im no longer dating with British boyfriend James

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i makes my own decision to let him go but i will be as friend and im no longer dating with James because of my busniess reasons..

im checkup email everyday and i havent receive his messages for rounds weeks and i makes my own decision to alone and new lifes but im join deafs dating for free..

my mom told me says i would meet man in Arkansas or any states in USA would be fine with me not out of USA NOPE!!

im singles now if you need me anytimes

im 6'2 and im 28 years old
 
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I am very sorry this had to happen to you, Sara.

You are a very lovely lady and you deserve to be treated like a lady too.

I hope there is a local gentleman in your area that will treat you like his Queen as you should be treated like one. I hope he shares your hobbies and interests too as well.

Hang in there, Sara and keep your chin up.

Big hugs! :hug:
 
I am so sorry. I know it's a difficult decision. It's important that makes you feel much better about making some difficult choices. First, enjoy your time with your furkids and go around shopping and meeting new people in your area. One day, I hope you will find a local nice guy who will be there for you and see you in person.

Hang in there.
 
I'm sorry Sara. Hopefully you will find someone nice. Maybe someone who shares your interest in dogs. Don't give up. :)
 
Sara, I'm proud of you making that decision. That was very brave of you. I hope you will continue with that independent spirit and find the man who will share your interests, and treat you right. I pray that you will find someone who lives nearby so you can meet each other and do things together.

Like Botts posted, maybe you can find someone who is involved with dog rescue groups.

Best wishes to you. :hug:
 
Sara - Are you feeling bad or hurt? I do not see it.


I think it's awesome that this happened. And I do not feel sorry, as opposed to the other posters.
 
The thing is to try not think so much of getting a man. Just go and enjoy making friends, either at the deaf club or at the deaf church. Maybe you will find someone that will make click with you, both, knowing that there is a special karma or a feeling that is right with just between two people. It take time to find someone special in your life.

After I divorced my first husband. I did not find a man until close to 15 years later when I met my present husband to be and now I am married to him for 12 1/2 years.

I know it is not easy being single as I know your feeling of being lonely. Just go out and have some fun with your friends and also make new friends too. Long distanced relationship does not always work out. Some people can handled it while others don't. Just take one step at a time as I would like to call it baby step which mean go slow. :)
 
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^ Good post. Yeah, said well.

I am single for so long, nearly a whole of my life. So I think it is better if you just relax and hang out with random friends. Keep social until you find Mr. Right Man. =)
 
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The thing is to try not think so much of getting a man. Just go and enjoy making friends, either at the deaf club or at the deaf church. Maybe you will find someone that will make click with you, both, knowing that there is a special karma or a feeling that is right with just between two people. It take time to find someone special in your life.

After I divorced my first husband. I did not find a man until close to 15 years later when I met my present husband to be and now I am married to him for 12 1/2 years.

I know it is not easy being single as I know your feeling of being lonely. Just go out and have some fun with your friends and also make new friends too. Long distanced relationship does not always work out. Some people can handled it while others don't. Just take one step at a time as I would like to call it baby step which mean go slow. :)
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Bebonang said:
The thing is to try not think so much of getting a man. Just go and enjoy making friends, either at the deaf club or at the deaf church. Maybe you will find someone that will make click with you, both, knowing that there is a special karma or a feeling that is right with just between two people. It take time to find someone special in your life.

After I divorced my first husband. I did not find a man until close to 15 years later when I met my present husband to be and now I am married to him for 12 1/2 years.

I know it is not easy being single as I know your feeling of being lonely. Just go out and have some fun with your friends and also make new friends too. Long distanced relationship does not always work out. Some people can handled it while others don't. Just take one step at a time as I would like to call it baby step which mean go slow. :)
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thanks for ask

let me think but i can chose find right mr guy in my hometown or 50 states OR nothing!
 
Why would you want to be in a relationship, wwwhyyy.. enjoy the single life while you still can, I'm just sayin' o_O
 
I'm sorry to hear about this...

Anyway I have removed Jame's last name... There's no need to expose full name of the guy.
 
KarissaMann05 said:
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^ Good post. Yeah, said well.

I am single for so long, nearly a whole of my life. So I think it is better if you just relax and hang out with random friends. Keep social until you find Mr. Right Man. =)
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Your whole life?????? Aren't you a youngin?
 
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I am glad this happened actually. I originally had a hunch that this James bloke was likely using her trusting nature and her naiveness to take advantage of her. Despite all of this, Sara deserves an equal and not someone who treats her as inferior because of her life circumstances. She did a good thing and showed her independence and asserted herself when she made the decision to end the relationship.
 
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