Bullies~ Fight Back or Walk Away?

sequoias said:
Are your future kids, what? Monkeys? Just kidding!
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hahahah If I have my own kids in future lol .. I wish I have my own kids right now but dont have one yet lol :lol:

wish I have monkey myself hahah but nah rather kids lol
 
DeafMonkey said:
hahahah If I have my own kids in future lol .. I wish I have my own kids right now but dont have one yet lol :lol:

wish I have monkey myself hahah but nah rather kids lol
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hehe, good to hear! ;)
 
Of course ignored the bullies and walk away, Picking up a fight with them gets anyone nowhere. I would be on my children side and report any bully that bothered my children. I'm not going to let the bullies get away with it. You mess with my children, You'll get mess back by getting in trouble with the school system. ;)
 
This would be same thing with my son!

Cheri said:
Of course ignored the bullies and walk away, Picking up a fight with them gets anyone nowhere. I would be on my children side and report any bully that bothered my children. I'm not going to let the bullies get away with it. You mess with my children, You'll get mess back by getting in trouble with the school system. ;)
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I wouldn't consider defending yourself against bullies as being wrong.
 
I remember being picked on as a kid. Most of it is like Heath and another forum member "...disagreeing about whose weenie is bigger..." so, with that in mind, this is what I have done and would do for my own kids.

The bullying, depends on how it's done, being physical back to the bully doesn't solve much. It does, however, speak volumes to remember that the knee can take only 15 pounds of pressure for it to be thrown out, rendering the bully doubled over, on the ground and long enough for the person being picked on to get out of there. I do not recommend a kick to the genitals, as that could kill a person, but I do recommend martial arts. Karate, Tak kwon do, Judo, Kung Fu...these should be learned. Get picked on again? Never, since everyone now knows not to mess with you.

Let me tell you a story about a guy in my brother's boot camp when he was in the Army. The Drill Sergeant (DS) was picking on one new recruit, calling him a wimp, among other names. One time, they were working on fighting and the DS and this guy had the sticks and going back and forth. The recruit threw a swing, knocking off the DS's hat. The DS picked up his hat and asked the recruit where he learned this. The recruit said that he was a brown belt in Karate. The DS then said, "You could have killed me, couldn't you have?" The recruit replied, "Yes." For that, the DS apologizes to him and never called him names again. The premise of the story...learn martial arts and learn how to disable your opponent before they disable you.

It also helps to learn it for anger management.
 
Walk away.. if bullied hit you juz simple tell parent or at school so they can suspected bullied or kicked out of school but FIGHT is NEVER PLM SOLVE you gotta stand up and do right things if they start craps w/you juz ingoer and walk away cuz the bullied will lost respect
 
well, i agree to walk away what if their back bullies still follow to hit n beat up, innoccent kids would have to defect themselves? is better way for innocent let bullies finish beating up, huh?

just post what u think :)
 
I would fight back against bullies and I have afew times and I didnt even get in trouble for it! :D well okay afew times but still...they got served!
 
pek1 said:
I remember being picked on as a kid. Most of it is like Heath and another forum member "...disagreeing about whose weenie is bigger..." so, with that in mind, this is what I have done and would do for my own kids.

The bullying, depends on how it's done, being physical back to the bully doesn't solve much. It does, however, speak volumes to remember that the knee can take only 15 pounds of pressure for it to be thrown out, rendering the bully doubled over, on the ground and long enough for the person being picked on to get out of there. I do not recommend a kick to the genitals, as that could kill a person, but I do recommend martial arts. Karate, Tak kwon do, Judo, Kung Fu...these should be learned. Get picked on again? Never, since everyone now knows not to mess with you.

Let me tell you a story about a guy in my brother's boot camp when he was in the Army. The Drill Sergeant (DS) was picking on one new recruit, calling him a wimp, among other names. One time, they were working on fighting and the DS and this guy had the sticks and going back and forth. The recruit threw a swing, knocking off the DS's hat. The DS picked up his hat and asked the recruit where he learned this. The recruit said that he was a brown belt in Karate. The DS then said, "You could have killed me, couldn't you have?" The recruit replied, "Yes." For that, the DS apologizes to him and never called him names again. The premise of the story...learn martial arts and learn how to disable your opponent before they disable you.

