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Hi.. I am sick of deaf in las vegas, nv. I feel want move out of las vegas. I believe tha las vegas are cruse or bad luck... my close friend Brandon leave me or not talk me... What the matter about this? I am so confust of deaf people... I want good friends like sweet, great, ect. I like that. Deaf people have lot the gosspi. I do not want hear. I thank they make me trouble... I am bored in las vegas, nv... I want to know which state good person to me?

She told me that Roban had gf like rat, star trek, other... Now Roban blame to Jill. I was shock. Why doing that? I told Jill. I just like to talk roban's gf. Cuz she is like rat, star trek, other. Roban saying that NO to me... Asshole her... Now Jill almost blame me... I just try nice talk her. I find out that Roban is lies, wont allow her gf talk me, more... I am fear leave me. Fuck the dumb deaf people in LV...

I only have sweet friend of Darrell and Sonia. They are deaf too. I do not understand what the wrong with them...

Do you know what wrong with them???
 
I feel your frustration. That's why I don't hang around with LV deafies that much lately because of their dramatic problems. I am very eager to move out of Las Vegas for good. You are not only one who despite LV. I am one who hates LV so much with a passion. That's why I am very anxious to send out applications to any states in East Coast/New England. I am still waiting for my official transcripts from San Francisco State University.

I suggest you to travel and meet more people in other states before you can decide where you would like to move. I am telling you that there are more intelligent people in Arizona, California, East Coast or any other state.
 
i think gossip within the deaf community is very common and Zericsrats -- i understand ur frustrations! :grouphug: things will be better in time! :D

That name of Roban (or Robin qq) sounds familiar to me ofc i cant accurately say if i have met her once some years ago -- *looks over at Oddball*
 
I agree with you... Oddball... Thank you for this... I will have find job soon then save money we will move next year WHOO.
 
Zericsrats...it sure sounds like you're really frustrated being in Las Vegas and the kind of group of deaf people there don't treat you well...if you're able to travel...to explore other possibilities of other towns/cities...by all means, go for it, but most importantly, follow your heart and your heart will lead you the way to where you can truly feel more comfortable and happier!! I wish you all the best and hope you will find much happiness soon....

Keep us AD'ers posted and we're here to help encourage you along the way...! :cool:
 
I've never been to LV myself, but I have a good friend who lives there and she desperately wants out of there, but is stuck there for a reason. Her daughter. Her ex husband's family lives there and he made sure that he got 50% of the custody of their daughter and that made her stuck -- can't move away because she wants to be close to her daughter and her ex won't negotiate for a flexible plan, etc. Poor her. :(
 
I see that's why I am... Now I will have travel anywhere see happen... :mrgreen: Thank you for help about this...
 
Fly Free said:
i think gossip within the deaf community is very common and Zericsrats -- i understand ur frustrations! :grouphug: things will be better in time! :D

That name of Roban (or Robin qq) sounds familiar to me ofc i cant accurately say if i have met her once some years ago -- *looks over at Oddball*
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I believe that Roban might be Robin who has a gf named Pepper. You met her in person before, Fly Free. She was with Kelly at that time. I saw her last weekend.
 
There's nothing stopping you from getting new friends. You can find anyone... anywhere. If you feel like traveling or moving, and there's nothing stopping you... go for it. I've often felt like traveling too. I go through the same thing sometimes here in New York and Texas.
 
Yeah I know how u feel... its all the same in deaf community no matter where you live, or visiting... U're gonna have to figure out how to deal with it. the way I deal with it, is to stay out of deaf community as much as I can. out of sight, out of mind. :) heh. I go to deaf events, and hang out few times. I just try to stay away.. and still keep contact and visit my dea friends I trust, and are close with. so far I havent had plm. beside very insecure, paranoid GF of my very good friend Tim's.... grrr. she keep pulling me into their plm, thinking Tim and I are up to something. I told her that she need to stop pulling me into her plm. Its none of my business, and Im out of it. Im only Tim's friend, and always will be. never gonna be more than that. ew. I think of him as brother. She understood what I say I think. but yet she still doesnt like it. :-P grr. they have real weird relationship. not my business, Im staying out of their plm, their life. I only hang out with him and chat with him. thats it. Deaf community sucks sometimes. Espically rumors, backstabbing, lies, all that drama shit. feel like we are in soap opera sometime. Heh... You'll have to figure out how to go around this, deal with it. dont run away from ur plm or from people. u gotta face them, tell them that u dont like it when they do things to u or gossip abt u. all u can do is ignore them, not believe shit they say.


