3 years later and lost 2 younger relatives of mine suddenly i was really in deep depression i was zombie

:grouphug: you all
 
RebelGirl,

I'm really sorry to hear about Tyler :hug:
 
RebelGirl,

That's okay as long when you're ready and feeling coming back AD.. I know you was part of them as family to you truly means awful lot... You have wonderful huge heart and loving as condiser "son" to you...

I would like to say.... My deepest sorrow for your friend's son's parent and relatives and also friends too.. Who they will find strength and heal their pain lost love ones...

Jesus will be always w/your friend's son.....
 
Same thing i do agree with them and pls hang in there ok as long you need take break for while and i uddy that just loss tyler who be with god right now
 
You and Jaci are in my prayer and thought. I am going to church and ask people to pray for your comfortable.
 
Thank you all for the support. I appreciate it. I sure do miss coming in here and chat with my "good friends" that really care. you all probably know this but I'll say it once more.

He passed away today at 3:40 well. yesterday (saturday) at 3:40 pm. He was pronounced dead due to being brain-dead and showing now blood flowing. but the awesome awesome great news is Tyler's mother decided to donate his organs. and the surgeons from all over the u.s. came in and checked for resemblance ( match blood type, and what the other patient need, same size , etc) More likely we're going to have a viewing tomorrow night.

Tyler's baseball basketball friends and family have collected over 5,000 dollars at the car wash for Teana. It was soo amazing! I'm just going to miss him so much!
 
You have my :hug: I can image how you and your daughter feel after lost your dearest Tyler to asthma attack. I´m really sooooo sorrrry to hear the loss of Tyler... It break my heart after read at TB´s thread.

I look at my both sons and can´t image to lose them.. It must be scary for Tyler´s parents. :( They also have my :hug:, too.

I know for the sure that I will see you next year... You know where find me if you want to talk...
 
RebelGirl said:
Thank you all for the support. I appreciate it. I sure do miss coming in here and chat with my "good friends" that really care. you all probably know this but I'll say it once more.

He passed away today at 3:40 well. yesterday (saturday) at 3:40 pm. He was pronounced dead due to being brain-dead and showing now blood flowing. but the awesome awesome great news is Tyler's mother decided to donate his organs. and the surgeons from all over the u.s. came in and checked for resemblance ( match blood type, and what the other patient need, same size , etc) More likely we're going to have a viewing tomorrow night.

Tyler's baseball basketball friends and family have collected over 5,000 dollars at the car wash for Teana. It was soo amazing! I'm just going to miss him so much!
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It´s wonderful new to know that Tyler´s mother donate Tyler´s organs to save people´s life. She must be wonderful lady and brave... I admire her for that.

I hope you don´t mind me to ask you question. Do Tyler have siblings?
 
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