Unfriendly/Snobbish People

Pomeranian said:
Forgot to add one more thing. Those ppl who are snob or bitching have a very low self esteem. Meaning they dont know how to be happy or make a friend in a friendly way.
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i have had or seen people LASH OUT for no reason... then they will apologize cuz they are having a bad day or something (they tend to have issues/low self-esteem anyway) blah blah... but if they keep doing it repeatedly then i steer clear of them cuz it is not WORTH WALKING ON EGGSHELLS when those kind of people are UNPREDICTABLE and rattle your cage! :ugh:
 
FeistyChick said:
i have had or seen people LASH OUT for no reason... then they will apologize cuz they are having a bad day or something (they tend to have issues/low self-esteem anyway) blah blah... but if they keep doing it repeatedly then i steer clear of them cuz it is not WORTH WALKING ON EGGSHELLS when those kind of people are UNPREDICTABLE and rattle your cage! :ugh:
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Oh man!
 
Yes, I was getting used to see that snooty rich kids at Mayfield High School who don't give a fuck about Deaf people..Some of them are friendly, but sometimes pretend to be nice. I already saw through them for years. They are fucking superficial and dramatic.. I was like oh, geez.. I am glad that I got out of that stinky school more than 10 years ago and heard that they will have 15 years class reunion...of course, I will not bother going there...FUCK THEM!! :sure:
 
Maybe she does not know how to express with you cuz your deafness?
 
eternity said:
I have been extraordinarily snobbish and unfriendly
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Is that a permanent condition, or is it only temporary?

You'll find that being nice will open up many a door for you. Give it a try. :)
 
Katzie said:
and ya know what Nancy? You're no better than her. You're a sweetheart :hug: and we all know it. Besides she has *borrowing Malfy's terms* major yeast infections. ;)
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Ah yes, that was a very good term if I say so myself. No worries, Nancy. You just be the best person you can be...when one is snobbish and unfriendly, it is usually because they are so insecure and do not know how to behave - at least, in a manner that's more so accepted than the other.

:hug: Good luck with the unfriendlies....kill 'em with kindness. That usually works.
 
No one has met a bitch until they meet my bro's ex girlfriend. She has called social services and tried to get my kids taken away, sent nasty letters to my boyfriends mom telling her that our baby isnt his, tried to start trouble at my job to where I had to go take a drug test. The bitch is bipolar and my gma says that I should forgive her for these things because she cannot help it. I cannot stand her and I hope that I never have to lay eyes on her again.
 
Nancy said:
Have you ever met an unfriendly or a snobbish person at work or somewhere else? I have....there is one lady in Felony who is like this around me. I don't know what I did to her....all I can do is just smile and say "Hi". She acts really nice to most people in my department (she hugs some people, but my manager said to me it's unprofessional), but to me, she doesn't smile or even acknowledge me.
One time, I was going to go in the hallway to my department, and she was in front of me....so I opened the door for her (trying to be nice)...all she did was wave her hands really fast like "GO ON!" and then walk out when I went past her. Another time, I said "Hi" to her with a smile on my face, and I know she saw me, she just turned her head like I don't exist.
I don't know what she's got against me :ugh2: , but I think she's got an attitude problem.
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The snobbish and unfriendly are the ones who are egotisical about themselves and are in apathy about others. Those people need to die.

Just ignore him/her and get on with your important things and find more nice people.
 
maybe that person has a personal problem. Being a phony to everyone else, and show you her true self.
 
sometime those snobbish people might have a bad day themselves. when they do.. they like to jump on others unfortunely. watch out for grumpy people and get to know them before you decide they are snobbish.
 
true, spicehd,
my cousin is same way,
she frown at me... cause she was jealous of me.
Her mom and dad do drugs sometimes.
And she adores my mom.
And her brother has severe Cerebral Palsey...
And her friend, she lied to us that he is her boyfriend...
but he rolled his eyes....
 
rjr2006 said:
last year, I had a deaf paraprofessional who was very rude to me and he gave me the food that I didn't want to eat. He also interfered my interpreter by asking her what to write down. it was very tough, because he was deaf and he went to ASD (school for the deaf in Hartford)

Then the school hired other paraprofessional and she had spiky hair. She was very RRRRRUUUUDDDDDDDEEEEE and unfriendly to me and other people. She yelled really loud in my English class then my interpreter got very upset and she started telling her to STOP YELLING at me. In all classes, Susan A (paraprofessional) only played with her spiky hair and didn't care about my deafness. She also changed her hair to orange, purple, and red. yucky!
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yeah, it is true. All students at the school for the deaf are snobbish people, same as experience snob to me ever my exes and classmates.
 
matajan said:
yeah, it is true. All students at the school for the deaf are snobbish people, same as experience snob to me ever my exes and classmates.
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LOL, that's not true, man.

I went to deaf school before and not all students are doing like that so you will have same issues with hearing people too.
 
Foxrac said:
LOL, that's not true, man.

I went to deaf school before and not all students are doing like that so you will have same issues with hearing people too.
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how come?

do you think hearing prep students do always snob to deafies?
 
Nancy said:
Have you ever met an unfriendly or a snobbish person at work or somewhere else? I have....there is one lady in Felony who is like this around me. I don't know what I did to her....all I can do is just smile and say "Hi". She acts really nice to most people in my department (she hugs some people, but my manager said to me it's unprofessional), but to me, she doesn't smile or even acknowledge me.
One time, I was going to go in the hallway to my department, and she was in front of me....so I opened the door for her (trying to be nice)...all she did was wave her hands really fast like "GO ON!" and then walk out when I went past her. Another time, I said "Hi" to her with a smile on my face, and I know she saw me, she just turned her head like I don't exist.
I don't know what she's got against me :ugh2: , but I think she's got an attitude problem.
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Try not to let this person get to you , you do not want to get upset at work . she is not worth making your day bad. There are snobbish people evrey where. Some time I will hold a door open for a person and they'll say nothing and I will say you're welcome. I once saw man pushing aW/C and trying to carry a box ,he was having a hard time and asked ifhe needed help .I was with my hearing dog and was carrying some books . I carried the empty box for the guy and he kept looking back at me to make I was not trying to steal his cardboard box! The guy did not thank me at all . What a jerk.
 
matajan said:
how come?

do you think hearing prep students do always snob to deafies?
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because I already have my experience at deaf school since I used to be student at this school.

No, that's not what I was talking.

Both of deaf people and hearing people do drama so no difference.
 
whatdidyousay! said:
Try not to let this person get to you , you do not want to get upset at work . she is not worth making your day bad. There are snobbish people evrey where. Some time I will hold a door open for a person and they'll say nothing and I will say you're welcome. I once saw man pushing aW/C and trying to carry a box ,he was having a hard time and asked ifhe needed help .I was with my hearing dog and was carrying some books . I carried the empty box for the guy and he kept looking back at me to make I was not trying to steal his cardboard box! The guy did not thank me at all . What a jerk.
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Not sure that is an ADer anymore.....This thread just got bumped from a 5 year sleep
 
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