Do you judge people because of the looks or the character but....

[yagazn]

You can't judge people without knowing them first.

Like for example.

A guy who may look poor or look cheap. But you can't judge without knowing him first, Once you get to know him. And you realize you were wrong about him.

You don't know what he or she likes. Get a chance to know her or him instead of judgement person's looks or characterize.

For some people who judgement like that, it's stupid.

In my experience with someone who's superfical and judgement, I was no longer friend with that stupid ignorant person.
(That was a long time ago). It was awful experience for me.

A stupid person always judge other people's looks. I say, "you can't judge, you don't know them". I thought people would share this topic.

 

[GarnetTigerMom]

I don't believe in judging people for their looks. But I can judge people I meet or met by their behavior and charater they show. But sometimes we can't jump too fast until you really get to know a person 100% before making any judgment on a person's personality ahd behaivor. Looks don't count to me.

 

[Kalista]

superfical= hypocrite ?

 

[Bottesini]

I think you will get a lot of people to agree here. Always judge by character.

 

[Awauphi]

I dont judge by the cover of the book but their characters/behaviors. not the looks. :P

 

[Casperman]

i agree with y'all and also i'm sick of people judge by hearing the rumors not approach and asking, etc and make wrong judgement as the bible says... Judge not, and ye shall not be judged:

 

[yagazn]

superfical= hypocrite ?

What you see is outside without inside.

 

[yagazn]

Also in my experience,
I don't like that stupid person who made fun of how they dress. Stupid person was like, "I won't be friend with someone who dress too casual, I want to hang out with someone who dress RAD or COOL". I was like, "you never know what that personality like". You can't judge how that person dress or looks. That stupid person always like ignored. Oh, boy.

Some of you who replied to my post. (Individual who agree or disagree).

you can judge how their behavior but you can't tell by the looks or characterize. You know wrong idea or wrong about that person.

 

[Jiro]

superfical= hypocrite ?

somebody too "fake." usually an insecure person


I do judge people based on their looks but not too heavily. I do it for quick assessment. For example - when you're looking to date, obviously you're not going to date somebody who looks like an emo or a punk. Although, his/her appearance is a just a rough framework of his/her characters and you won't know for sure until you talk to this person. I guess with time and experience, it's pretty easy to accurately judge the person.

ADMIT IT PEOPLE! DON'T SAY YOU DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE! DON'T LIE! You're not gona talk to person who dresses like a slob or have messy hair!

 

[Angel]

I never judge people based on their appearance and I always like to get to know someone before I make an assumption about a person's character. Unfortunately, there are some people out there who prefer appearance over personality because appearance is what readily and easily visible. Personality is enriching and what builds any relationship true, however, I disagree to base a person's character on appearance only, appearances can be mischieving and fall away, because looks do fade away, personality doesn't, never will.


As the old saying goes "Don't judge a book by it's cover" ..

 

[Pepsi]

I am guilty of this one,a couple of years ago I meant a friend of my daughter's husband.And he likes to dye his hair black and wear black clothes,well I took one look at him and said to myself wth is that? It turns out that he was very kind,loveable and a great person.I judge him on the way that he look and I felt bad about that.

 

[Cheri]

I never judge people based on their appearance and I always like to get to know someone before I make an assumption about a person's character. Unfortunately, there are some people out there who prefer appearance over personality because appearance is what readily and easily visible. Personality is enriching and what builds any relationship true, however, I disagree to base a person's character on appearance only, appearances can be mischieving and fall away, because looks do fade away, personality doesn't, never will.


As the old saying goes "Don't judge a book by it's cover" ..

Right.

 

[shel90]

somebody too "fake." usually an insecure person


I do judge people based on their looks but not too heavily. I do it for quick assessment. For example - when you're looking to date, obviously you're not going to date somebody who looks like an emo or a punk. Although, his/her appearance is a just a rough framework of his/her characters and you won't know for sure until you talk to this person. I guess with time and experience, it's pretty easy to accurately judge the person.

ADMIT IT PEOPLE! DON'T SAY YOU DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE! DON'T LIE! You're not gona talk to person who dresses like a slob or have messy hair!

I am kinda like u ...I wouldnt date someone who dresses like a gangster with the pants hanging off their asses and showing more than half of their underwear. Sorry, that is a big turn off for me right away even though the person may be one of the nicest person around.