It also helps to learn it for anger management.
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It is not about who is bigger than who is and I was telling it like it is and that was the source of the friction here.

Many people when they have been abused so bad and they have had enough then they take up marital arts to defend themselves or learn it the hard way through experience.

That is why it does not pay to treat people bad and if they do then they got it coming to them. Too bad for the bullies. Good for the person sticking up for himself or herself. Stand the ground and do not move from there.

I do not think the U.S. Army Drill Sergeant will let that slide. He will send the trainee to the brig then carry out the sentence imposed upon the trainee then give a dishonorable discharge and kick him out of the U.S. Army. I know the U.S. Marine Corps has no tolerance for that kind of business with the trainees rebelling against the Drill Instructors or the Drill Assistant Instructors.

Yes, It is very important to learn how to disable your enemy before they even try to disable you.
 
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IcedTeaRulz said:
Better walk away...avoid from being sued.
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The legal system needs to stop making things so complicated.

Make the legal system very simple with hard-core conquensces.

Recongize who is the victim and who is the criminal here.

The legal system has to stop favoring the criminals and start standing tall with the victims.

Judges need to stop passing out hypocritical sentences and pass common-sense hard hitting sentences that are hard-core, uniformed and makes people think twice before commiting a criminal offense.

We need to return to strong law and order arm-stronged laws. Not the ones where politicans talk tough and pass laws that seem tough but nobody follows because of the corruption.

Strong law and order arm-stronged laws will make people want peace and not more trouble.

Suing people for money needs to stop. I know people like to win money. That is a human instinct. The " sue laws " need to be narrowed down to common-sense laws in order to sue on good reasons and good legal grounds.

" The moral fiber of the law should be law " rather than just sue people and hit them up for money.
 
Once a bully hits you is a loser.

and if you hit back the bully you're a loser as well.

If you just walk away from bullies, they're two times a loser.


Like Gemtun says, use your power by knowledge and education. It works.
 
Catmandu said:
Once a bully hits you is a loser.

and if you hit back the bully you're a loser as well.

If you just walk away from bullies, they're two times a loser.


Like Gemtun says, use your power by knowledge and education. It works.
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Can you tell me what is wrong with the logic from a legal and a moral point of view.... or from the innocent person's point of view?

First of all, the bully had no business hitting somebody. The vicitm should not be punished for defending themselves.

That is what is wrong with the logic here and how it was phrased here.

Criminals need to know their own place and we need to tell the criminal their business !!! Enough is enough here. That is why many people are fed up with the criminal activity where ever it occurs in the school yard or the streets.
 
Catmandu said:
Once a bully hits you is a loser.

and if you hit back the bully you're a loser as well.

If you just walk away from bullies, they're two times a loser.


Like Gemtun says, use your power by knowledge and education. It works.
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True! :D
 
Catmandu said:
Once a bully hits you is a loser.

and if you hit back the bully you're a loser as well.

If you just walk away from bullies, they're two times a loser.


Like Gemtun says, use your power by knowledge and education. It works.
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Amen! :applause:
 
Heath said:
The legal system needs to stop making things so complicated.

Make the legal system very simple with hard-core conquensces.

Recongize who is the victim and who is the criminal here.

The legal system has to stop favoring the criminals and start standing tall with the victims.

Judges need to stop passing out hypocritical sentences and pass common-sense hard hitting sentences that are hard-core, uniformed and makes people think twice before commiting a criminal offense.

We need to return to strong law and order arm-stronged laws. Not the ones where politicans talk tough and pass laws that seem tough but nobody follows because of the corruption.

Strong law and order arm-stronged laws will make people want peace and not more trouble.

Suing people for money needs to stop. I know people like to win money. That is a human instinct. The " sue laws " need to be narrowed down to common-sense laws in order to sue on good reasons and good legal grounds.

" The moral fiber of the law should be law " rather than just sue people and hit them up for money.
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Did Jesus fight back after they did beat up on him? No, he didn't.
 
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