Fact or Fiction?

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Some women don't want to leave their abusive boyfriends/husbands who have a big penis. Is that true?

I know one woman who refused to leave her boyfriend who constantly abused her. I was told by someone else that his penis was huge. No wonder why she stayed with him even after she got abused repeatedly.
 
you're crazy pauly :crazy:

don't believe everything people tell you
 
katerivera said:
you're crazy pauly :crazy:

don't believe everything people tell you
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True that....ahhh...seems this woman is mistaking a huge penis for "love"....many women put sex before anything else, even abuse. Some women will not even have anything to do with a "small" penis...other women are just the opposite and dislike a huge penis....
 
rockin'robin said:
True that....ahhh...seems this woman is mistaking a huge penis for "love"....many women put sex before anything else, even abuse. Some women will not even have anything to do with a "small" penis...other women are just the opposite and dislike a huge penis....
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That's why I brought it up. Many women? Oh, boy! Wait a min, I don't believe everything you say (katerivera's suggestion).
 
Nah. They don't want to leave because they are co-dependents who fear being alone, being abused worse if they are caught trying to leave, or worse.
 
Nah. Like what DBJ ^^^ CoDependents are the difficult habit of getting rid of the nasty habit.
 
It's not always about their penis. It just that females make their choice to stay with their boyfriend or hubby after they abuse her. She is just being willing to make thing right to be better next time as she hope for. Neverless, thing may getting worst.

All she need is a help to learn how to break the border to get their own way.
 
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Okay... it's one thing to stay with a guy even though the relationship is blah because the sex is great, but... another thing to stay with him even though he is abusive just because he has a big one.

I HIGHLY doubt it's just because he has a big dick..... there is more to the story.
 
Daredevel7 said:
Okay... it's one thing to stay with a guy even though the relationship is blah because the sex is great, but... another thing to stay with him even though he is abusive just because he has a big one.

I HIGHLY doubt it's just because he has a big dick..... there is more to the story.
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yeah he is a big dick. :lol:
 
You really think women put up with being abused because of the size of their boyfriend's penis? I couldn't believe it when you said "according to someone else, he has a big penis, no wonder she won't leave him."

I mean, what??

No, women put up with abuse out of fear, or because their self esteem is so low they think they can't function without their man, or because they don't have money to support themselves, or because they don't want to take the children away from their father, or even go so far as forgive the abuse because she sympathizes with the abuser's psychological weaknesses and doesn't hold it against him. "He hits and hurts me but it's not his fault. He needs me."
 
I've sat in a few DV workshops for work and can safely tell you that there is much more to the story.

Even women with a lot of education will have hard time leaving their abusive relationship. It's sad.
 
I not think anyone ever can say or know why someone else stay, put up with somethings you maybe not put up with. Not judge others. Never can know what make someone happy, what they okay with. People always so fast judge men, make monsters when not know whole situation.
 
the other posters are right...

women stay with the abusive man because he makes her feel emotionally trapped.
 
There are many, many reasons why women stay with an abusive partner..."awesome sex" is one of them, they like it rough and have never had a man who treated them rough, or even a "big penis".....I've heard of women crying because they could not find a man who was better in bed than their abusive partner, and wanted to go back....Even one woman said....."he rocks my world!"..."he's my Daddy"!....It's sick, I agree...but it's factual.

Men can use sex as control, too.
 
rockin'robin said:
There are many, many reasons why women stay with an abusive partner..."awesome sex" is one of them, they like it rough and have never had a man who treated them rough, or even a "big penis".....I've heard of women crying because they could not find a man who was better in bed than their abusive partner, and wanted to go back....Even one woman said....."he rocks my world!"..."he's my Daddy"!....It's sick, I agree...but it's factual.

Men can use sex as control, too.
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It takes more than good sex or a big penis to put up with abuse. There's usually more to the story than that.
 
DeafCaroline said:
It takes more than good sex or a big penis to put up with abuse. There's usually more to the story than that.
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Right. I think seldom this will factor in. You can get sex anyone, you stay because what he give you nobody else can.
 
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is it possible some guys feel insecure thinking gals who are being abused with big dicks who have big dicks to stay with big dicks? :hmm:

i know it isn't funny but you know.
 
Maybe the translation was lost?

Person A: "He controls her by being a big dick. She just can't leave him because of this."
Person B: "I heard that she can't leave him because he has a big dick."
 
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