19 year old guy has sex with 15 year old girl

Yes thats true its called Statutory Rape..
Don't worry darling I'll have a shot gun by the time our daughter turns that age. Bring them on muahahaha




FelixKat930 said:
Yes it is against the law.. because it is sick and I don't want anyone to be taking advantage of my daughter when she is around that age. I want my kids to be with people closer or the same age as theirs. At 15 years old.. you should be focusing in school.. and have fun.. not think about having a serious boyfriend. The 19 years old guy is not thinking with his heart.. most guys that age.. they are thinking with their dick and want young pussy. Hey.. it happened to alot of my friends and me,too. Hate being taken advantaged of! :pissed: Those guys should be looking for girls that are legal ages not the jailbats.
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Gemtun said:
Lieb,

I taught sex education to youth for three years. You would not believe how nearly every kid 's parents didnt bother to educate them about sex. Most of these kids clung to me and asked me thousands of questions about sex.
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Yes, the sex education at school is the mainly reason, I´m for because many children didn´t being teach about sex at home. It´s sad! Some parents feel uncomfortable to talk open about sex issues with their children or doesn´t bother to educate their children. Very sad... Some parents consider their teenagers as their children...

Most of these girls were emotionally immature but craving for love because family didnt provide love in their homes.
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From these experiences, I know that it is impossible to have every youth be educated and make wise decisions. Emotional IQ is very important when it comes to sexuality.
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AGREED

I was educated when I was 15 years old but I fell for his smooth sayings that if I didnt have sex with him, it means I didnt love him and that he would break up with me. Sure I had sex with him to prove it. That is what I am more concerned. We all could be educated in terms of using condoms, etc but only experience can help us understand smooth sayings and be able to trust our instincts/judgements.
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I understand what you mean but it´s not just teenagers but also adults as well.
There´re many people including teenagers and adults between 15 and 60 years old fall for their partner´s smooth talk... after found out that they are married, have partners, swindle, use for sex, etc.... I often read the magazines about them... They lost a lot of money to swindler because they thought they love each other... etc. etc. They played as widow and cheat rich or divorced women for money... also women cheat men for money as well... It´s many things how they can deal with their smooth talker...

So that is why I prefer to have laws be in place to protect the innocents. Education may help but laws are here for the consquences.
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I respect you what you think right but I see different. This law is for teenagers, not adult which is not right. Look at many poor innoncent adults as well. They are also being cheat by their partners. I feel that teenagers and adults should being treat equal, not just that teenagers.
Teenagers are not only one who are naive, also adults as well.

 
Jolie_77 said:
Everyone knows that once you reach the legal age (which is 18 and over) here in USA, It is of course against the law to have sex (for those who are over 18) with someone who is a minor - hence the Statutory Rape.

Sex is always need to be taken seriously. It can be fun but at the same time, that is when common sense comes in. It is not meant to be taken lightly because of so many reasons that are included. Do I need to go on and on about this? I'm sure you guys have got the picture of what scenarios that can be encountered when un-safe sex comes into this.

Remember, It takes TWO to tango. It is the responsibility of each and every one of us to take up on that to make sure it is taken seriously and safely. Responsibility is another thing that comes into the light as well.
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:gpost: I agree with Jolie here, Well said!!
 
Gemtun said:
Lieb said: I once caught him experiement with condom... Do I yell on him? No, I tried to calm down... and told my hubby about this... Guess what... My hubby said that it´s normal because he did experiment condom out of curious when he was Danny´s age. I was like Oooohhhh.... :eek3: My hubby & Danny made conversation as men... Danny understood... We make sure that he won´t notice that we´re over-protective parents... I tried to communicate with him in general way & open mind, something like that "Oh terrible, what I saw from TV that a guy got AID... teenage preggies, poor, It´s scary... etc... time to time, (not on that day I caught him with condom but on other day). It lead us good conversation... then Danny said to me: Mom, I know what I saw is terrible... I won´t do that... etc..." If I have a daughter then I would do the same to her.

