A vent- need to get off my chest...

racheleggert said:
Yep I got what you mean.... He also want to rush everything when meet me... no thanks for that... He said he was going to ask me to marry him when we meet first time and he was planning on getting me a ring but lucky I dumped him before he bought ring... what a close call!!
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what a pervert :roll: I think he don't want to wait but he need to learn patience that it takes to be in relationship.. some guys aren't like that.. oh well life goes on ;)
 
I'm sorry I respectfully disagree with you, wildzerica06. He doesn't even sound like a pervert, Maybe he loves her enough to wanted to marry her, What could that possible be wrong with that? After all, he's just in love and those who are in love sometimes say foolish things, do foolish things. Many people just expressed their love in many different ways.

If someone said that to me, It'll make me feel special or flatter. I guess it depends on how you look at it, I see nothing wrong with what he said. That's just me. ;)
 
I hoping that you will feeling much better after you venting out on here. I know it is not that easy, but hoping that things will work it out for you. :hug:
 
wildzerica06 said:
what a pervert :roll: I think he don't want to wait but he need to learn patience that it takes to be in relationship.. some guys aren't like that.. oh well life goes on ;)
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HUH? How does that make him a pervert if he wanted to marry her even though it was too fast? A pervert is someone who thinks lewd thoughts of other people. This guy seemed nice but not the right one for Rachelleggert according to her?
 
racheleggert said:
Yep I got what you mean.... He also want to rush everything when meet me... no thanks for that... He said he was going to ask me to marry him when we meet first time and he was planning on getting me a ring but lucky I dumped him before he bought ring... what a close call!!
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To be honest that was kinda harsh what you did, dumped him because he was going too fast? Whatever happened to communication? Doesn't anyone practice that anymore? If you have been open, honest and told him how you feel that you would like to take things slow, and if he loves you enough, he would take it slow. Have you gave him that chance or no?
 
I can be harsh sometimes- depending on situations. Giving chance is justifted (?)- like if someone rings alarm bell too many time, cops makes decesion to deal or not- I am much like them. Sometimes I have hard time forgiving people, also depends on situation. I tried to give him a chance but he just got mad at me without letting me giving him a chance.

I did little background check today, found out the true of that person, so now I know hes not for me.

Again, if I meet someone and they ask me to marry at first time meeting, no thanks... I'd prefer to know the person more before I go any futher.

He and I no longer talk to eachother because I prefer not to since he dissrespected me by calling me whores, and stuff like that so I just dropped him....

Cheri said:
To be honest that was kinda harsh what you did, dumped him because he was going too fast? Whatever happened to communication? Doesn't anyone practice that anymore? If you have been open, honest and told him how you feel that you would like to take things slow, and if he loves you enough, he would take it slow. Have you gave him that chance or no?
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oooo rachel it is not very nice of him to calling ya that that is unrespectful of him for calling you names that are hurtful

lucky you dumped him whew
 
After reading ur vent and other posts u have made in this thread, i think i have a pretty good idea who it might be but ofc, wanting to respect ur privacy i will not mention him by name but getting involved with someone who is constantly gaming and etc usually isnt worth it IMHO

:hug: Rachel -- glad u dumped this guy and trusted ur own vibes ;)
 
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