should parents lose custody of fat kids?

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One question, since you are of opinion that these parents are helpless.
Should they even be allow to have a child?

Are you seriously implying that because this parent was helpless to prevent her child's biological disorder, she should not have been allowed to have children? Something like that cannot even be predicted.

All I can say is, thank Gawd you are too old to have kids.:cool2:
 
What the hell are you talking about now? You can't mandate a person into parenting classes unless they are a parent.:roll:

Lets see! We force people to take driver's ed before getting a license.
We force lawyers to take the bar exam and pass it first.
We force doctors to take up a residency.
We even force kids to take Sex Ed.
So just what is your problem of making them take parenting classes (and a hard test...at least harder than driver's ed.) before graduation?
 
Lets see! We force people to take driver's ed before getting a license.
We force lawyers to take the bar exam and pass it first.
We force doctors to take up a residency.
We even force kids to take Sex Ed.
So just what is your problem of making them take parenting classes (and a hard test...at least harder than driver's ed.) before graduation?

You really are one of the most offensive and unreasonable people I have ever encountered. Come down off your "holier than thou" throne. You don't deserve to be up there.
 
Are you seriously implying that because this parent was helpless to prevent her child's biological disorder, she should not have been allowed to have children? Something like that cannot even be predicted.

All I can say is, thank Gawd you are too old to have kids.:cool2:

I AM implying that people whom are helpless should not do something as stupid as have a child. There is no implication that these "fat" kids have a biological disorder but a possibility. Parents who do have a child with any disorder should seek professional help. And NO professional will allow a child to get obsess under his/her care.

All I can say is, thank Gawd you had your tubes tired.
 
You really are one of the most offensive and unreasonable people I have ever encountered. Come down off your "holier than thou" throne. You don't deserve to be up there.

You should look up to the truth and not to a rainbow. The truth is black and white.
 
Should not they have an education BEFORE they have a child?

Sure! Get them educated but when real life happens...financial difficulties, trauma, abuse, crises, and etc...what to do?
 
I don't think that's gonna solve anything...America is viewed as the fattest country in the world anyway so...not only kids need to learn how to stay healthy. Adults need to learn that as well.
 
Sure! Get them educated but when real life happens...financial difficulties, trauma, abuse, crises, and etc...what to do?

Don't really know BUT 100% do know what they DO NOT do....have a child!
 
I don't think that's gonna solve anything...America is viewed as the fattest country in the world anyway so...not only kids need to learn how to stay healthy. Adults need to learn that as well.

You, my friend, are very wise.
 
One question, since you are of opinion that these parents are helpless.
Should they even be allow to have a child?

What? You mean you will stand guard over the bed with a shotgun? I can think of better uses for it. :roll:
You have absolutely no idea what you are getting into, so STFU.
 
What? You mean you will stand guard over the bed with a shotgun? I can think of better uses for it. :roll:
You have absolutely no idea what you are getting into, so STFU.

With you, any ADer who makes a logical statement or ask a logical question better watch their back because you will come after that person with a shotgun and shoot.
 
rolling7 - what are you proposing, that fat people get targeted and be forced into parenting classes before having sex?

that fat people cant be good parents? and what would be the criteria to determine a fat person wouldn't make a good parent? I know many fat moms who are the most amazing parents and the very idea of anyone telling them they should take parenting classes because they're fat is unbelievably offensive.

I went up to 200 lbs during each pregnancy - should I have been mandated to take parenting classes because I got fat?

You're being ridiculous.
 
What is the determining factor to use? BMI? Total weight? How old should the child be before it becomes a violation?

Always love to read your posts. Kind of like watching NASCAR for the wrecks. :wave:

Hilarious!
 
One question, since you are of opinion that these parents are helpless.
Should they even be allow to have a child?

Should not they have an education BEFORE they have a child?

Lets see! We force people to take driver's ed before getting a license.
We force lawyers to take the bar exam and pass it first.
We force doctors to take up a residency.
We even force kids to take Sex Ed.
So just what is your problem of making them take parenting classes (and a hard test...at least harder than driver's ed.) before graduation?

I AM implying that people whom are helpless should not do something as stupid as have a child. There is no implication that these "fat" kids have a biological disorder but a possibility. Parents who do have a child with any disorder should seek professional help. And NO professional will allow a child to get obsess under his/her care.

All I can say is, thank Gawd you had your tubes tired.

You should look up to the truth and not to a rainbow. The truth is black and white.

Don't really know BUT 100% do know what they DO NOT do....have a child!

If they are not marathon runners, sterilize them. Is that your plan?

Just where did you get this? Are you going off topic? Marathon runners!?!

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DC, so if I don't STFU Beowulf is coming after me with a shotgun and YOU LIKE this!
 
DC, so if I don't STFU Beowulf is coming after me with a shotgun and YOU LIKE this!

I think he was talking about parents of obese children in the "shotgun" remark. Surprised you missed it.
 
The entire idea of taking away an obese, morbidly obese child is absurd. Like someone asked before, where's the limit, what's the age, who regulates that? Someone would be getting paid to go hunt overweight children instead of going after more things, like human trafficking and pedophiles. Please! Too much time on peoples hands!

Currently, well at least in NYC there are people that go to pediatric clinics to spread information about eating well. Give out information, get interactive with the children. Not all clinics but some. Some parents make mistakes by wrong food choices, but usually because they are completely clueless. Some just don't have the means, because its crazy that healthy food is more expensive. Also, some parents are not there and the kids are parenting themselves. I wouldn't wish foster kid on any child.

It's a horrible place. I've heard first hand stories about it from an old associate. He was starved until he was ninety pounds (he was a teenager) so then when he did get food, I believe by that time he was in another foster home, he ate sooo much he became three hundred pounds. Now he still eats like he may not ever have food again. He's no longer that big. It's too many factors for any type of "regulation" if there was going to be one.

I wanted to be a social worker to help children out, but this in no way is help. Another idea has to be hatched.
 
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