Dear Cheri...

Wow that melting my heart. That does make you feel good for who you are and for what you are made of!!

That right never know what tomorrow will bring. Hugs all!!
 
Glad to see ya'll made a truce! Ya'll got me thinking about making a truce with a girl I grew up with, we haven't spoke since August. I don't want to be off topic about what happened but I'll say I've had a lot of thinking. I just don't think I can be her friend anymore but I can forgive her.
 
It is a miracle - wonderful present for all AD's to see you two make a peace for Christmas!!

RebelGirl said:
Glad to see ya'll made a truce! Ya'll got me thinking about making a truce with a girl I grew up with, we haven't spoke since August. I don't want to be off topic about what happened but I'll say I've had a lot of thinking. I just don't think I can be her friend anymore but I can forgive her.
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I know, I am in the same boat as yours too!! - Life's too short to hold grudge isn't it?
 
Tamara said:
It is a miracle - wonderful present for all AD's to see you two make a peace for Christmas!!






I know, I am in the same boat as yours too!! - Life's too short to hold grudge isn't it?
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yep, its too short, but I still don't think I can do this, though. :ugh:
 
Aw RebelGirl,

I understand how you feel about not wantin' to be friend with her but to forgive her ....

Let me share a story with you and it's based on true story.... I mean, in reality when a person die. It's called "Chain Reaction".

Let's use me in this person's shoes, ok ? :) Ok, here's the story:

Supposedly, if I was mean to one person and say bad/negative things to her/him or other persons ...whether it could be friends, families or christian people, no matter WHO without forgivin' or apologizin'. Until the day I die for some reason or by accident, I will stand up facin' God to review MY life as judgement.

I will watch MY life bein' review in front of me and I saw that person who I was not bein' nice to or say bad/negative things to that person... that person feels HURT or GRIEVE or maybe had TEARS rollin' down the cheeks. I will EXPERIENCE that person's feelings. Let's for example: If, that person feels HURT, I will experience this person's feeling HURT for WHAT I have done to that person. OR -- Let's say, if I shoot that person with a gun and that person was shocked and what that person's thought was sayin', I will EXPERIENCE that shock and read that person's thoughts about me. This will put me ashame before God.

It's called Chain reaction. Every person WILL experience other people's feelings after death when standin' before God for Judgement. Life will be reviewin' from the birth to death.

God's Word is like a powerful dart - right straight towards heart to REVEAL who the person really is. That will bring that person's legs to tremble. That person can not hide from God. Everythin' about that person's life will EXPOSE from A to Z. That's somethin' I wouldn't want to experience. :) It's why it's important to ask for forgiveness after sorry.
 
CyberRed said:
Aw RebelGirl,

I understand how you feel about not wantin' to be friend with her but to forgive her ....

Let me share a story with you and it's based on true story.... I mean, in reality when a person die. It's called "Chain Reaction".

Let's use me in this person's shoes, ok ? :) Ok, here's the story:

Supposedly, if I was mean to one person and say bad/negative things to her/him or other persons ...whether it could be friends, families or christian people, no matter WHO without forgivin' or apologizin'. Until the day I die for some reason or by accident, I will stand up facin' God to review MY life as judgement.

I will watch MY life bein' review in front of me and I saw that person who I was not bein' nice to or say bad/negative things to that person... that person feels HURT or GRIEVE or maybe had TEARS rollin' down the cheeks. I will EXPERIENCE that person's feelings. Let's for example: If, that person feels HURT, I will experience this person's feeling HURT for WHAT I have done to that person. OR -- Let's say, if I shoot that person with a gun and that person was shocked and what that person's thought was sayin', I will EXPERIENCE that shock and read that person's thoughts about me. This will put me ashame before God.

It's called Chain reaction. Every person WILL experience other people's feelings after death when standin' before God for Judgement. Life will be reviewin' from the birth to death.

God's Word is like a powerful dart - right straight towards heart to REVEAL who the person really is. That will bring that person's legs to tremble. That person can not hide from God. Everythin' about that person's life will EXPOSE from A to Z. That's somethin' I wouldn't want to experience. :) It's why it's important to ask for forgiveness after sorry.
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A M E N! i agree w/you CyberRED smile
 
Thats wonderful !
Hey CyberRed, That's why
I like your Good postings for years :)
 
Right or wrong, Rebel, love conquers all!

CR & Cheri........very nice, very nice, indeed! :grouphug:
 
CyberRed said:
Aw RebelGirl,

I understand how you feel about not wantin' to be friend with her but to forgive her ....

Let me share a story with you and it's based on true story.... I mean, in reality when a person die. It's called "Chain Reaction".

Let's use me in this person's shoes, ok ? :) Ok, here's the story:

Supposedly, if I was mean to one person and say bad/negative things to her/him or other persons ...whether it could be friends, families or christian people, no matter WHO without forgivin' or apologizin'. Until the day I die for some reason or by accident, I will stand up facin' God to review MY life as judgement.

