I don't know what to do,

Good going, Cheri....the good thing about tonight is that now a paper trail has begun......
 
Good!!! You doing thing is right!

You all are in my thought & prayer that everything are safety for you & your boys.

Keep it update with news. :hug:
 
Glad to know that they placed an unmarked police car within view of your place for the night--and that you'll hopefully might be able to pick out the individual from the line-up of pictures and put an end to your worries....

It was remarkable to see the many good suggestions that were expressed in this thread...and I do believe you have done a courageous act of removing 'him' from the home even if it might be upsetting or shocking to your sons for the reason doing so...just keep them close and reassuring them of your unconditional love and care!
 
Cheri said:
There was 2 police officers came over and I explain what happened earlier yesterday afternoon, and One officer asked me questions such as the description of the drug dealer which I couldn't tell him everything cuz I cannot remember everything he was wearing at that time, cuz it only took up to like 15 mins face to face. I filled out my statement stating what exactly happen step by step, The other officer asked me about my son's father his name his social security number, date of birth and He asked if my son's father ever agression/violence toward to me or my children during his drug habit I said no because, he wouldn't come home when he out every weekends. I told both of them how frighten I was for my boys and for myself, He said my statement would be made anonymously and stay confidential. And he would want me to call them back if the Drug dealer ever show up again. They will come out and hide and when the drug dealer leaves they will follow him out of my area. He also asked if there was vehicles coming and going all hours I said I don't know. He wants me to come at the police station in the morning or afternoon and speak with an investigator and look at photos of the person who I saw that came to my house. And he also said that there will be a park police car across the street at Tommy's pizza until 5 am and wouldn't have a problem tonight with the drug dealer coming over again. I felt so much better. Both officers were so kind and very supportive.
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Yay!! :applause: but still praying for the safety of your family and their works in process.. so you dont have to go through again in future..

***Huggs***
 
Good girl Cheri!!! Here the cookie for being a good girl for calling the police. Hugs!!! Now that you feel safe and relax. I hope you have sat down with you boys and explain the situation to them cuz they deserved to know the truth from you instead someone else. Hugs again.
 
Cheri said:
There was 2 police officers came over and I explain what happened earlier yesterday afternoon, and One officer asked me questions such as the description of the drug dealer which I couldn't tell him everything cuz I cannot remember everything he was wearing at that time, cuz it only took up to like 15 mins face to face. I filled out my statement stating what exactly happen step by step, The other officer asked me about my son's father his name his social security number, date of birth and He asked if my son's father ever agression/violence toward to me or my children during his drug habit I said no because, he wouldn't come home when he out every weekends. I told both of them how frighten I was for my boys and for myself, He said my statement would be made anonymously and stay confidential. And he would want me to call them back if the Drug dealer ever show up again. They will come out and hide and when the drug dealer leaves they will follow him out of my area. He also asked if there was vehicles coming and going all hours I said I don't know. He wants me to come at the police station in the morning or afternoon and speak with an investigator and look at photos of the person who I saw that came to my house. And he also said that there will be a park police car across the street at Tommy's pizza until 5 am and wouldn't have a problem tonight with the drug dealer coming over again. I felt so much better. Both officers were so kind and very supportive.
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yeah, the detective was looking for my sons's father social security number and dob, etc... They asked them if they had seen their father. It was not fair for my children to getting involved with their father who is con artist. I told my hometown police station, please leave my children and me alone. It is their job to look for him.

Their father hasn't contacted the children since more than 5 years. I am more relieved because he lives in upstate NY now.

Glad, you did call police for your protection. Police would drive around your house to make sure that no one would harm you or your children. Drug dealer people are pathetic out there.

Please stay stronger for your children's sake. Go over to Angel's house for your safety.
 
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Oh wow, Cheri..sorry you had to be in this terrible situation but did you
know that your kid's father was on drugs before he moved in with you?
If you had seen him doing that, you should have kicked him out a long time
ago before trouble starts like that creep come looking for him..so in a way, it
is partly your fault if you let him stay knowing that he is on drugs..you can tell right away if he is high really..so you would have known even if he didnt
tell you the truth...
If the creep or the kid's father comes back, call the police is all.
You really need to do something because of your children..anyways, good
luck!
 
Defee said:
Oh wow, Cheri..sorry you had to be in this terrible situation but did you
know that your kid's father was on drugs before he moved in with you?
If you had seen him doing that, you should have kicked him out a long time
ago before trouble starts like that creep come looking for him..so in a way, it
is partly your fault if you let him stay knowing that he is on drugs..you can tell right away if he is high really..so you would have known even if he didnt
tell you the truth...
If the creep or the kid's father comes back, call the police is all.
You really need to do something because of your children..anyways, good
luck!
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Yes, I knew he has a drug habit, That is why I left him long time ago when we were in a relationship, But as far as him being on drugs he is aware of not to be using it in my home, or having it in my home. I cannot control his life, He always been that way for a long time. I only let him stay because, he was living out on the street, I would hate that for anyone I know live out on the street that is just who I am, But if there a drug or drinking problem involved in my home, then that person has to leave.


Thanks everyone again for your support and suggestion . :grouphug:
 
We're just glad that you and your boys are safe and sound - that's all that counts. Period.

:grouphug: :kiss: :grouphug:
 
Don't worry about it, all it matters is that you and your children are safe, you did great Cheri.... :hug:
 
Sabrina said:
yeah, the detective was looking for my sons's father social security number and dob, etc... They asked them if they had seen their father. It was not fair for my children to getting involved with their father who is con artist. I told my hometown police station, please leave my children and me alone. It is their job to look for him.

Their father hasn't contacted the children since more than 5 years. I am more relieved because he lives in upstate NY now.

Glad, you did call police for your protection. Police would drive around your house to make sure that no one would harm you or your children. Drug dealer people are pathetic out there.

Please stay stronger for your children's sake. Go over to Angel's house for your safety.
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EDIT: sorry for going off the point.. it just makes me mad that these people get away with it scott free! :ugh2:

i think i know who you are.. he is a sicko.. he caused trouble for my friend.. :ugh: i am glad he is out of your life and her life too... i hope to hell he is CAUGHT.. he is DAMN SLY... and his family keeps covering up for him.. and that TICKS ME OFF :pissed:
 
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zesty said:
EDIT: sorry for going off the point.. it just makes me mad that these people get away with it scott free! :ugh2:

i think i know who you are.. he is a sicko.. he caused trouble for my friend.. :ugh: i am glad he is out of your life and her life too... i hope to hell he is CAUGHT.. he is DAMN SLY... and his family keeps covering up for him.. and that TICKS ME OFF :pissed:
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Off Topic again: Excuse me everyone don't pay no attention to me, but Zesty I cannot help and curious you know what guy she talking about? Have you been in Deafchat before? Pm me ok?
 
Shit, hope things are more better for your kids and you Cheri! Way to go, momma. Wasnt easy, huh? :(
 
wow cheri... im seeing this for first time... im truly glad everything goes well now... you are brave... i admire u... and im proud of u for doing right thing... kids alway come first :)

*hugs cheri*
 
Thank-you DreamDeaf, ^Angel^, Liza and SpiceHD :grouphug:


Liza Shit, hope things are more better for your kids and you Cheri! Way to go, momma. Wasnt easy, huh?
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No It wasn't easy It was hell, But, today is another day and a new freash start for us. ;)


Thanks again everyone!! :grouphug:
 
Cheri,
Glad u and ur family are OK. U did right thing about report to the police. Proud of your brave from ur family and AD's encourage. Way to go!

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