Your children are very lucky to have you. Not all parents are open minded like you and your hubby. You come across as a nonjudgement person. Be very very very glad that Danny was experiementing with condoms because he needs to use condoms EVERY time while having sex. He is learning that condoms and sex come together so that is a good thing.

I would not mind having my girls date your boys as I know that you took good care of them :) I worry about when my girls start dating because it is hard to know if these boys had parents who taught them about sex, respecting women, etc. So many young men dont truly respect young women but see them as sex objects only. It frightens me.

You see so many young women in porno and how older men are addicted to it. Media doesnt help with this issue. :(
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:ty: for compliment.

Yes I always know you are a good mother and don´t mind to have my boys to date your girls... :D

Yes, I can understand it must be scary to know either boys are right for your girls or not... Yes, I know that many young men has no respect young women... I´m agree... It´s important to educate girls or boys to respect and what sex is... I´m also scare sometimes when my boys start to date girls. I will try to not be "over-protect" mother.

Yes, I´m very disgusit about child porn... many preverts addicted to porn. internet or movies...

For teenagers is bit different as preverts, I beleive... Why? Because teenagers experiment their sexuality emotion which is normal - total different as older adults. I would consider older adults as preverts for look child porn., young girls, etc.
 
Taylor said:
Liebling,
You bring up some excellent points but if I could disagree with one thing. One problem with teens today (as you and others have pointed out) is being naive. A young girl *thinks* she is in love and feels that she is in love. If a boy says 'I love you' to her, she takes it with all sincerity and will have sex with him. Unfortunately, to counter this is learned through life experience and isn't necessarily something that parents (or teachers) can. If a girl is 14 and a boy says "I Love You" it means the world to her. Take that same girl but she is 30, "I Love You" takes on a totally different meaning.

And unfortunately, the adults that go after young girls prey upon this. The whole "I will take care of you", "I have strong feelings for you", "I would never hurt you", "You mean the world to me". This is powerful stuff when an adult says it to a young girl, and adults use that as an advantage.
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Just teenagers? Respectfully disagree.

Well, it´s not just teenagers but adult as well who are naive to fall for smooth talkers. Ages make no difference... No matter how ages who are naive... Example: My sister fall in love married man when she was 19 years old and pregnant by him... He told her that he love only her... My sister is not only one but many young adults from 18 years old to 50 or more .... after found out that they are married, have partners, swindle, use for sex, etc.... Why fix the law for teenagers only? Look at poor innoncent adults around...
 
SxyPorkie said:
Yeah I know what you mean... I went in same situation as you did...only that guy i had huge crush was not a cop... he was my teacher...he did not do anything further... we did necked... when he relocated to other state... he got caught and got fired... he was blacklisted .. cannot teach any school anywhere...
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:giggle: I had a big crush on 25 years old teacher when I was 14 years old... He & other teachers know my feeling for him but he kept away from me... (thanks my friends who told him)... 2 years later, we celebrated our last farewell party to end our school edcuation... We went to every class rooms to say goodbye before we left school. Nobody but me, my friend, teacher & other teacher in his class room. Other teacher & my friend persuaded teacher & me to kiss. My face burnt red like tomato... He kissed me (not french kiss, just very soft kiss on my lip) front of other teacher and my friend... and told me that I´m very pretty and take care of myself and wish me best good luck in the future... I know what teacher should not do that but we kept it safety... 23 years later I met him again at school reunion in 1992. I introduced my hubby to teacher... I told my hubby that it´s him, I´m madly crush on... :giggle: He kept on look at me & my hubby ... mmmhhhh I look at him and know it´s crush, not love...
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Just teenagers? Respectfully disagree.

