How Do We Heal Ourselves?...

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Everyone has their fair share, and some have an onslaught of these emotional & physical traumas, which comes into aches and pains, psychological and emotional issues etc.

How do we heal ourselves and be able to move on with our lives by letting go of the traumas that we may gone thru in our lives and how to make your life living free without any anger or emotional feelings that may be buried deep inside?...

Discuss it here and feel free to express your feelings if you would like to, but please be kind to one another here in this thread, Thanks ;)
 
^Angel^ said:
Everyone has their fair share, and some have an onslaught of these emotional & physical traumas, which comes into aches and pains, psychological and emotional issues etc.

How do we heal ourselves and be able to move on with our lives by letting go of the traumas that we may gone thru in our lives and how to make your life living free without any anger or emotional feelings that may be buried deep inside?...

Discuss it here and feel free to express your feelings if you would like to, but please be kind to one other here in this thread, Thanks ;)
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Good question - I think that some scars cannot be fully healed. I have my own share of painful traumas. All of these physical and emotional traumas I experienced caused Fibromylagia for me. I suffer from Fibromyalgia great deal because I repressed all these emotions inside me.

I think I have moved on but I still have these moments. There are some things or people who trigger these moments so I go out of my way to avoid such triggers and try to mediate/hike/pray/take deep breaths, etc to calm myself down.
 
Meg said:
Good question - I think that some scars cannot be fully healed. I have my own share of painful traumas. All of these physical and emotional traumas I experienced caused Fibromylagia for me. I suffer from Fibromyalgia great deal because I repressed all these emotions inside me.

I think I have moved on but I still have these moments. There are some things or people who trigger these moments so I go out of my way to avoid such triggers and try to mediate/hike/pray/take deep breaths, etc to calm myself down.
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When I was divorced my ex husband. I was completely very happy and travel alot with my two boys to California and Canada in summer 1997. It was the best vacation ever we had. We move on with our life. Somehow, when someone mentioned about Bobby. Naturally, it brings us flesh back bad memorizes. I understand, alot of women and children need some feedback and support from us.

It is very hard for me to let things go since I married to this man 1985 to 1997. I feel very bad for other many victim people who went through like I did. The scar is very difficult to heal from bad memories.

It is very difficult for me to move on while I heard alot about him through internet via AIM, Email and forms, etc... I admitted that I really HATE to get involve with this but I must support for the victim women and children who want my evidence. I can't wait the case will be resolve soon with the law enforcement.

It seems impossible to move on with my life when they scream for my help and contact with other more victims for their evidence.

I cant wait to move on with my new life to a bright side !
 
Well, with me I just released from my body for example don't mess with me or I'll be a real bitch. :giggle: I usual forgive and let go because really life is too short based on so much buried up inside. It's not worth it and It also not a good feeling. ;)
 
Sabrina said:
When I was divorced my ex husband. I was completely very happy and travel alot with my two boys to California and Canada in summer 1997. It was the best vacation ever we had. We move on with our life. Somehow, when someone mentioned about Bobby. Naturally, it brings us flesh back bad memorizes. I understand, alot of women and children need some feedback and support from us.

It is very hard for me to let things go since I married to this man 1985 to 1997. I feel very bad for other many victim people who went through like I did. The scar is very difficult to heal from bad memories.

It is very difficult for me to move on while I heard alot about him through internet via AIM, Email and forms, etc... I admitted that I really HATE to get involve with this but I must support for the victim women and children who want my evidence. I can't wait the case will be resolve soon with the law enforcement.

It seems impossible to move on with my life when they scream for my help and contact with other more victims for their evidence.

I cant wait to move on with my new life to a bright side !
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i really uddy how ur feeling abt this.. i dont blame u for that.. i am glad that u found a right man for in ur new life again after u getting married and i am sure that u will be happy more than before.. believe me.. :D
 
i was seprated by ex hubby for 4 yrs, i moved back with my parents, i was sooooo brokeheart, hurted bad, and very very down.. and got over 2 yrs and half for me heal n back normal life again.. we got divorced last yr aug finally.. i feel good.. also i still not heal from my ex gf last yr, i am sure that yall know her... it hurting me since cuz of what she did mean to me, and i am innocent person *sigh* i still work on it...
 
TweetyBird said:
i was seprated by ex hubby for 4 yrs, i moved back with my parents, i was sooooo brokeheart, hurted bad, and very very down.. and got over 2 yrs and half for me heal n back normal life again.. we got divorced last yr aug finally.. i feel good.. also i still not heal from my ex gf last yr, i am sure that yall know her... it hurting me since cuz of what she did mean to me, and i am innocent person *sigh* i still work on it...
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Im little confused.. can u help me to clear it up..

You date a girl who from Az and u haven't heal from your ex gf?

How you can move on and date with girl from az and broke up..
 
Aw :(

I competely understand how you feel girls :grouphug: ..It is very hard to let go of something that is very painful ...I've been there myself, and yeah, it not easy at all, but there are times I don't think about it too much cause it just bring back those horrible memories all over again...It stinks I know, I wish life was simple for everyone, but sometimes we all go thru something like this once in our lifetime, maybe twice who knows....I always count on God as often as I can when I am feeling sad or angry about the past experiences that I've gone thru, yet at the same time I was able to forgive and move on, but however it is hard to removed the scar that is buried deep inside, that something that can never be healed.... :( ...

