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OK last year I had a great relationship with my girlfriend and we spent everytime together doing somthin exciting! We both loved each other a lot and everything. But during the year sometimes I would act bad to her and we did break up about 4 times and get back together in the next few days :P . But then later that year a horrible thing happend, my friends bday party. Me and my girlfriend and some other people were invited. I was having loads of fun but when we were sitting there, my gf was off doing somhing and it was me and another friend, that is a girl, sitting there, and well........we held hands for some strange reason........dunno why but I didnt tell my girlfriend, I really wanted to tell her but I was afraid I would lose her. During summer she left me a message saying she found out and we broke up. Next year I was really more mature and didnt feel much like a "kid" anymore. I also relized that I really love my ex. WE talked about it and everything went good and she said she liked me too, but she didnt trust me......

any tips would help thanx!
 
If she doesnt trust you then no is no reason for getting back together but to remain as a friend is better having no friend. Stick with it. In the meantime. Enjoy dating with other girl and maybe just maybe the surprise be on your way. Good luck!!
 
You HELD another girl's hand... You are trouble... Look like you can't stop touching all girls' hands..
You need to start move on and start dating other girls until you find a really nice woman and involve in REALLY serious relationship. I don't think you are in serious relationship with any woman. You just like to play around, like touching, talking with other women instead of your girlfriend... A SERIOUS relationship mean you stay with 1 woman, trust, caring, and sharing about everything, it can be involve in marriage and common law marriage.

I am sorry about your break-up with your girlfriend. She doesn't like when you hold other girl's hand, she doesn't like when you talk to other girl, she doesn't trust you with other girls. It's over, and she doesn't want to trust you again, so you need to move on and go find another person. It will happen in the future.
 
Ouch! four times? I think she is too good to be with someone like you, Sorry to say that, but the way it sounds like you're cannot keep your hands to yourself. Even if you say now that you're outgrown of acting like a kid, but I cannot blame her for not trusting you, If you only knew how much a heart broken hurts that's what you did to her before, so you got what you deserved. I understand that you made a mistake, but I think enough is enough really because you put her through so much and there so much she isn't willing to take again.

I think being friends is the best way you can be to her, take it slowly and see what happens, if she decide she doesn't want to get back with you based on trust, then there will not be a relationship cuz relationship is based on trust, and the relationship will lasted long. ;)
 
if you wanted to earn her trust, you best start at telling the truths and sharing a new experience with her upon anything that comes along in between with your relationships and stop trying to fall in a denial stages, you always have to face this up no matter how bad it is, and when it does, things will be better afterwards. honesty and communication is women's top list in their relationship, now get it working started! chop! chop! time is a'wasting!
 
4 times? tsk tsk.....

I can't say I blame your ex gf, I mean it's going to be hard for your ex to earn your trust again....Relationship don't work if there's no trust involved, so it looks like you're going to have to climb the biggest mountain to earn that trust once again....but I warn you it might not be sooner as you're hoping ...And another thing, honestly is the key to save your relationship, once you lie, it doesn't fix things , it make it worse....So think about it dude! :)
 
Yeah, I agree with most others here; renew your fishing license! :P
 
*sigh*

Likely well said as everyone trying to best effort for you stay little remian friend until she'll trust you again.. Probably One day you'll understand more and manners too.
Yes, correct you're not kid anymore.. you're fully grown big as adult now.
 
If I were you, I will MOVE ON! Forget about ex! Its just too much! But your DAMN luckier than me. I have been there and my ex and I were like two freight trains collided each other. I never able to talk with her again and never figured out why she lost her mind. She got PTSD and I do not know what set her off. I do love her like crazy and regret that I made huge mistake with her.
However looking back I think I'd better off forget about her and move on, which I already did.
My BIGGEST ADVICE as guy to guy... do NOT do anything RUSH! I rushed into another woman trying to prove my ex that I am not interested in her anymore which is not true. I ended up have kid with my current woman and wish it had not happened. BUT I think it is BEST thing ever happened to me in many ways. So, do NOT rush and be stupid, but MOVE ON! Trust me, you will find better one for yourself. Plenty of fishes in the ocean, remember?
 
I know exactly how you feel...been there, done that, and already over with.

she doesnt' trust me. I don't trust her. even her own family doesn't trust her either.

she was kind of immature and out of control with all the drinking and smoking and going out with other guys behind my back and she looked so nervous and quite thatI knew she had something else to tell me but wont tell me and just wanted me out of her life so I did as she wished and I feel better moving on without having to stay in an relationship where someone wouldn't trust me and I wouldn't trust her either so she was such a confusing and troubled person, but for some weird reason, I loved her like crazy and I wanted to do anything to make her happy but none of that worked and she just told me to fuck off and I did so better not go back to someone who doesn't trust you, because if she doesn't trust you, then you wouldn't trust her either which would make it more difficult for the both of you. wouldn't want to go there if I were you, though.

worry not, there's still a bunch of other girls who would be hotter, nicer, and better than the girl you once went out with.

breaking up 4 times?!? something tells me that your relationship isn't all healthy and solid, no offense. so u know, maybe you are better off without her and start your life to a new fresh start and move on.

there's still more things coming your way. you'll see. it already happened to me. got a better job, a better car, and still lookin for better girls out there.

good luck.
 
people break ups and gets back together all time like it is their forgiviness and making up or first loves..:roll: I always think its always waste a time unless they finally proved it that it works out pretty well and meant it to be "forever". anyway, its sometimes better to started off as friends so that each of you can put just little bit trust.
 
I'm agree with others here.

4 times? :shock:

I can understand where your ex gf come from. It's very hard for her to trust you again. If you really love her then give her time to trust you BUT it would take her LONG LONG LONG TIME to get her to trust you again. No good...

She already gave you chance for 4th time which it's enough for her. She don't want be hurt for 5th... I'm surprised that she gave you chance for 4th time which it's not normal. To me, I would give them 2nd chance, not 3rd.

I know it's hard for you but I would advise you to move on and look for other gals.
 
HeartGirl said:
Even if he did it ONE TIME??? No 2nd chance?
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He had hurt her four times, Four times is plenty to show that he is no good to her.
 
Snoopypup has not responded; I guess he's renewed his fishing license! LOL!
 
Cheri said:
He had hurt her four times, Four times is plenty to show that he is no good to her.
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oh 4 times... oh well, yeah he blew it many times...
sorry, no more chance. move on. :whistle:
 
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