Well, it´s not just teenagers but adult as well who are naive to fall for smooth talkers. Ages make no difference... No matter how ages who are naive... Example: My sister fall in love married man when she was 19 years old and pregnant by him... He told her that he love only her... My sister is not only one but many young adults from 18 years old to 50 or more .... after found out that they are married, have partners, swindle, use for sex, etc.... Why fix the law for teenagers only? Look at poor innoncent adults around...
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Liebling, I did not mean to make it sound as if it was specific to teenagers. You are correct in that many adults are like that also. I just feel that its more of an issue with teenagers. It is also something that older people use to gain the confidence of teenagers.

I do see your point, however, in that when it comes to age, there is only 3 years difference between 18 and 15. While still illegal in many places, An 18 year old dating somebody under 18 does not stink of sexual predator IMO.
 
Calphool said:
I'm taking us even a little more off topic, but I find that very surprising. What if you have a messed up, drug addicted parent who starts prostituting their child? German law allows this?! The State (and therefore the Law) has a role in protecting those who cannot protect themselves, even from their own parents.
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:confused: We have CPS (Youth Welfare Service Department accord children protection law) here in Germany who take care of the children of abusive/neglect/drug addictive parents. Accord children protection law, the school, kindergarten, hospitails or doctors are obligate to inform CPS if they have suspect something wrong with children. Don´t you have the same like this in America or what?

I would suggest you to re-read my response post to Jazzy´s post carefully... I said age unlimited from kid to adult... not just kid/teens where US law fix for them... Here in Germany, we all are being treat the equal from kid to adult what/how we are being force to have unwanted sex etc....

Re-read my post again


Originally Posted by Liebling:)))
No, the European law consider as sex offence/rape if anyone who feel being forced to have sex by married/live in partner (during dometsic volience), partners, strangers or whatever - age unlimited. (from kid to adult)


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Originally Posted by Calphool
The best approach is simply to put people you suspect on Ignore, and then go on with your life. Monitor your kids' Internet activity. Put the computer in the living room, not the bed room. Don't blame others because you unwittingly take on more risk than you realize. If you had never seen a car before, and you started walking down the middle of a busy intersection, would you blame the construction company that made the road when you got hit? Of course not!! You'd learn very quickly that there are things called "cars" and they drive fast on roads, and you have to be careful. Even if the construction company was the best, most responsible construction company in the world, it's not really their job to protect you or your children from things they don't control. Their responsibility is to keep the road working. If that means occassionally removing someone who they think is abusing the road, that's the extent of their responsibility -- they're not a police force -- they're a construction company.
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:confused: Do you come to educate me how to raise my boys?

For your information, my boys were being educated how to take care themselves at kindergarten and from us. My boys are MY responsiblity, not law. I don´t want the government take control of my responsiblity on my boys becausé it´s not their business. It´s their business if I abuse/neglect my boys accord children protection law.

I only have one computer in study room for family and 2 TV at 2 livings room, that´s all.

I would suggest you to read the whole thread here then you will understand where I come from.
 
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Liebling:-))) said:
No, the European law consider as sex offence/rape if anyone who feel being forced to have sex by married/live in partner (during dometsic volience), partners, strangers or whatever - age unlimited. (from kid to adult)
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Do you mean that European law calls it "rape" only if force is used or threatened? Suppose a 30-year-old man uses flattery, sweet words, and gifts to tempt a 12-year-old girl to have sex with him. He doesn't use force or threats. She says she wants to have sex with him. Do you think that is OK? Is that legal in Europe?
 
Reba said:
Do you mean that European law calls it "rape" only if force is used or threatened? Suppose a 30-year-old man uses flattery, sweet words, and gifts to tempt a 12-year-old girl to have sex with him. He doesn't use force or threats. She says she wants to have sex with him. Do you think that is OK? Is that legal in Europe?
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I think what you talk is bit extreme because we didn´t talk about preverts here but general way like few years part what I said in my previous posts... I would suggest you to go back 1st page then read all the whole then you will understand what I´m talking about.