However, I am not very anal about what other people look like or how they dress. I just dont like the gangsta appearance cuz it makes me wonder if they are actually involved in a dangerous gang or not.

However, yes, I would talk to a person who dresses like a slob or have messy hair. We have our bad hair days from time to time.

 

[August]

i judge people ENTIRELY on their looks. character means nothing at all to me.

if you're ugly, or you wear bad or outdated clothes, i will never, ever speak to you.

 

[August]

I am kinda like u ...I wouldnt date someone who dresses like a gangster with the pants hanging off their asses and showing more than half of their underwear. Sorry, that is a big turn off for me right away even though the person may be one of the nicest person around.

haha

there's no such thing as a "nice" thug. they don't even smile!

 

[GarnetTigerMom]

somebody too "fake." usually an insecure person


I do judge people based on their looks but not too heavily. I do it for quick assessment. For example - when you're looking to date, obviously you're not going to date somebody who looks like an emo or a punk. Although, his/her appearance is a just a rough framework of his/her characters and you won't know for sure until you talk to this person. I guess with time and experience, it's pretty easy to accurately judge the person.

ADMIT IT PEOPLE! DON'T SAY YOU DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE! DON'T LIE! You're not gona talk to person who dresses like a slob or have messy hair!

For FYI,, Looks don't matter or mean a thing to me. I have know some people dress up as punks or dress sexy or dress like a bum or whatever, make you means the way people dress by judgeing them. But looks have nothing to do with it for me. I always look at the person personality and their behavior or the way they talk to me. Who knows a punk is a nice person or a bad person. It not the looks that comes to my mind. It the behavior or the way they treat you. Maybe some of people judge other people by the way they looks or the way the dress, but they should really know a person before throwing a book at someone. Face it some of us wake up with a messy hair do or have bad hair day,, that don't stop us from being friends lol

 

[deafbajagal]

I have friends from all walks of life...and as a result, I have a rich life full of joy. It is a blessing to have friends. One of my good friends live in Honduras. Her floor is dirt and her roof is a tin roof that is just placed on four walls- not even nailed in. She dresses in very simple and old clothes. Looking at her, most people don't realize that she owns one of the biggest companies in the United States. She is worth millions. But she gave it (the lifestyle) up to become a missionary worker in one of the most humbling places in the world. She is an inspiration for me. When she comes to visit us in U.S., a lot of people gives her strange looks because she dresses as a simple poor person. She was even turned away by one of the stores that SHE OWNED. Imagine the look on the manager's face when she learned that one of her folks turned away the OWNER.

 

[VamPyroX]

I don't judge people by the cover, but what's inside.

Even if I saw a cute woman, I wouldn't immediately say that she was the woman of my dreams. I would talk to her and get to know her. That's when I know what she is REALLY like.

 

[Maria]

I like to be myself. A care-free minded person and chat away with a person as usual. I like to make a person to feel good about themselves knowing that they are liked/loved.

 

[PePe LePew]

What's Up Baby ? LOL

I agree that it isn't right to judge people by how they looks, how they dresses, how they talks, how they acts or what they do, whatever they do something that you don't like, everybody is different.

We all do not have the same personality, brain, thinking, feeling, hurt, how they sees and emotionally, everybody born different.

I have friend that isn't all there, but I still be kinds to her nomatter what, she can't help herself, I have patient and live with it.

There's more others I've met and I really don't care how they are, because they are not perfect and I don't expected them to be perfect or right, we're all not alike.

I thinks it's fun to experiences all kinds of different people who are different from others and I thinks it's cool.

It's rude to tell a person and say you talk funny, or you look funny, or I don't like the way you acts, that's not a proper way to speaks to a person like that, you can really hurts the person's feeling.

You can't change people, the minds are totally different, I allowed them to be who they are and I can't change them because how they talk, how they acts, I can't control or fix them, it just not right.

They are who they are and accept for who they are, how they talk, how they acts and many more. We're in imperfect world, I accepted anybody who are different, they have right to believe what they wants believe, I respects people's differences and agreement.

I let them be what they want to be, if they are happy like they are, great I'm happy, I want them to feels good about themselves without judging them.

I see all kinds of people and it is very interesting and I don't care what their skins color are and I don't care what weights they are, it doesn't counts, and Yes the heart does counts more than looks, etcs.