~Kiz
 
I've got a lot of friends here, so it's going to be hard for me to leave this place. I've enjoyed my stay here and don't know where else I would want to go. My hometown is a nice place to be because I have a few friends. However, I've never really had many open-minded and good friends as I do here.

Is there a place that you've always wanted to go to? Do you have anything to lose if you were to move?
 
Oddball said:
I believe that Roban might be Robin who has a gf named Pepper. You met her in person before, Fly Free. She was with Kelly at that time. I saw her last weekend.
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that was what i was thinking at the time i posted -- yep u right ive met that Robin before IRL -- new gf now qq 258
 
move to minnesota :D there's more than 10,000 lakes and you can try touch each lake's beach and look at the hotties :naughty:
 
Honey, everwhere you go, they'll ALWAYS talk about you... It seems to be that way with ALL deaf people.. Here in Utah, I'm sure isn't that bad, from what I've heard, but they still talk.. That's all they ever want to do.. Make themselves look better.. Ignore them.. Pretend it doesn't hurt (Even though I know it does) and they'll get bored of it and eventrually go away.. They called me slut for 3 years, I just ignored them and pretended to be their friend.. Then they relized that I was a hard headed, they backed off and left me alone..(FINALLY!!!) hehe. :nana:
 
i do uddy how ur feeling abt that... same thing to me, i dont happy in alabama very much! cuz of FAMOUS deaf gossip! that why i rather stay home, spend with my mom, sometime go travel for sup... spend with my 3 trust friends thats it.. now calm down no more gossip or blame on me.. growling.. cuz of i dont around deaf that much so it help less... u know the deaf love gossip and blame on the people like that.. oh well.. that life!!!
 
Zericsrats said:
Hi.. I am sick of deaf in las vegas, nv. I feel want move out of las vegas. I believe tha las vegas are cruse or bad luck... my close friend Brandon leave me or not talk me... What the matter about this? I am so confust of deaf people... I want good friends like sweet, great, ect. I like that. Deaf people have lot the gosspi. I do not want hear. I thank they make me trouble... I am bored in las vegas, nv... I want to know which state good person to me?

She told me that Roban had gf like rat, star trek, other... Now Roban blame to Jill. I was shock. Why doing that? I told Jill. I just like to talk roban's gf. Cuz she is like rat, star trek, other. Roban saying that NO to me... Asshole her... Now Jill almost blame me... I just try nice talk her. I find out that Roban is lies, wont allow her gf talk me, more... I am fear leave me. Fuck the dumb deaf people in LV...

I only have sweet friend of Darrell and Sonia. They are deaf too. I do not understand what the wrong with them...

Do you know what wrong with them???
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To be honest with you, you are not alone...I spoke with one of my friend who moved to north Mass from LV...she told me countless story of how bad and how terrible deafies is at LV...when you mentioned it made match her stories...at first I was sketchial because I am not person who wud easy shallow for anything...may I tell you something...they who try to crappin you around arent your real friend...the real friend will care and support even come to express apology....if none even it was close friend is just falsified close friend...I tell you...I experienced one GREAT loss of my best friend (I actually had 2 but one of them are still stick by me) anyway, he and I was best friend for many years...until I went through life changing for better, he cursed me for good becuz he wanted to partyin and look for easy life...so I went on life for best...I tried to reason with him, he declined and refuse to reconile again...I realized he wasnt my close friend after all years...he used me and wanted me to be his puppet...it is simple answer...so I leave him alone..it take years to heal...
 
:sure: at deaf gossips cuz they just usually want to make people look bad just ignore them and don't go tho worthless deaf events they wud be waiting to make u look bad and I don't go deaf events cuz of that same reason so.. blah I just go deaf events depends on my moods so don't listen to them zericstarts.. trust me u will find a true friend somewhere out there.. or thru here :mrgreen: so keep ur chin up and don't fight or it wud make people want to make more worse problems with u blah.
 
Zericsrats - I'm sorry you had to experience that in the deaf community. I have a very comfortable life in the general community. I have not gone around the deaf community and I intend to keep that way as long as I live. I don't care if I'm the subject in the deaf community - I rather not know and go on with my life. :) I do have some deaf friends, but they're not involved with the deaf community that I know of. :)

But why should you move away from Las Vegas when you don't have to be around those so-called people. Make new friends with other deaf (and hearing) people. If you really want to leave Las Vegas, I suggest that you visit the city/state several times and see how the people and life are like then make decision if this is something you want to do. Trust me, it is no fun moving to a new place where you don’t know anyone and you should know that deaf communities everywhere in the United States are no difference from Las Vegas and Nevada. :)
 
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