i hate the word dating

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i despise it with a passion... dating is so stupid its just a damn interview a waste of money and time. I just like the word hanging out and being friends and we like eachother ,we like eachother. dating should be earsed and burned. I really hate when i hangout with a guyfriend for the first time ,and he tries to pays more me it makes me feel like we're on a "date" if a guyfriend gives me that vibe it kind makes me want back away and stop hanging out with him.
 
there is way you could get together without actual pay. Ask for somene to walk together at lovely city park or whatever without pay a cent.
 
waste time? yeah, that's suck, it required to make sure couple feel comfortable and trust each other as they can be secure fall in love flawless

oh well.
 
i did using anythings on dating websites before i met my boyfriend Jeffrey and i got delete of dating websites but i dont using that anymore! and my boyfriend using deaf dating on http://www.deaf-match.com and im going enter that and search for perfect man and he read my profiles but he really nice guys.

i dont hates word as dating! but i love being as dating with my boyfriend but im enjoying going out with my boyfriend but he really shy! and i told him on e-mail about date dinner on my birthday if he would come to Arkansas and he says come or not and he cant come because he have work i would understood! and i told my mom about that my boyfriend cant come to Arkansas for visit.
 
So get used to it. not all dates have to be that serious.
 
Elia, that's what life is all about. There's nothing you can do about it. Guys come and go and finally find the guy and you stay together for a long time. Some take a while to pick one up. Some others take one quickly and they come in lucky. We can't complain about it. The animal kingdom have bad and good lucks when they are mating, also.
 
ella said:
i despise it with a passion... dating is so stupid its just a damn interview a waste of money and time. I just like the word hanging out and being friends and we like eachother ,we like eachother. dating should be earsed and burned. I really hate when i hangout with a guyfriend for the first time ,and he tries to pays more me it makes me feel like we're on a "date" if a guyfriend gives me that vibe it kind makes me want back away and stop hanging out with him.
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Did you talk to him about it?
 
Did the guy say he was trying to pay because it was a date, or is that just how you interpreted it? I've gone out with guys who were strictly friends and nothing more, and had them try to pay just because they're nice guys. I've also occassionally picked up the tab for my male friends. Sometimes people are just trying to be nice. :)
 
ella said:
i despise it with a passion... dating is so stupid its just a damn interview a waste of money and time. I just like the word hanging out and being friends and we like eachother ,we like eachother. dating should be earsed and burned. I really hate when i hangout with a guyfriend for the first time ,and he tries to pays more me it makes me feel like we're on a "date" if a guyfriend gives me that vibe it kind makes me want back away and stop hanging out with him.
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There's nothing wrong with a guy trying to be nice and kind. I do that to my girl friends sometimes. If my girlfriends insist on paying for their meal, then I back off.

Did you tell him that you insisted on paying for your own meal?
 
It doesn't really mean you're on a " date " sometimes a male/female friend likes to pay just to be nice and kind, and if you rather to pay your own, all you need to do is tell them, and let them know...
 
I had a male friend who pay for my meal. Nothing wrong with that. But enjoy the company and having fun is what I enjoy the most.

I sometimes pay for my and my friend's meal too. Doesnt bother me at all.
 
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