Greif86
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If you are deaf, and you have siblings that are hearing, did they adapt well? My youngest daughter is deaf, but my 16 month old daughter and 3 year old son are hearing. I am just wondering how hearing siblings adapt.
Also, has anyone dealt with family that just dosen't understand? Deafness runs on my side of the family (all females) and while my husband has EMBRACED Avery's deafness with open arms and an eagerness to learn ASL and everything about the Deaf Community; his family thinks she is "broken" and it is MY fault Every time I would update them on how an Audi appointment went, they would respond that they are "praying to God to FIX her". She is not BROKEN!! I have gotten in many an argument over this with them, to the point where I no longer say anything about appointments, or her deafness in general. We see her for who she is, a perfect little girl who is no different from her sister and brother. We have asked them to start learning ASL with us so that they may communicate with her, but they have no interest. They say that they don't need to because she will not be like this forever, she will be "fixed". OMG Can I just say HOW much it IRKS me when they say the words BROKEN or FIXED in regards to my daughter?!? She is such a beautiful healthy little girl, how can they use those words to describe her?!? Anyways, I've pretty much given up on them..though it does make me sad to think as she gets older she will ask why Grandma/Aunt/Grandpa do not talk with her...
Also, has anyone dealt with family that just dosen't understand? Deafness runs on my side of the family (all females) and while my husband has EMBRACED Avery's deafness with open arms and an eagerness to learn ASL and everything about the Deaf Community; his family thinks she is "broken" and it is MY fault Every time I would update them on how an Audi appointment went, they would respond that they are "praying to God to FIX her". She is not BROKEN!! I have gotten in many an argument over this with them, to the point where I no longer say anything about appointments, or her deafness in general. We see her for who she is, a perfect little girl who is no different from her sister and brother. We have asked them to start learning ASL with us so that they may communicate with her, but they have no interest. They say that they don't need to because she will not be like this forever, she will be "fixed". OMG Can I just say HOW much it IRKS me when they say the words BROKEN or FIXED in regards to my daughter?!? She is such a beautiful healthy little girl, how can they use those words to describe her?!? Anyways, I've pretty much given up on them..though it does make me sad to think as she gets older she will ask why Grandma/Aunt/Grandpa do not talk with her...