Again, I repeat my explanation. It´s parents who report police on guys or women with age unlimited who tempt to have sex, force to have unwanted sex, seduce to have sex, stalker, etc..etc. which is different from US law who consider the law for teenagers... They stamp 18 years old as sex offender rest of his live because 16 or 17 years old girl let him to have sex with him and they love each other... The couple who love each other is not force because they want to have sex each other. I can image what if I as 16 years old have 19 years old boyfriend whom I love, get in trouble with law because he involved with me... :cold:

Do you really think 12 years old are stupid to fall for 30 years old´s charm talker? Oh come on, 12 years old would scare and run away... They are being educate to aware what right and wrong... I myself was 12 years old and can´t involve with 30 years old and would say that they are tooo old and prevert. A lot of teenagers rather to involve with several year older guys, not 30 or 40 years old... :roll:

Well I answer your hypothetical question.

Of course it´s illegal for 12 years old to have sex with 30 years old.
 
i would agree with posts

but its would be serious laws between girls and boys at 15 and 19 years old but im sure she wouldnt allowed to have sex with older guys that really illegal

im sure mostly parents need to kept eyes of kids do and dont get sex of their kids between 15-19 years old its would be so crazy!
 
You need to know the laws for Statutory Rape. Some places, it is anyone over the age of 18 having sex with someone under the age of 18, while other places in the states have loop holes in that law. In El Paso, I knew a family that tried to take a 30 yr-old to court for having sex with their, at the time, 16 year old daughter. The adult knew that law and knew her age, but they couldn't convict the guy cause she was willing to have sex with him on multply times. Now, normal law says that is Statutory Rape, but cause she was 16 and was willing to have sex more then once, the court treated her like an adult. Now the family needs to fight for child support and the 17 yr old has a kid with someone almost twice her age.
 
Alex said:
Tell me that's against the law. Someone was arguing with me saying it is NOT against the law. :eek3:
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Depends on what, I have a friend who engaged to 12yrs age difference. She was only 15yrs old and he was 28yrs old. They got engaged and very much in love. Normally our country law they have to be over 16yrs old which it is legally do that. Now they are over 20's and 30's.
 
Well it is against the law in this country UK as the age of consent is 16 and anyone who has sex with a younger child has committed an offence. If the victim is under 12, it is classed as rape. If the victim is over 13 and consents, it is unlawful sexual intercourse.
 
Statutory Rape!

IF the older teenager or Adult having sex who is 16yrs old under... still Statutory Rape because their teenager's parent can file rights against you therefore you're still condiser rape their child's under the ages... They can rights press charge against yours...

By the law of Canada.
 
armymech81 said:
You need to know the laws for Statutory Rape. Some places, it is anyone over the age of 18 having sex with someone under the age of 18, while other places in the states have loop holes in that law. In El Paso, I knew a family that tried to take a 30 yr-old to court for having sex with their, at the time, 16 year old daughter. The adult knew that law and knew her age, but they couldn't convict the guy cause she was willing to have sex with him on multply times. Now, normal law says that is Statutory Rape, but cause she was 16 and was willing to have sex more then once, the court treated her like an adult. Now the family needs to fight for child support and the 17 yr old has a kid with someone almost twice her age.
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Of course the girl is willing to have sex with this 30 year old more than once but what was the guy thinking? He has to be out of his mind to be dating a 16 year old let alone having sex with her!
 
Just found out last Christmas, my 18 years old niece is dating 36 years old boyfriend.

There is nothing we can do about it, but not happy with the idea of them item.
 
Opal said:
Just found out last Christmas, my 18 years old niece is dating 36 years old boyfriend.

There is nothing we can do about it, but not happy with the idea of them item.
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Yeah, She is 18 yrs old anything what she want to...

Least she is happy with her boyfriend and stronger longer bond relationship which it's good news..

For me.. scary yes.. honestly.. I hope my children would have find soulmate and closer the age groups.. If not .. so I have to accept and willing open heart for them as long moral support my child no matter what happened!
 
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