I will watch MY life bein' review in front of me and I saw that person who I was not bein' nice to or say bad/negative things to that person... that person feels HURT or GRIEVE or maybe had TEARS rollin' down the cheeks. I will EXPERIENCE that person's feelings. Let's for example: If, that person feels HURT, I will experience this person's feeling HURT for WHAT I have done to that person. OR -- Let's say, if I shoot that person with a gun and that person was shocked and what that person's thought was sayin', I will EXPERIENCE that shock and read that person's thoughts about me. This will put me ashame before God.

It's called Chain reaction. Every person WILL experience other people's feelings after death when standin' before God for Judgement. Life will be reviewin' from the birth to death.

God's Word is like a powerful dart - right straight towards heart to REVEAL who the person really is. That will bring that person's legs to tremble. That person can not hide from God. Everythin' about that person's life will EXPOSE from A to Z. That's somethin' I wouldn't want to experience. :) It's why it's important to ask for forgiveness after sorry.
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Great Post! I gotcha what you're trying to say. If I can explain what happened and would love to have each of your opinions but I'm not going to do that cuz she (the enemy) can come in here and read. She's not a member of Alldeaf but who knows. I feel for her, I really do. I think about her all the time but in my heart says no. It repeats its own problems and I don't want to go thru it over and over. I forgive her and hope she's happy and moving on with her life.

I also felt that there would be a sense that life after death would be here listening, feeling and seeing what we all are doing. I think about those things often.
 
RebelGirl said:
Glad to see ya'll made a truce! Ya'll got me thinking about making a truce with a girl I grew up with, we haven't spoke since August. I don't want to be off topic about what happened but I'll say I've had a lot of thinking. I just don't think I can be her friend anymore but I can forgive her.
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Yes, I can understand how you feeling I had been through the same situation as you... it´s really very sad... Oh Well... mmmhhh
 
RebelGirl said:
Ya'll got me thinking about making a truce with a girl I grew up with, we haven't spoke since August. I don't want to be off topic about what happened but I'll say I've had a lot of thinking. I just don't think I can be her friend anymore but I can forgive her.
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Whatever reason it might be that cause your friendship with her gone downhill, I had that type of experience before, when she was my best friend, we used to do everything together. It all lasted by her sleeping with my boyfriend that I was with for 9 months. I was heartbroken I never image that she would done something like that to me. It took me a while to forgive her, but our friendship will never be the same, I still cannot trust her. But, I still talk to her once a while, I still love and care about her, but the trust is gone. :|
 
I am glad I came across to this excellent thread because I just learned something. :ty: CyberRed & Cheri. It has to do with my long close friend I lost 2 months ago... I can try to do something about it by start apologizing to her, forgive and feel better ... I know the feeling, RebelGirl. We can't dwell on this kind of stinking & low feeling, you know.
 
Great to see both Cheri and Cyberred bury the hatchal so to speak... I'm glad this will bring on good fortune for both of them from now on.... simply a wonderful gesture on CR's part to ask for forgiveness to Cheri and verse visa...
 
Northstar said:
Great to see both Cheri and Cyberred bury the hatchal so to speak... I'm glad this will bring on good fortune for both of them from now on.... simply a wonderful gesture on CR's part to ask for forgiveness to Cheri and verse visa...
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We shall see.... :wiggle:
 
yeah its good to see forgive, but they should keep in privately.. we indeed not to know their business. I think its better off to keep between them than announce anyone to know that they having plm which myself and some other don't know about this. I think its TOO personal. But its their choice.. Yup forgive is good, sometime it not going to be same but only way is "forget the plms and move on ur life" Like I done to my enemies and my ex's. I forgave them becuz i want to move on w/ my life and forget abt them. I guess everybody has different opinions than I do. If you don't forgive with ur old problems or some reason, ur life isn't going on and will go over and over. It won't work. Well, forgive is only to ease ur anger, jealousy, miserable, or ur conconsiuess (sp)..
 
SherryCherish said:
yeah its good to see forgive, but they should keep in privately.. we indeed not to know their business. I think its better off to keep between them than announce anyone to know that they having plm which myself and some other don't know about this. I think its TOO personal. But its their choice.. Yup forgive is good, sometime it not going to be same but only way is "forget the plms and move on ur life" Like I done to my enemies and my ex's. I forgave them becuz i want to move on w/ my life and forget abt them. I guess everybody has different opinions than I do. If you don't forgive with ur old problems or some reason, ur life isn't going on and will go over and over. It won't work. Well, forgive is only to ease ur anger, jealousy, miserable, or ur conconsiuess (sp)..
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I second that, WELL SAID there girl!! :thumb:
 
Good point, Sherry.. I agree with what ya are saying.. but it would also be better to show everyone that a person is indeed wanting to let bygones be bygones for the benefit of other folks as well?? That might be solid proof or so? just my opinion on that anyways....
 
Northstar said:
Good point, Sherry.. I agree with what ya are saying.. but it would also be better to show everyone that a person is indeed wanting to let bygones be bygones for the benefit of other folks as well?? That might be solid proof or so? just my opinion on that anyways....
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For the benefit of other folks... exactly. :)
 
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