Hang in there girls! :hug: ( Meg ) :hug: ( Sabrina ) :hug: ( Cheri ) :hug: ( Tweetybirdie )
 
CoolieFroggie said:
Im little confused.. can u help me to clear it up..

You date a girl who from Az and u haven't heal from your ex gf?

How you can move on and date with girl from az and broke up..
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Actually when someone may be in a new relationship it doesn't mean they are heal 100%, there will always be something there that may come up from time to time....

Likely with myself , when I know Roadrunner won't harm me, but there are times I get a bit scare when he moves his hands around alot, something I get jumpy, so that mean Im not 100% healed, but in time I will , it just takes one day at a time...;)
 
CoolieFroggie said:
Im little confused.. can u help me to clear it up..

You date a girl who from Az and u haven't heal from your ex gf?

How you can move on and date with girl from az and broke up..
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noooo we broke up was last jan... i mean i talked other ex last yr.. u know it... if u dont then pm me.. that why i cant put name here..
 
^Angel^ said:
Aw :(

I competely understand how you feel girls :grouphug: ..It is very hard to let go of something that is very painful ...I've been there myself, and yeah, it not easy at all, but there are times I don't think about it too much cause it just bring back those horrible memories all over again...It stinks I know, I wish life was simple for everyone, but sometimes we all go thru something like this once in our lifetime, maybe twice who knows....I always count on God as often as I can when I am feeling sad or angry about the past experiences that I've gone thru, yet at the same time I was able to forgive and move on, but however it is hard to removed the scar that is buried deep inside, that something that can never be healed.... :( ...

Hang in there girls! :hug: ( Meg ) :hug: ( Sabrina ) :hug: ( Cheri ) :hug: ( Tweetybirdie )
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yea thats true... i hate get thru again... but i am sure that u will be allright in future with ur bf RR!!! i know he is very sweet, funny, sense of humor person!!! :D
 
TweetyBird said:
yea thats true... i hate get thru again... but i am sure that u will be allright in future with ur bf RR!!! i know he is very sweet, funny, sense of humor person!!! :D
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Yep, he sure IS!!! ;)....I know sweetie, hang in there girl :hug:
 
^Angel^ said:
Actually when someone may be in a new relationship it doesn't mean they are heal 100%, there will always be something there that may come up from time to time....

Likely with myself , when I know Roadrunner won't harm me, but there are times I get a bit scare when he moves his hands around alot, something I get jumpy, so that mean Im not 100% healed, but in time I will , it just takes one day at a time...;)
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Angel my sweet friend. You got yourself a lucky man who loves you so much and wouldnt hurt ya. I know his hands fly around making you nervous but knowing that he wouldnt hurt ya. Also he would be there when you need him and cry on his shoulder. :hug:

Sabrina, You have a very special man who adore you for your strength for helping the victims and children. He will always be there for you no matter what. Good thing that he have come into your life and sweep your feet off the ground. May the dream come true for you and your sweetheart. :hug:

I know I been there and went thru. What I do is get involve in activitiy like karate and helping me to get my mind of off the things that hurt me the most.
Trying to move on with my life and enjoy what important to me was my son who give me the sunshine.

:hug: to all those who have suffer but there is a lesson that we learn from it and will not go thru it again. I know I wont. :D
 
^Angel^ said:
Everyone has their fair share, and some have an onslaught of these emotional & physical traumas, which comes into aches and pains, psychological and emotional issues etc.

How do we heal ourselves and be able to move on with our lives by letting go of the traumas that we may gone thru in our lives and how to make your life living free without any anger or emotional feelings that may be buried deep inside?...

Discuss it here and feel free to express your feelings if you would like to, but please be kind to one another here in this thread, Thanks ;)
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good question for discussion Angel!

Ive gone thru alot of bullshit with exes and all -- some situations are hard to be able to let go and heal and it takes time -- some ppl takes short time to heal while others take seemingly like forever

ive healed from past relationships with my exes and have moved on knowing that i have learned something from each of those relationships that would help me know the signs of deceptions and etc in the new women i meet in my life

i knew i would be able to love again it was just the matter of meeting the womyn who i connected so well on many levels and i did when Froggie and i started talking purely as *friends* and over time we talked we found that our feelings for eachother has blossomed that has developed to where we are today and we treasure every new day we are together mind, body and soul
 
I guess being a bitch wasn't too funny huh? or did that scare some of you away? :thumb:
 
Pomeranian said:
Angel my sweet friend. You got yourself a lucky man who loves you so much and wouldnt hurt ya. I know his hands fly around making you nervous but knowing that he wouldnt hurt ya. Also he would be there when you need him and cry on his shoulder. :hug:
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Aw you are such a sweetheart! :hug: :ily: :kiss: ...And you got yourself a lucky man too! :naughty:


Wow Flyfree, you are one tough cookie gal! :giggle: :hug:
 
Cheri said:
I guess being a bitch wasn't too funny huh? or did that scare some of you away? :thumb:
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:::nodding wildly::: :Ohno: ...













I'm just teasing ya! :ily:
 
:lol: thank u Angel! :hug: no reason to dwell on the past relationships -- makes more sense to have learned from past relationships to better urself with future gfs/bfs u know what i mean qq im not sure if i make sense to u but ahh i tried LOL
 
Yep you do make alot of sense and I understand you perfectly Flyfree, and everything you said is very true! :hug: ....
 
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